Kilgore Trout
Misanthropic Humanist
for my opinion about "slap of love " (which i told that woman fall in love more and more when she slapped by her man , when she got wrong with him "
Are you sure you aren't confusing Islam with S&M?
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for my opinion about "slap of love " (which i told that woman fall in love more and more when she slapped by her man , when she got wrong with him "
I am sure , what about you , are you sure when you considerate the jaeolous as coward is over and a reason to let your wife cheat on you ?Are you sure you aren't confusing Islam with S&M?
I am sure , what about you , are you sure when you considerate the jaeolous as coward is over and a reason to let your wife cheat on you ?
accuatly what i am sure about is" beat" insubordinate womanHadith explicitly forbids getting anywhere near the face with regards to "beating". Your definition seems to make room for slapping/punching, and even harsh beating because the wife is supposedly "insubordinate".
I just want to check your last post , because you shocked me , when you tell me if I jealous i am cowardMy wife would never cheat on me. She likes that I'm not a coward and that I don't beat her. If I became a jealous, insecure weakling who started hitting her, then I wouldn't blame her for cheating. Women prefer to be with real men. Well, at least my wife does.
first i guess you misunderstand my definition for jeolous is :
when you see her talking with some and smilling to him and maybe kiss his cheeks
or dance with her ...etc
My wife would never cheat on me. She likes that I'm not a coward and that I don't beat her. If I became a jealous, insecure weakling who started hitting her, then I wouldn't blame her for cheating. Women prefer to be with real men. Well, at least my wife does.
I just want to check your last post , because you shocked me , when you tell me if I jealous i am coward
first i guess you misunderstand my definition for jeolous is :
when you see her talking with some one (forgien) man and smilling to him and maybe kiss his cheeks
or dance with her ...etc
I just want to check your last post , because you shocked me , when you tell me if I jealous i am coward
first i guess you misunderstand my definition for jeolous is :
when you see her talking with some one (forgien) man and smilling to him and maybe kiss his cheeks
or dance with her ...etc
your husband saw that ?Can i please add, at my wedding, I danced, chatted, smiled at many men and yes they even kissed me on the cheek, even the minister gave me a kiss. Does that count as cheating?
Edit: I also danced with some too.
your husband saw that ?
maybe , and if you see your wife dancing with some one , you will be jealous or you had open mind ?if your wife smiling and talking with another man makes you angry enough to hit her, then yes, you are insecure, jealous, and a coward.
your husband saw that ?
maybe , and if you see your wife dancing with some one , you will be jealous or you had open mind ?
My wife has danced with other men at many functions and situations. Mature, secure people have no problem with this. Dancing is not cheating. Smiling is not cheating. Talking is not cheating. The irony is that people who try to control their partner because they are jealous, are more likely to end up driving their partner away and eventually causing them to cheat.
I would definitely feel bad if I saw my wife dancing with another man, and it would most likely break our relationship. The thing is, you don't find out that she has no problem doing so overnight; you marry someone who shares similar views and values to avoid having to desperately "slap" her in an attempt to revive your relationship.
However unlikely it is for this to happen, I'd just divorce her, because by slapping her not only would I be desperate, but also degrading myself. What's the point of forcing her back into marriage through a slap when I know she doesn't respect me?
I would definitely feel bad if I saw my wife dancing with another man, and it would most likely break our relationship. The thing is, you don't find out that she has no problem doing so overnight; you marry someone who shares similar views and values to avoid having to desperately "slap" her in an attempt to revive your relationship.
However unlikely it is for this to happen, I'd just divorce her, because by slapping her not only would I be desperate, but also degrading myself. What's the point of forcing her back into marriage through a slap when I know she doesn't respect me?
look Draka , maybe you are the only one that i felt that you understand my point .Jealously is born of a sense of ownership and insecurity and inability to trust (which most often has more to do with the jealous person than the person not trusted). If Kilgore Trout does not feel he owns his wife, is not insecure in himself, and trusts his wife...then he has no need to be jealous if she speaks with another man.