Trailblazer
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Just because I do not care 'enough' about sex, or should I say I don't care as much about sex as most men do, that does not mean I am an asexual. Moreover, if I was 'in love' with a man, I might very well care about sex.
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Nobody wants me
- Thread starter Trailblazer
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Nonsense. Weird is more interesting than normal.
That's what I think, too, but apparently, I cross some lines...
When my husband went to meet my Grandmother(who I get along with well, and is one of my favorite people) to announce our upcoming marriage, she about spit out her drink and said "Her? Are you sure? She's really weird!"
That one stung a bit, simply from who it came from.
Also had a friend who was an ex traveler, meaning he went around the country on a big bus full of hippies, panhandling to make ends meet. He ran into some pretty colorful characters. He also told me that I'm the weirdest person he's ever met.
So, I do think I'd struggle to meet another who could keep up with my eccentricities.
Trailblazer
Veteran Member
I already tried that, just out of curiosity, but I did not find anyone on any websites.
I am not really asexual, I just cancelled sex through lack of interest.
I could renew my subscription if I got interested again, and if a man will help me with the cats he might get exactly what he wants!
What kind of a sex drive are you hoping for coming from a potential partner?
Secret Chief
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You'd be fine. Maybe just a little less finger pulling?
Secret Chief
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I already tried that, just out of curiosity, but I did not find anyone on any websites.
I am not really asexual, I just cancelled sex through lack of interest.
I could renew my subscription if I got interested again, and if a man will help me with the cats he might get exactly what he wants!
There's a site for everyone!
- PurrDates | Find People Who Love Cats and Maybe You
Surprisingly, the finger pulling is never a problem(at least not with the type I tended to be interested in). Although if I am totally honest, I tend to be more of a burper than a farter.
Unless cheap ice cream gets brought into the equation... Best to pay that extra dollar or two and get quality stuff, for the sake of the environment....
I think the trouble is more in tastes, sense of humor, and the way my brain works.
Secret Chief
Veteran Member
You should eat less kale.
Secret Chief
Veteran Member
You're so thoughtful.The more I don't eat, the more that's left for you....
Trailblazer
Veteran Member
I would prefer that he had a low sex drive, since I don't know how I am going to feel about having sex.
I cannot see myself ever having sex as a priority in a relationship again, so there would be no advantage to me if he had a high sex drive.
Ella S.
Well-Known Member
I am writing to let you know that I am quite sure that this is not an issue with you.
Dating sites and apps are well-known for fostering hookup culture, even the ones that are ostensibly meant to provide a reprieve from this. It's a common issue for admins of almost any site to prevent this sort of culture from developing among its users, but the issue is compounded due to the nature of these services.
This is also something of a self-fulfilling prophecy. The more that dating sites and apps gain a reputation for hookup culture, the more attractive they are to those seeking hookups and the less attractive they are to those looking for deeper and more emotionally fulfilling long-term relationships.
20 years ago, the situation was quite different, but over time these factors have produced a dramatic change in the way these sites operate. I think you're merely "barking up the wrong tree" as the saying goes. You would be far from the first person to have this issue and you are unlikely to be the last.
Dating sites and apps are well-known for fostering hookup culture, even the ones that are ostensibly meant to provide a reprieve from this. It's a common issue for admins of almost any site to prevent this sort of culture from developing among its users, but the issue is compounded due to the nature of these services.
This is also something of a self-fulfilling prophecy. The more that dating sites and apps gain a reputation for hookup culture, the more attractive they are to those seeking hookups and the less attractive they are to those looking for deeper and more emotionally fulfilling long-term relationships.
20 years ago, the situation was quite different, but over time these factors have produced a dramatic change in the way these sites operate. I think you're merely "barking up the wrong tree" as the saying goes. You would be far from the first person to have this issue and you are unlikely to be the last.
I know this feeling. Its mostly impression though, so don't think much about it. Some men love cats. Some don't. Some change their minds about it. There are shots for cat allergies. There are systems that clean up all of the dander and fluff and suck it out of the air and neutralize it.
Maybe a simple dating service isn't enough. What about hiring a PR student who is in college and getting them to promote you?
Trailblazer
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I never heard of that. Can you explain what you mean by that?
Trailblazer
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There are still come people who still want me.
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Ellie, Silky & Atticus
I should not say that 'nobody wants me' because there is one man who might want me, but there are problems with him moving to where I live, and I cannot go to where he lives. Isn't it always something?
But stay tuned, I might be able to at least get him to come here and see what it's like. It is better than where he is now, I know that.
If one does that, my advice is you would both have to move. I have experienced that situation, when one has to move, it needs to be a joint effort.
Regards Tony