Um, such decisions need to be made in all cases where there are limited resources. It's not a flaw of socialised medicine, it's a triage issue. You'll find the exact same sorts of things going on in the US. Notable examples would be with organ donations, for example.
Anyway, FWIW, I'm sorry to hear about your poor health and I wish you all the best.
Triage is where the doctors have to choose between those which can be saved, and those which cannot, or who can wait. Anybody who has ever gone to an ER with chest pain and been seen instantly over a group of croupy kids who have been waiting awhile know this.
I'm not talking about that sort of triage.
I'm talking about the sort of triage that looks at a patient and says....this one costs too much.
Autologous bone marrow transplants do not use donor marrow. The patient's OWN marrow is used. The process to ready a patient for it is a bit complicated and long, but the point is, there aren't that many people who need one, and when they do, the facilities ARE available. The actual transplant is fairly simple; no drama, no anxious moments in operating rooms...basically it's a transfusion, done in the patient's room, and lasts a whole ten minutes. Done by a nurse. The care is nursing care. Intensive nursing care, to be certain, but it's a nursing and technical thing.
The 'triage' is ALL about expense. Is this patient worth spending this much money on?
Not: can we save this patient, and if we do, are we letting others die or get worse? THAT is 'triage.'
What is happening at the level of rare cancers/conditions like MM isn't that. It's "well, do we want to spend the money it would cost to give this person a chance for ten years of remission?"
...........unfortunately, the answer from the bean counters is far too often....'no.'
Thank you for your good wishes, btw. As it happens, I'm doing very well, all things considered. I plan to stick around and bug you guys for quite some time.