the authority of her husband begin at the first day , but of course with love and respect , and care each other . it's acuatly looks like slave and master , but it's it's not .I don't think it's cultural hubris to say this: IMO, beating one's wife is incompatible with loving her, and treating her as property (even with some bizarre rationalization about her being "voluntary" property) is incompatible with respecting her.
And I question how much of a free choice the situation is for her. In a Muslim society, what sort of life would a woman have if she did leave her husband. If her other choice is destitution, then we have to assume that her decision to stay - if this is really her decision - is coerced.
it's the best way of living for my opinion
the woman in Islam she had limited freedom she need to had the permission of her husband in some cases as my early exemple.