Peace to all in this thread!
My view on homosexuality is quite simple. i will try my level best to explain it but please bare with me as i have not really had this discussion before and i am sure my view will develop as this thread does in time.
In my opinion i feel that homosexuality is a choice. Not only is it a choice but it is on that is unnatural to the person at hand to begin with. if you look at all creation you can see that all things are made in pairs, even plants. it is logical to then assume that the male and female were almost designed for each other.
Homosexuality is developed in a person?
how? well let me give you an example;
People all over the world are born either left handed or right handed. Those that are left handed are less dexterous with their right hand and vice versa. Similary, people are born heterosexual. They are thus less inclined to the same sex.
I remember that before my younger brother was sitting a very important exam, he had broken his writing hand (left hand) and thus could not write with it. In an effort to allow him to sit the exam without any disadvantage, we taught him how to use his right hand. Thus we trained him against his natural set up but non the less he was able to write very well with his right hand. Now he is bi-manual.
Similarly homosexuals are born heterosexual. However, due to exterior influences they are entrained against their natural behavior. Once a person allows homosexual thoughts into their mind and does not reject them, slowly these influences will manifest in physiological instance of arousal and attraction to the same sex.
Homosexuality is at its peak today and in greater numbers than it has ever been. Some will argue that this is because now that it is more socially acceptable, people are unafraid of emerging from their 'closet'. However, i feel it is due to the fact that a greater proportion of individuals are inclined to this lifestyle now as it is publicized and promoted as being 'cool'.
Gay individuals are shown to be great fun, good friends to women and more in touch with their feminine side and thus it is a more desirable lifestyle choice.
If you think that homosexuality is not a manifestation of ill, unnatural thoughts and a lack of self control as well as a lack of control of ones desires then you must agree that being bisexual is also a natural way of life and not a choice. If you believe that being bisexual and being homosexual is not a choice then i ask you what about the paedophile? Does the paedophile not deserve any sympathy? he/she too must be one who has not chosen their way of life according to your way of thinking. Can paedophiles help what is sexually arousing to them? no they cant. the only difference is that children cannot consent to sex and there is the dilema. homosexuals generaly recieve consent before any sexual act, but the paedophile cannot gain consent from the other involved unless he come to the parent and asks them! what would you say if you were approached by a paedophile who told you he didnt choose this way of life, he was mad ethis way but would like consent? i know what i woudl say.
Thus, paedophiles, homosexual and bisexuals suffer fromt he same causative factor. That is that they have allowed unnatural thoughts ideas and feelings to creep into their mind. Pornography distorts the mind and numbs ones sexual appetite, thus they go looking for something new and wild. Society today promotes Homosexuality and it is broadcasted more and more on TV as if it is a Cool way to live.
If these three were natural then let me ask you, why is it that there are so many health risks associated with homosexual intercourse, especially anal sex. If it is soo natural then why is it that one reasilizes their sexuality later on in life and not immediately or before the age of 10? i know i was heterosexual from a very early age.
Thus in conclusion, it is perverted thoughts and entrainment that leads to one being homosexual. We are not born homo, bi, or paedo it is our experiences and what we allow to settle in our minds and when we are desir/pleasure driven that leads to these lifestyles and manifests in our actions.
I would just like to say, i hope i did not offend any one, i am only trying to be honest in my opinion. If you disagree with me then please tell me why and i will refelct ont hat and ge tback to you as soon as possible.
Many Thanks,
Jamal
