You know that I could say the same about "humanists"? I could likewise say "Christians serve as a control group to determine the effects of godless life and it's effects on people"
Yes, you could. And I wish you would. If you had a representative sample of Christians and humanists, you could see the difference between the two groups. Consider the topic we're discussing in this thread. You represent a large chunk of Christians. Many cluster with you on the homophobic end of the spectrum, which is largely unpopulated in the humanist spectrum. Who is persecuting LGBTQ in the States? You might not know, so I'll tell you: conservative, evangelical Christians. And who is objecting to this? Who is promoting love and tolerance there? Not the Christians. The humanists are, and likely several other groups, including the dharmics, Wiccans, and polytheists. Looking at these things is how we can decide what beneficial and what harmful effects various worldviews have on their adherents. It's how I know that I have no problem with any of the latter, and don't see their belief systems as destructive.
Shall we do the same for misogyny? What fraction of each of the groups just named opposes abortion rights? The answer tells you something about the effect their choice has on them.
And we can look at other parameters: anti-scientism, prayer in schools, and some things not necessarily religious but affected by religion praising faith. What fraction of anti-vaxxers do you suppose are Christian, and what fraction humanist? How about climate deniers? There are far more Christians than humanists in either group. This is how I judge all of these isms - by their fruit.
I've seen no good word in opposite direction either, so how can you say you're better than me or more loving than me?
I didn't say that. What I said was you're homophobic. The people disagreeing with you are being loving. You are not. I suggested earlier that Christians spend a little more time thinking about what others perceive Christianity to be. It's not how they see it themselves
Christians admit they're sinners, do you admit your mistakes?
To whom? I apologize when appropriate, and I try to learn from my mistakes, so, I admit them to myself. But there is no analog to confession or praying to a deity for forgiveness in humanism.
You said "Being good DOES have a behavioral test. Being Christian doesn't." Which mean you see Christianity as 100% hostile such that no good can come out of it. How is that not bigotry?
I don't know what you mean by Christianity being 100% hostile. And you are correct. I don't see much good coming out of Christianity, but that's not my point. My point is that if you tell me you're a Christian, I accept that, and also that Christianity is a source of homophobia.
How is that not bigotry? One cannot be bigoted against an ideology, only groups of people. One is a bigot if he has a destructive opinion about every member of a class of law-abiding people simply by being a member. I have not done that, but you have.
I said he is not Christian because he quotes OT law as authoritative and something which determines what Christianity should be today.
You said he's Christian. What other conclusion could one make out of this? other than you believing that Christians live by OT law.
I don't care what part of his Bible he quotes, but yes, most Christians quote the Old Testament. How often do we read that the Bible says thou shalt not kill? How often do Christians refer to Old Testament myths? Aren't your opinions about homosexuality Old Testament in origin - Leviticus I believe? None of that disqualifies a person from being a Christian
Here is Christian Dominionist Gary North bemoaning the influence that humanism has had on mankind - not enough stonings. What part of his Bible do you suppose he consulted to arrive at this opinion? :
"Why stoning? There are many reasons. First, the implements of execution are available to everyone at virtually no cost...executions are community projects--not with spectators who watch a professional executioner do `his' duty, but rather with actual participants...That modern Christians never consider the possibility of the reintroduction of stoning for capital crimes indicates how thoroughly humanistic concepts of punishment have influenced the thinking of Christian."
It's also another data point you can add to your spectrum of Christians when comparing them to humanists.
You said "You are both Christian." But I do not preach execution of gay people here. So either he is wrong or I'm right or vice versa but not both.
How does that make one of you not a Christian?