You see, you assumed that I was reciting events that took place in my family, in front of me, in order to discredit you. You assumed that while I'm talking about me, it's really all about you. How arrogant is that, actually?
When you attack my brothers, you attack me. Just as Jesus said....what you do to his brothers, you do to him.
Why are you surprised that I would defend them?
What you insinuated was that all JW's are reflected in your family's particular experience. As I said...who can make a judgment with one (biased) side of a story? The internet is full of them. All vitriolic and full of malice and hate. Do you know why? They have nowhere else to go.
It's like an unripe piece of fruit...it comes to maturity and if it is not used at its best, and it is taken out of the bowl, it doesn't go back to being green...it just goes bad. Jesus said we would identify his true disciples "by their fruits"...bad fruit is hardly an acceptable offering to God. Can any human organization be entirely free of bad examples? Only in a perfect world....so let's not pretend that all of Jehovah's Witnesses are reflected in your biased account of your personal story...OK?
The obvious insinuation you're making is that no person who's ever had a bad experience with JW's can ever speak of that experience because somehow, that's going to be all about YOU.
Sorry Marisa but you don't seem to be able to rise above your own prejudice. Bad things happen to everyone. We never claimed to be perfect. Do you know of any human organization on earth who does not have experience with a few bad apples? I refer to Judas again. The son of God chose him as an apostle, yet at some point, he failed to remain disciplined and fell to greed for material gain. He'd had his hand in the money box for some time. No one is immune to sin.
Ironically, in taking this tact, you rather do confirm some of the things that I've commented about MY experience with the JW's in MY family as applying rather more broadly. So, thanks for that!
But then, you are looking for ways to reinforce and feed your intense dislike for JW's. That is what comes across in your comments.
There are many on these forums who seem "hell" bent on bad-mouthing one of the most peaceful and happy people on earth. As a collective, we do so much better in life than the majority of those who call themselves "Christians" because we actually try very hard to live up to ALL the teachings of Jesus Christ...including the inconvenient parts. You won't find jails full of JW criminals, we don't go to war, we don't meddle in politics, we don't lie or steal, we try hard to keep our marriages together with love and forgiveness and we try to raise well adjusted and balanced children in a world that seeks to corrupt every human sensibility. None of us do it perfectly however. Some mess up big time and incur sometimes painful discipline. We make no apology for that....but at the same time, we cannot bring accusations against brothers without proof and witnesses. It is a fair system but a judicial one based on Jehovah's laws. We wouldn't have it any other way.
If your experience has been unpleasant...I'm sorry to say, you are not alone.....but telling one side of a story that is designed to malign the entire brotherhood is not being truthful.
I have lived and worked with these people for over 40 years and even though none of my brothers is any more perfect than I am, they try harder than any other people on earth to live a Christian life and follow God's rules for living in this world. (1John 2:15-17: 5:19)