Well, to begin with, there are really only 6 Commandments that deal with people, the first four being:
1. Thou shalt have no other gods before me.
2. Thou shalt not make thee any graven images or bow down to them, and if you do I'll get you and your kids and their descendants.
3. Thou shalt not take the name of the lord in vain.
4. Keep the Sabbath holy.
Now, for anyone who isn't religious, or are polytheistic, those can be a bit offensive. Number 2, especially. I mean, Michelangelo made quite a few "graven images," as did many other artists. And though Mike didn't have kids, many other artists did, and for 3 and 4 generations, their children, according to God, had to be punished for it!
Now, for the fifth Commandment, I grew up in the Children's Aid, after having been nearly killed twice at home -- and you think I should be commanded to "honour" my abusers? Not bloody likely! And let's be honest, there are many parents locked up in U.S. prisons. How much honour should they be afforded?
Six, thou shalt not kill. Okay, not bad in principle. But what about in self-defense, or defense of one's home, children, or country?
Seven, thou shalt not commit adultery. Sadly, another case of absolutism that can only lead to pain. Sometimes, you may have heard, affection does not last a life-time. Things happen. A husband (or wife) may be cruel, abusive, but not willing to divorce. Tough luck to the abused partner, but rules-is-rules, no fun for you the rest of your life.
Eight, thou shalt not steal. Not bad. But what about when you've been through a natural disaster, need insulin for your kid, and the drugstore is closed? Still not permitted to steal, in such a dire situation? Again, absolutism doesn't consider anything but an ideal world, which, as Thomas More suggested, is "No Place (Utopia)." Interestingly, Napoleon had this figured out, when he said:
"How can you have order in a state without religion? For, when one man is dying of hunger near another who is ill of surfeit, he cannot resign himself to this difference unless there is an authority which declares, 'God wills it thus.' Religion is excellent stuff for keeping people quiet."
Nine, thou shalt not bear false witness. Show me the politician who can obey that one, I dare you!
Let's look at "coveting." Thou shalt not covet (a bunch of things). But to covet is a thought, not a deed. That means that one of these 10 Commandments is explicitly about thought control -- how very Orwellian 1984!