Is Islam even relevant in a discussion about a loving god?
God of Wrath or God of Mercy ?
God’s Mercy surpasses His Wrath. As Murata and Chitick suggests in their book titled ‘The Vision of Islam’: “One of the ways in which the Koran refers to the fact that the names of beauty and mercy represents God’s true nature more accurately than the names of majesty and wrath is in the statement that God’s mercy embraces all things. ‘I strike with My chastisement whom I will, but My mercy embraces all things.(7:156)’. The Koran never suggests that God is wrathful toward all things. He is wrathful only toward those creatures who refuse to accept His nearness to them”[4]. Yet both are necessary, as they further state,
“Without fear, people become bold and do whatever they want, not worrying about the consequences. Without hope they shrivel and die”[4]. Finally, their analysis of the attributes of God point out that the ‘fear of God’ is essentially a component of the 'mercy of God', because “the only logical way to act when you fear God is to go toward him, since there is nowhere to run. Likewise, hope and love for God encourage people to go toward him. Every relationship with God encourages seeking out nearness with him”[4].
[Taken from :
The Simple Message of GOD]
The Qur'an has more sadism in it than any other religious text I've ever read.
Then you have neither read the Qur'an nor the Bible. You would be surprised if I start quoting stuff from the Bible. However, I refrain from doing so except in cases where a Christian starts falsely accusing Islam.
A few examples, among many verses that glorify cruelty:
It also says : "None will [enter to] burn therein except the most wretched one. Who had denied and turned away. But the righteous one will avoid it -" (Al Qur'an 92:15-17)
Just like a mother would discipline her child with punishments and threats of consequences because she loves her child very much and she would like to see her child to be in the best of manners, our creator knows that human beings do forget and transgress their limits and they need to be constrained through punishments and deterrence.
Even scientific studies will tell you that performance increases with punishment. There was a study led by researchers from the Nottingham University's School of Psychology, published in the Journal of Neuroscience. They found that participants' performance increased systematically as the amount of punishment increased, suggesting that punishment acts as a performance enhancer in a way similar to the offer of reward.
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Peace.