When people lean on It's truth to me, it seems that they are making themselves the epistemological foundation. Rather than the reality in which we live. I have been wrong about reality in all sorts of ways over the course of my life. If I approached the world with It is truth to me as being a satisfactory foundation, I could never have been corrected,
There's the difference between the empiricist and the faith-based thinker. Only one is amenable to evidence. Only one can be shown his errors and modify his beliefs.
As you likely already know, the moderator in the debate between Ken Ham and Bill Nye on whether creationism is a viable scientific pursuit asked them, “What would change your minds?” Scientist Bill Nye answered, “Evidence.” Young Earth Creationist Ken Ham answered, “Nothing. I'm a Christian.” Elsewhere, Ham stated, “By definition, no apparent, perceived or claimed evidence in any field, including history and chronology, can be valid if it contradicts the scriptural record."
God did not write the OT, men wrote about God.
Agreed. So why read it except for the reason one would read The Iliad - as literature with cultural significance? I might take advice from a deity, but not from ancient people who knew less about how the world works that any of us living today do, and whose moral (and intellectual) development lag behind the humanist's.
I do not believe that God is responsible for the conditions of this world.
Agree again, but that's because I'm an atheist. I don't believe that the god of Abraham exists, but according to its description, it is omni-responsible, that is, everything that exists and every action is its doing and was foreseen. If I were an Abrahamists, I wouldn't be able to think like that. I'd be obligated to do what the faithful did - assume that everything in scripture is accurate and that everything that deity did was good, which would have me justifying the contradictions and errors in scripture with motivated rationalizations as are typical of Abrahamic apologists.
There is nothing wrong with wrath when deserved.
It's probably impossible for most of us including me not to experience red-hot anger under certain circumstances, but in my opinion, it doesn't help us. Better would be to retain equanimity, make the same moral judgments, and respond with a cool head. But I don't fault myself for having such a reaction, just for acting on it.
Or it means that someone who shuts their mind off to the spiritual realm is deceiving themselves and missing a big part of reality.
Skeptics are not missing a big part of reality. How could that even be a thing? Reality includes things like trees and stars, and we (almost) all have the same faculties for experiencing it (obviously not the deaf, for example). There is no aspect of reality knowable only to people who believe in gods.
There's a way to determine whether one group is seeing something not discernible to another. Suppose I suffer from red-green color blindness (both look like the same gray to me), and one day, I decide to determine whether this is all a ruse. I can determine that it is not with a bag of numbered red and green socks that look identical to me but which somebody who claims to see color has identified and told me which is which. Then I survey people who claim to see these colors independently, and learn that they really are seeing something I can't see.
Next, I ask people who claim to experience gods and spirits what they see. Guess how that turns out. That's how I know that these claims are just people who have convinced themselves of something that they don't actually experience.
I think it’s truly sad that you do not know or understand the love of God.
Same answer: Nobody knows anything about gods including what such a thing would be like or if it exists.
According to the scriptures they are facts revealed from the Creator of heaven and earth to humanity.
You definition of fact is different from mine. I require empiric confirmation of a claim before I consider it a fact. Somebody making a claim about what a god allegedly told it to tell man doesn't rise to that standard.
I don’t think God made mistakes.
Yet the world is imperfect, so you're forced to blame man, which topic I just discussed above, or to find some way of explaining how what appears to be indifference or even malice from this deity is actually love and good for man.