No, God does not give us the opportunity to choose when we will die... All we can do is try to forestall that event.
Job 1:21 And said, Naked came I out of my mother's womb, and naked shall I return thither: the Lord gave, and the Lord hath taken away; blessed be the name of the Lord.
No, we did not accept life, our parents had sex and brought us into this world.
This presumes that our life started at birth or conception.
I like the was he puts this:
Our birth is but a sleep and a forgetting:
The Soul that rises with us, our life’s Star,
Hath had elsewhere its setting,
And cometh from afar:
Not in entire forgetfulness,
And not in utter nakedness,
But trailing clouds of glory do we come
From God, who is our home:
Heaven lies about us in our infancy!
Shades of the prison-house begin to close
Upon the growing Boy,
But he beholds the light, and whence it flows,
He sees it in his joy;
The Youth, who daily farther from the east
Must travel, still is Nature’s Priest,
And by the vision splendid
Is on his way attended;
At length the Man perceives it die away,
And fade into the light of common day.
~ William Wordsworth
The bible is a light on details but it does indicate that we lived prior to our mortal life, but it does offer some help on this.
John 9:
1 And as Jesus passed by, he saw a man which was
blind from his birth.
2 And his disciples asked him, saying, Master, who did sin, this
man, or his parents, that he was born blind?
Titus 1:2 In
hope of
eternal life, which God, that cannot
lie,
promised before the world began;
For some additional detail a bit from Abraham,
Abraham 3:
22 Now the Lord had shown unto me, Abraham, the
intelligences that were organized before the world was; and among all these there were many of the
noble and great ones;
23 And God saw these souls that they were good, and he stood in the midst of them, and he said: These I will make my rulers; for he stood among those that were spirits, and he saw that they were good; and he said unto me: Abraham, thou art one of them; thou wast
chosen before thou wast born.
24 And there stood
one among them that was like unto God, and he said unto those who were with him: We will go down, for there is space there, and we will take of these materials, and
we will make an earth whereon these may
dwell;
25 And we will
prove them herewith, to see if they will
do all things whatsoever the Lord their God shall command them;
So before we were around as mortals we were around.
