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The Bible and Homosexuality

fantome profane

Anti-Woke = Anti-Justice
Premium Member
Well at least you confirmed what I already knew youre not a Christian
You have no argument to counter sojourner, so instead of addressing the issue you make personal attacks on his religion. This is the second time you have attacked him in this way, he showed great class and restraint in ignoring it the first time so you repeat it.

Come to think of it your innitial post in this thread in response to the video (which we know you didn't watch) was the same. You attacked the person instead of addressing the ideas.


And I believe it was you who complained earlier in this thread about personal attacks.
 
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Harmonious

Well-Known Member
I would say that Jesus was a liar.

:faint:
:)

MOSES didn't give the Jews ANY law. God did. Moses merely taught what God dictated.

Agreed
Good to know.

Further, if you have ever heard, witnessed, or experienced a toxic marriage, disallowing divorce from such a thing is TRUE cruelty. If anyone is creating hardness of heart through suggestion, I would say it was Jesus. Not God, and certainly not Moses.

If the only complaints the Jews had in 40 years were those listed, they were far more complacent with their lot than people are today.

Otherwise, the Jews were doing exactly what God wanted them to be doing.

Except that God commanded the Jews to establish a king upon entering the land. It's in Deuteronomy.

If all the above is true please explain the following

1 Samuel 7-8 and the Lord said to Samuel "Heed the voice of the people in all they say to you: for they have not rejected you but they have rejected Me that I shoulld not reign over them
8 According to all the works they have done since the day I brought them out of Egypt, even to this day -forsaking me to serve other gods-so they are doing to you also

19 Nevertheless the people refused to obey the voice of Samuel and said "No, we will have a king"

1 samuel 12:19 And all the people said "Pray for your servants that we may not die,for we have added to all our sins the evil of asking for a king"
The problem wasn't that they ASKED for a king. The problem was the WAY they asked for a king.

If they asked for a king to lead them in serving God properly, this would have been a glorious thing. If they asked for a king, as Samuel's sons didn't look like they would be fit to be the next Judges (and even Samuel might have agreed), that would have been cool.

But the thing is, they said, "We want a king like all the other nations." All the other nations had human kings, true. And all the other nations had their kings permit them to live lives with idolatry and nothing that resembled what God commanded the Jews to do.

That was what was objectionable. That was what Samuel argued against, and that is why God said that the Jews were not rebelling against Samuel, but against God.

But then, God told the Jews who He appointed to be king - both Saul, and then David.

Perhaps, because of the way the Jews asked for a king, the Jews were blessed with King Saul, who was king during his lifetime, but didn't pass the kingship to his sons. But because the Jews DID ask for a king, (regardless of why and how), which IS something that God commanded the Jews to do in Deuteronomy, the Jews were blessed with King David, whose descendants will always deserve the throne of Israel.

(And this is why Jews are waiting for his descendant to come out of the woodwork and lead us once again.)

No. The main purpose of the dietary laws is to show obedience to God.

Unless you truly believe that God is so cruel as to set rules of cleanliness so that only the Jews can live healthily and condemn the rest of the world to sickness and death.
If health was the reason why didnt he warn Noah, Abraham, Issac, Jacob etc
That is what I am saying. Health WASN'T the reason for keeping kosher. THAT is the reason why God didn't warn Noah, Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob.

The idea of Noah leading one pair of each species of "unclean" animals (which, by the way is a very bad translation - I'll get to that rant soon) and seven pairs of each "clean" species did not refer to which of them he was permitted to eat once they were let out of the Ark.

The words Tahor (often, and incorrectly, translated as "clean" or "pure") and Tam'ei (just as often and incorrectly translated as "unclean" or "impure") do not mean any such thing. They are short, and functionally easier to use than the words' actual translations.

The word Tahor actually means: "state of being in which an item is permissible for use". The word Tam'ei actually means "state of being in which an item is forbidden for use."

Often, the words Tahor and Tam'ei are used in conjunction with being fit to enter the Temple, or animals that are appropriate for bringing as sacrifices, or items for every day use, or food which is forbidden to eat, or spouses being permitted to have intimate relations with each other.

As far as Noah was concerned, God told him which animals were permitted for use as sacrifices. He was permitted to eat any animal, as long as it was dead first.

Since it was far more important for the Jews (once Moses taught us what God wanted) to know which animals were Tahor for eating, and which were Tam'ei and forbidden to be eaten, more detailed instructions were given in Leviticus, as well as twice in Exodus and once in Deuteronomy to "not cook a kid in its mother's milk". (Exodus 23:19 and 34:26, Deuteronomy 14:21)

The specific reasons were never given. Therefore, while any conjectures that we might come up with are interesting, the ultimate reason for the laws of Kosher are "because God said so."

The disease God is interested in cleansing people of is sin
:sarcastic In your belief system, maybe.

In my belief system, it isn't a matter of "cleansing people of sin," as that is further using a bad translation and trying to misapply it where it doesn't belong. People will make mistakes. People will fall to temptation. People will rebel. God knows all of this, and there is a system to correct our mistakes and seek forgiveness.

Our dietary issues are specifically because God told us to. It is a sign of obedience to God when Jews follow the laws of Kashrut.
 

waitasec

Veteran Member
here is the elephant in the room
i quote the video:

i have a deeply rooted desire to be married, to share my life with someone, and to build a family of my own. but according to the traditional interpretation of scripture, as a christian i am uniquely excluded for that possibility for love for companionship and for family. but unlike someone who senses a calling from god to celibacy or unlike a straight person who can't find the right partner, i don't sense a calling for celibacy and i may well find someone i grow to love and would like to spend the rest of my life with. but if that were to happen, following the traditional interpretation, if i were to fall in love with someone and if these feelings were reciprocated, my only choice would be to walk away, to break my heart and retreat into isolation, alone. and this wouldn't be just a one time heart break but could continue throughout my entire life. whenever i came to know someone who's company i really enjoy, i will always fear that i may come to like this person too much, that i might come to love them. and within the traditional interpretation of scripture, falling in love is one of the worst things that can happen to a gay person. because you will be necessarily heartbroken, you will have to run away. and that will happen every single time when you come to care about someone else too much
 
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MysticSang'ha

Big Squishy Hugger
Premium Member
I'm sure it is. That is why I think they are so very strong, and so very admirable for following their faith, regardless of their desires.

While I respect your right to speak your perspective on the issue, as a bisexual who is married, and who fought for years to deny my orientation and attraction to women, sexual orientation is MUCH more than desire.

It is not like denying oneself a drink, or shopping for shoes, or sugary foods. It is flat-out denying intimacy, love, and a relationship that is genuinely equal in it's give-and-take. Intimacy, closeness, love are not simple desires that are to be glossed over. To coach someone who is queer to deny themselves the opportunity to meaningful and loving relationships is more than painful. It's more than suffering over the withdrawal periods from addictive behaviors and substances.

It's like a death. It's like killing part of yourself over and over and over again.

I've been asked before, and some people even so far think that I'm in a "lucky" position to just switch my attractions, and to think that I'm just done with the homosexual attractions I have just because I'm married to a man. What they don't realize is that the same spark and electricity straights have when they meet someone of the opposite gender who they consider attractive is exactly what I feel with both sexes.

I don't switch off my attraction anymore than straights do. It just doesn't happen. Period.
 

Harmonious

Well-Known Member
you said you didn't understand why things are the way they are... so no, i don't see it as obvious...maybe obviously confused about why god would created us with these innate desires...
I believe that God created us with oue desires and drives, and I'm glad that Sojourner understood that as obvious.

What I said I didn't understand is why God grants us those desires, especially when they run counter to God's law.
 

waitasec

Veteran Member
I believe that God created us with oue desires and drives, and I'm glad that Sojourner understood that as obvious.

What I said I didn't understand is why God grants us those desires, especially when they run counter to God's law.
ok.
well how is it obvious that god created us with an inclination to love someone of the same sex and then turns around and calls that inclination an abomination :shrug:
 

BBTimeless

Active Member
I believe that God created us with oue desires and drives, and I'm glad that Sojourner understood that as obvious.

What I said I didn't understand is why God grants us those desires, especially when they run counter to God's law.
This points to a couple of possibilities.

  1. God's law is abstract and is capable of change.
  2. We have misinterpreted God's law.
I am leaning towards the second.
 

sojourner

Annoyingly Progressive Since 2006
I believe that God created us with oue desires and drives, and I'm glad that Sojourner understood that as obvious.

What I said I didn't understand is why God grants us those desires, especially when they run counter to God's law.
May I suggest -- with all due respect, and all tenderness of heart towards one who is obviously very directed in their faith and has obviously studied its tenets -- perhaps the interpretation of God's law is mistaken, as the video suggests? Perhaps, when one understands that God makes us the way we are, that maybe God's actions don't run counter to God's laws.

I suggest that the ancients who wrote the OT didn't understand orientation and desire for the same sex as we do today. I suggest that, in their view, all homoerotic acts were, by definition, perverse, and could not be a sign of committed love. Could that, in your view, be a possibility -- or not?
 

sojourner

Annoyingly Progressive Since 2006
here is the elephant in the room
i quote the video:

i have a deeply rooted desire to be married, to share my life with someone, and to build a family of my own. but according to the traditional interpretation of scripture, as a christian i am uniquely excluded for that possibility for love for companionship and for family. but unlike someone who senses a calling from god to celibacy or unlike a straight person who can't find the right partner, i don't sense a calling for celibacy and i may well find someone i grow to love and would like to spend the rest of my life with. but if that were to happen, following the traditional interpretation, if i were to fall in love with someone and if these feelings were reciprocated, my only choice would be to walk away, to break my heart and retreat into isolation, alone. and this wouldn't be just a one time heart break but could continue throughout my entire life. whenever i came to know someone who's company i really enjoy, i will always fear that i may come to like this person too much, that i might come to love them. and within the traditional interpretation of scripture, falling in love is one of the worst things that can happen to a gay person. because you will be necessarily heartbroken, you will have to run away. and that will happen every single time when you come to care about someone else too much
I agree. Thanks for beating me to the punch here.
 

sojourner

Annoyingly Progressive Since 2006
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Let's get painfully honest here. Let me be blunt:

I list myself as a Christian, because that's what I am. If you think otherwise, might I suggest that you provide us with a definitive and objective list of criteria for a Christian, and point out -- in detail, from what you know about me -- exactly where I fall short of those criteria.

I don't think you have such a list.

You state something to be a "fact." I wanna see your proof.

Otherwise, I expect a public apology.
 
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waitasec

Veteran Member
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ahh there it is...

yet your own savior supposedly says:

luke6:37 “Do not judge, and you will not be judged. Do not condemn, and you will not be condemned. Forgive, and you will be forgiven. 38 Give, and it will be given to you. A good measure, pressed down, shaken together and running over, will be poured into your lap. For with the measure you use, it will be measured to you.”


of course you'll take the low road...how mediocre of you
 
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MysticSang'ha

Big Squishy Hugger
Premium Member
I agree. Thanks for beating me to the punch here.

When I was dating a woman who was very much in love with, right around the time when DOMA passed, we were devastated. I found myself in a position much like the young man in the video expressed, and I broke up with her holding the same view. That I was still holding this sense of shame for my orientation, and that I legitmately could not have a relationship with this woman.

We dated for several months. When I parted, it was because of a lie. I HAD a wonderful, loving, meaningful, and reciprocated relationship with her, and I left because of my shame. I lied by telling myself that our relationship couldn't be legitimate. And it was one of the worst experiences of my life. She continued to contact me in the hope of getting back together, and I continued to run away. The experience over the course of years - with our breakup and the conversations after - was terrible for the both of us, and I regret all the pain my actions caused to her and to myself.

I don't wish that on anybody. Not even my worst enemy.
 

waitasec

Veteran Member
as a christian, or as one who holds on to the traditional interpretation of the bible, making decisions based on a lie not only affects them, but it affect those that they care for... how many people go into a heterosexual relationship thinking that this "desire" is a cross they must bear? how many families have gone through needless pain when the homosexual finally came out, or killed themselves because of the guilt and shame they held inside...?
 
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sojourner

Annoyingly Progressive Since 2006
When I was dating a woman who was very much in love with, right around the time when DOMA passed, we were devastated. I found myself in a position much like the young man in the video expressed, and I broke up with her holding the same view. That I was still holding this sense of shame for my orientation, and that I legitmately could not have a relationship with this woman.

We dated for several months. When I parted, it was because of a lie. I HAD a wonderful, loving, meaningful, and reciprocated relationship with her, and I left because of my shame. I lied by telling myself that our relationship couldn't be legitimate. And it was one of the worst experiences of my life. She continued to contact me in the hope of getting back together, and I continued to run away. The experience over the course of years - with our breakup and the conversations after - was terrible for the both of us, and I regret all the pain my actions caused to her and to myself.

I don't wish that on anybody. Not even my worst enemy.
I refuse to believe that God wants this for God's children. I refuse to believe that life superimposes false restrictions upon our capacity and desire to love one another.

This is exactly what I'm talking about when I speak of systemic violence. This is the sort of thing that happens when differences are allowed to be perceived as "wrong" or "unnatural" or "counter to what God wants." Who would look at this story from the outside and not see it as emotional violence? "I'm sorry" doesn't go far enough, my friend.

edit: But I'm not a Christian...
 

allright

Active Member
Let's get painfully honest here. Let me be blunt:

I list myself as a Christian, because that's what I am. If you think otherwise, might I suggest that you provide us with a definitive and objective list of criteria for a Christian, and point out -- in detail, from what you know about me -- exactly where I fall short of those criteria.

I don't think you have such a list.

You state something to be a "fact." I wanna see your proof.

Otherwise, I expect a public apology.

You say "well said" to a post where someone calls Jesus a liar and you ask me that?
 

Harmonious

Well-Known Member
While I respect your right to speak your perspective on the issue, as a bisexual who is married, and who fought for years to deny my orientation and attraction to women, sexual orientation is MUCH more than desire.

It is not like denying oneself a drink, or shopping for shoes, or sugary foods. It is flat-out denying intimacy, love, and a relationship that is genuinely equal in it's give-and-take. Intimacy, closeness, love are not simple desires that are to be glossed over. To coach someone who is queer to deny themselves the opportunity to meaningful and loving relationships is more than painful. It's more than suffering over the withdrawal periods from addictive behaviors and substances.

It's like a death. It's like killing part of yourself over and over and over again.

I've been asked before, and some people even so far think that I'm in a "lucky" position to just switch my attractions, and to think that I'm just done with the homosexual attractions I have just because I'm married to a man. What they don't realize is that the same spark and electricity straights have when they meet someone of the opposite gender who they consider attractive is exactly what I feel with both sexes.

I don't switch off my attraction anymore than straights do. It just doesn't happen. Period.
I am sorry, but this post fails to inspire any reaction in me.

Any person who is married and sees other people they are attracted to will also suffer in that way: they are attracted to people that are permanently unavailable because they are married.

You are married, not dead. There are people you are attracted to who are unavailable besides your spouse. That's marriage for you.
 

sojourner

Annoyingly Progressive Since 2006
You say "well said" to a post where someone calls Jesus a liar and you ask me that?
Here's the portion of the post to which I responded:
I would say that Jesus was a liar. MOSES didn't give the Jews ANY law. God did. Moses merely taught what God dictated.

Further, if you have ever heard, witnessed, or experienced a toxic marriage, disallowing divorce from such a thing is TRUE cruelty. If anyone is creating hardness of heart through suggestion, I would say it was Jesus. Not God, and certainly not Moses.
It is true that Moses didn't give any laws. God gave the laws. While I wouldn't go so far as to say "Jesus was a liar," I would say that the gospel writer was, perhaps, misled in his quotation of Jesus.

But the part to which I truly responded was the second paragraph, presented above. It is cruel to disallow divorce from a toxic relationship, and I don't believe Jesus would have ever allowed such a thing to happen. Therefore, there must be some discrepancy in the texts somewhere.

Now that we've cleared that up, I'm still waiting for
1) your criteria
2) your apology.

I do not expect that I shall receive either.
 
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