I never said life would be easy.
If only it were that easy.
Some of them should. Many, for one reason or another, can't.
Perhaps it is for some, but no one has a right to the life of Riley.
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I never said life would be easy.
If only it were that easy.
Some of them should. Many, for one reason or another, can't.
That sounds like a strawman. We are discussing not what the parents provide but what the government institutions separate from parent groups like the PTA provide. These are very different things. Would you like to try again?Because they can.
No children should be forced to endure the lowest common denominator
education when their parents are willing to pay for more..
Because parents have the option of spending more money on their own kids.
Being wealthy allows bigger houses, faster cars, better vacations, fancier food, snappier clothing.
There's no reason they shouldn't be able to provide their kids with a better education.
Would you say they should be prevented from improving their kid's education above the standard state level?
This isn't a Marxist paradise......yet.
Physician heal thyself. Don't criticise your brother for the mote in his eye. Buy a mirror. Insert whatever criticism of hypocritical lack of self awareness you like.
Not to mention that these arguments seek to assert that it is ok for these people to suffer as they are suffering for their bad decisions yet fail to acknowledge the child did not choose anything. Somehow the child's suffering, through no "bad decision" of his or her own is justified as having to suffer because giving any support would be enabling the parents and letting the parents take advantage of us.I find this whole blame-poor-people-for-having-children discussion fascinating.
Sure, people should be prudent about the financial obligations involved with having children. But just as obviously it’s not that simple.
The conservative response is contradictory:
1. They do not support abortion as an option.
2. They do not support robust sex education.
3. They do not support public health services for family planning.
4. They do not support public aid when children are inevitably had.
5. And then they blame people for having kids they can’t afford.
The argument that poor people shouldn’t have children— or should give them up— is also interesting. This is such a basic human need, experience, and right. I can’t imagine the idea that procreation, and raising children, should be something only allowed the rich. The idea seems to be that poor people should be punished by lifetime poverty for choosing to have children. No aid shall be offered, only blame and literally generations of repercussions, just because someone had unprotected sex at some point, or because they felt the basic instinct to have a child.
Like I said, interesting.
...considering you weren't asking me a question, I don't see how I'm ducking anything.I see you know how to duck a question. Was I wrong?
To be fair they happen to a much lesser degree in the U.S....considering you weren't asking me a question, I don't see how I'm ducking anything.
Were you wrong? To the extent you were criticizing India for things that happen in your own country, yes.
You're over complicating this. A certain faction of judgemental moralisers don't like people having sex for pleasure, let alone out of marriage, and like to use pregnancy and children as a punishment. Anything thaat removes or lessens the effectiveness of the threat, either by removing it or mittigating the consequences will always be anathema to them.I find this whole blame-poor-people-for-having-children discussion fascinating.
Sure, people should be prudent about the financial obligations involved with having children. But just as obviously it’s not that simple.
The conservative response is contradictory:
1. They do not support abortion as an option.
2. They do not support robust sex education.
3. They do not support public health services for family planning.
4. They do not support public aid when children are inevitably had.
5. And then they blame people for having kids they can’t afford.
The argument that poor people shouldn’t have children— or should give them up— is also interesting. This is such a basic human need, experience, and right. I can’t imagine the idea that procreation, and raising children, should be something only allowed the rich. The idea seems to be that poor people should be punished by lifetime poverty for choosing to have children. No aid shall be offered, only blame and literally generations of repercussions, just because someone had unprotected sex at some point, or because they felt the basic instinct to have a child.
Like I said, interesting.
To a lesser degree, sure, however degree wasn't mentioned in the post I was referring to. Further, given that @BSM1 seems to be a LMC conservative straight down the line, the sec8nd sentence of your post is particularly relevent. He might criticise India for their poverty, but I doubt very much he's particularly interested in doing anything practical to combat it in the States.To be fair they happen to a much lesser degree in the U.S.
However if the many conservatives and libertarians had their way all social welfare programs would be destroyed.
I do understand that is true in many so-called "conservative" areas, but conservatism is not a monolithic thing. Those to the left of traditional conservative often bristle when painted with the same tarred brush.The conservative response is contradictory:
Not true for all of us. In one of my posts above I stated that abortion is a suitable choice in some cases.1. They do not support abortion as an option.
I have repeatedly stated that people should have to go to sex education seminars.2. They do not support robust sex education.
I'm certainly in favor of this. It's a bit of a no-brainer, really.3. They do not support public health services for family planning.
I don't think I've heard anyone say that public aid should not be given to those who need it most.4. They do not support public aid when children are inevitably had.
Again, abortion is always a reasonable choice, especially in the first trimester. Late term abortions, unless the mother's health is in danger, is not desirable, imho.5. And then they blame people for having kids they can’t afford.
Holy hysteria, Batman. I simply do not believe that having a family is a basic human right. It's certainly not like there is any lack of humans on the planet. Likewise, it would be my guess that the "poor" have far more children than rich families. Look all over the Third world and what do you see?The argument that poor people shouldn’t have children— or should give them up— is also interesting. This is such a basic human need, experience, and right. I can’t imagine the idea that procreation, and raising children, should be something only allowed the rich. The idea seems to be that poor people should be punished by lifetime poverty for choosing to have children. No aid shall be offered, only blame and literally generations of repercussions, just because someone had unprotected sex at some point, or because they felt the basic instinct to have a child.
Like I said, interesting.
I suppose that if you set the volume low, & can't quite
make out the words, it could be a soothing white noise.
Is white noise racist?
Because they can.
No children should be forced to endure the lowest common denominator
education when their parents are willing to pay for more..
Because parents have the option of spending more money on their own kids.
Being wealthy allows bigger houses, faster cars, better vacations, fancier food, snappier clothing.
There's no reason they shouldn't be able to provide their kids with a better education.
Would you say they should be prevented from improving their kid's education above the standard state level?
This isn't a Marxist paradise......yet.
But why do you think that is? Because all research indicates it's because of lack of education coupled with lack of access to contraceptives.Holy hysteria, Batman. I simply do not believe that having a family is a basic human right. It's certainly not like there is any lack of humans on the planet. Likewise, it would be my guess that the "poor" have far more children than rich families. Look all over the Third world and what do you see?
No.That sounds like a strawman.
...considering you weren't asking me a question, I don't see how I'm ducking anything.
Were you wrong? To the extent you were criticizing India for things that happen in your own country, yes.
To a lesser degree, sure, however degree wasn't mentioned in the post I was referring to. Further, given that @BSM1 seems to be a LMC conservative straight down the line, the sec8nd sentence of your post is particularly relevent. He might criticise India for their poverty, but I doubt very much he's particularly interested in doing anything practical to combat it in the States.
I, of course, am happy to be proven wrong on that last point and will apologise unreservedly if so.
If.
Some things must be taken in small doses.Yes, I think a constant diet of Fox news is making me crazy. How much more peaceful life could be without politics...
You're wrong to oppose addressing school funding.One way or another, you're missing the point.
This is government money. School fund raising is nothing to do with it.
U.S. Rare in Spending More Money on the Education of Rich Children - Sociological Images
Um, I know exactly what you were discussing. It was posted in open thread. That's how I could comment on it in the first place.Again, you have no idea what @BSM1 espouses politically; and you have no idea what was being discussed in the OP cited. Knee jerk reactions should be confined to the doctor's office.
This post is awfully presumptive & personally critical.To a lesser degree, sure, however degree wasn't mentioned in the post I was referring to. Further, given that @BSM1 seems to be a LMC conservative straight down the line, the sec8nd sentence of your post is particularly relevent. He might criticise India for their poverty, but I doubt very much he's particularly interested in doing anything practical to combat it in the States.