I am pro-choice and I have known women who have had abortions. To be sure there a few women who do use abortion as a method of birth control ( none that i have known) but I suggest that most women who make that decision, do so after agonizing over it. In most cases, it is not an easy decision to make and is not made simply for convenience.
So often I hear statements from the Pro-life contigency that "if the woman didn't to want to become pregnant, she should have either used birth control or abstained from sex....now that she's pregnant, she should take responsibility"........ This way of thinking traps women in a no-win situation because:
1. With the exception of condoms,abstinence and surgical intervention, all forms of effective birth control are abortifacients (includes pills, IUD, morning after pill, implants, patches, etc)...that is they work after a the egg is fertilized which is when pregnancy begins.
2. Abstinence may be well-suited to discourage promiscuity among unmarried individuals but what about happily married individuals? Should they forego sex once they decide not ot have anymore children?
According to the Christian religion, sex is very important in marriage and a woman should submit to her husband.....What is a woman to do? does she stop having sex with her husband(against most religions), use methods that will ensure the abortion of any beginning pregnancy (frowned upon by many Christian denominations), use condoms (frowned upon by some religions), try to use the rhythm method (which frequently results in pregnancy)?
If all religious and societal mores expect that men and women should maintain a healthy sexual relationship during marriage....how does a woman avoid becoming pregnant year after year after year....or is that what she is supposed to do? How does she remain true to her religious beliefs and yet not become another 'barefoot & pregnant' statistic?
Women should have the right to determine what will happen to their bodies and their future. Late term abortions are the ones most frequently used by anti-abortionists to persuade people to be pro-life. The fact is that late-term abortions are not common and present a medical risk to perform. I do believe that late-term abortions need to be held to higher standards and should never be done without good cause but that 'cause' needs to be between a woman and her doctor.