Orphanage or gay parents

[McBell]

personally i would rather live in an orphanage. i could not cope with the idea of living with a homosexual couple. although i don't care what people think, i would have trouble being in such a situation.

Have you lived in an orphanage?
Have you lived with a same sex couple?

If not, what is your basis for comparison?

 

[nnmartin]

eselam:

I agree - an orphanage or foster home is far better for the child.

It's unnatural to be brought up by two parents of the same sex, especially two men.

How would a young boy know what was expected of him once reaching 12 or so?

think of Freud and all the actions we do in life that are related to sexuality.

why would a young boy want to impress the girls in the school football team if he thought that love meant something different to what it should be?

chances are he'd end up sitting out on the sidelines confused and bewildered.

How about the lesbian couple that promoted their incorrect feminist agenda onto their young child.

a young child should be introduced into life in the most normal way possible as regards to sexuality - leave the same sex arrangements to adults that know how to deal with the difference.

Actually I would say that same-sex adoption is a form of child abuse.

 

[nnmartin]

Have you lived in an orphanage?
Have you lived with a same sex couple?

If not, what is your basis for comparison?

have you?

do you have anything to say here or are you just content to go round in your inane circle of pointless questions and one-liners?

 

[McBell]

I agree - an orphanage or foster home is far better for the child.

It's unnatural to be brought up by two parents of the same sex, especially two men.

How would a young boy know what was expected of him once reaching 12 or so?

think of Freud and all the actions we do in life that are related to sexuality.

why would a young boy want to impress the girls in the school football team if he though that love meant something different to what it should be?

chances are he'd end up sitting out on the sidelines confused and bewildered.

How about the lesbian couple that promoted their incorrect feminist agenda onto their young child.

a young child should be introduced into life in the most normal way possible as regards to sexuality - leave the same sex arrangements to adults that know how to deal with the difference.

Actually I would say that same-sex adoption is a form of child abuse.

now you are back to chasing your tail...

 

[Gharib]

Have you lived in an orphanage?
Have you lived with a same sex couple?

If not, what is your basis for comparison?

i can do without luxury and i can cope on my own very well mentally. but i would find it would find it difficult to cope and explain the actions of other people. if i was an orphan then it is obvious my parents died or something and i nor them had any power to prevent it, but in a gay home, what do i say there?

 

[Me Myself]

I agree - an orphanage or foster home is far better for the child.

It's unnatural to be brought up by two parents of the same sex, especially two men.

How would a young boy know what was expected of him once reaching 12 or so?

think of Freud and all the actions we do in life that are related to sexuality.

why would a young boy want to impress the girls in the school football team if he though that love meant something different to what it should be?

chances are he'd end up sitting out on the sidelines confused and bewildered.

How about the lesbian couple that promoted their incorrect feminist agenda onto their young child.

a young child should be introduced into life in the most normal way possible as regards to sexuality - leave the same sex arrangements to adults that know how to deal with the difference.

Actually I would say that same-sex adoption is a form of child abuse.

I would love to know the answers to all of this questions from an orphanage child.

You know them? they probably wouldn´t even have the balls to approach the girl, becaus they would be sure they won´t be loved in return. No one else has loved them, what would the girl see in them anyways?

About knowing what´s "expected" of him and if you mean atraction to females, that happens when he finds out his penis erects when seeing females. It´s a natural proccess to happen if he is straight.

It´s not like the family is the only enviroment they have.

About lesbians promoting feminist agendas that´s so ridiculously brute thing to say I don´t know how to even begin making you understand that if you don´t get it by simply revising the thought once more.

 

[McBell]

have you?

No to the first, yes to the second.
Not that it is relevant for I am not one who is making claims.
Of course, unlike some others, eselam is not saying his personal preference should be forced on all mankind....

do you have anything to say here or are you just content to go round in your inane circle of pointless questions and one-liners?

I am not the one driving the thread round in circles...

Would you prefer that I follow your example and merely spout loads and loads of nonsense hoping someone will agree with it?

 

[Gharib]

eselam:

I agree - an orphanage or foster home is far better for the child.

It's unnatural to be brought up by two parents of the same sex, especially two men.

How would a young boy know what was expected of him once reaching 12 or so?

think of Freud and all the actions we do in life that are related to sexuality.

why would a young boy want to impress the girls in the school football team if he though that love meant something different to what it should be?

chances are he'd end up sitting out on the sidelines confused and bewildered.

How about the lesbian couple that promoted their incorrect feminist agenda onto their young child.

a young child should be introduced into life in the most normal way possible as regards to sexuality - leave the same sex arrangements to adults that know how to deal with the difference.

Actually I would say that same-sex adoption is a form of child abuse.

i agree mostly, the parts i would have trouble with are the mental challenges trying to understand and explain to myself how homosexuality is ok when most other kids would not be in the same situation.

 

[Madhuri]

i can do without luxury and i can cope on my own very well mentally. but i would find it would find it difficult to cope and explain the actions of other people. if i was an orphan then it is obvious my parents died or something and i nor them had any power to prevent it, but in a gay home, what do i say there?

Not knowing what to say to other people is your major concern?

 

[McBell]

i can do without luxury and i can cope on my own very well mentally. but i would find it would find it difficult to cope and explain the actions of other people. if i was an orphan then it is obvious my parents died or something and i nor them had any power to prevent it, but in a gay home, what do i say there?

Why would you need to 'defend' your being placed in a home with same sex couples?

 

[Me Myself]

i agree mostly, the parts i would have trouble with are the mental challenges trying to understand and explain to myself how homosexuality is ok when most other kids would not be in the same situation.

Everyone knows that minorities are moraly incorrect.

 

[Gharib]

Not knowing what to say to other people is your major concern?

not to other people, to myself. if i am able to explain to myself that it is ok, i would just as easy be able to explain it to other people. but it's me who cannot accept it as something normal. and add to that pressure from other kids by making fun etc that would be harsh on me.

and it is also different if i was to accept it as normal and others didn't since i don't care what others think.

 

[dyanaprajna2011]

For those who say an orphanage is better. Live in one first, then come back so you can sing us a different tune.

 

[Gharib]

Why would you need to 'defend' your being placed in a home with same sex couples?

just as i need to defend my beliefs, which are my choice, on this forum and out of it.

 

[Me Myself]

Part of the adotion process is that the kids feel confortable with the aspiring parents.

If they don´t, then adoption generaly doesn´t happen. If they are not even presented with the option of this parents, then a lot more kids in orphanages who would rather be adopted and loved.

 

[dyanaprajna2011]

Part of the adotion process is that the kids feel confortable with the aspiring parents.

If they don´t, then adoption generaly doesn´t happen. If they are not even presented with the option of this parents, then a lot more kids in orphanages who would rather be adopted and loved.

Maybe in Ecuador, not in the States.

 

[McBell]

just as i need to defend my beliefs, which are my choice, on this forum and out of it.

That does not answer the question.

At least for me.


So, why do you feel the need to 'defend' your beliefs?

 

[Gharib]

Everyone knows that minorities are moraly incorrect.

not necessarily, it depends if the act is moral or not. Muslims are a minority in their belief that adultery is immoral, however that doesn't mean we are wrong. what is wrong is to cheat on you spouse. if one does not love their spouse divorce them so they can at least get on with life.

 

[Gharib]

That does not answer the question.

At least for me.


So, why do you feel the need to 'defend' your beliefs?

because people misinterpret them and change the meaning knowingly or unknowingly due to their disliking of what i believe.

 

[McBell]

because people misinterpret them and change the meaning knowingly or unknowingly due to their disliking of what i believe.

And?

I am sorry, but I just do not understand the need to constantly be trying to correct people.
Is not your belief in your beliefs strong enough to withstand the ignorance of others?