I'm not worried about you infringing on the rights of others. What I take issue with is the apparently fuzzy thinking I'm perceiving, which seems incongruent with your usual posts. I don't understand how something can be wrong for everyone, but yet saying that "they can do what they want" somehow seems to absolve you of any judgment based upon belief. Isn't the judgment of wrongdoing still present -- even as background static?
Yup. The acts of homosexual liaisons ARE wrong. But at the same time, I'm acknowledging that the only reason I believe this is so is my religious beliefs.
I believe that people who believe in Jesus as anything special and important are wrong, too. As a matter of fact, they are just as wrong as homosexual acts, one focusing on the sin of idolatry, one focusing on the sin of immoral sex.
But there's not a heck of a lot I could or should do, as we have freedom of religion, which is freedom FROM religion. And if people don't wish to believe as I do... So?
And doesn't that static color how you view other human beings?
No. People are good people until they prove to be bad. I believe this across the board.
Are homosexuals OK or aren't they?
They are okay. Absolutely. But what they desire is NOT okay, if they do something about it.
I understood the orator in the OP. I understand why homosexuals feel left out. But then again, I'm not the one who came up with the laws in Leviticus, or any of the Torah. And I don't think the law should change because people don't like what they say.
I think that, when it comes right down to it, the most honest thing that can be said is, "It's not right for me," or even "It's not right for good Jews."
No. I can say "It's not right."
But I always say that people have the right to be wrong.
To state unequivocally that it's wrong for everyone is to make homosexual orientation merely an act that one either does or does not do, rather than the way a person is -- and is made -- by God, if you're a religious person.
That is taking a wrong assumption and running with it. It isn't the orientation that is sinful (although it is, if you believe Jesus, who declared that thinking of sin is the same as sin. Luckily, I don't). People feel as they feel, and desire who and what they desire.
I don't believe that homosexual orientation makes a person bad, sinful, or less of a person.
Unfortunately, acting on those desires and creating the liaisons is the problem, and that is what is sinful, an abomination, and all the rest.
PLEASE take note. Every time I've mentioned homosexuality in the context of sinfulness and wrongness, I have not mentioned that the homosexuals themselves are wrong, but the LIAISONS. The sex, the unions, the marriage to someone of the same sex.
You want to say that saying that this activity is wrong will breed contempt. Perhaps it may in some people. I know for a fact that it has in other people. However, Torah law ALSO says to treat people with love, kindness, and to not hurt them with words.
On a day to day basis, homosexuality doesn't come up in my general conversations. Some of my best friends are gay, and sometimes we talk about the challenges they face, living as Orthodox Jews, especially since they are surrounded by people who - very well intentionally - try to set them up with girls. These friends of mine are more concerned with the people who don't pay attention to the Torah laws against gossip, and make them feel bad, and treat them as lesser people. Their concern is more against people in the community who used to be friends, and when said friends sussed out their "secret" decided they were no longer comfortable to have them around their children.
Stupid people are often hurtful, as sometimes they don't know better. Sometimes they do, and they are just jerks.
Be that as it may, I think that gay people who share my belief system are very strong people who deserve to be admired for their tenacity to do what they feel is right.
The fact that other people may say that they shouldn't have to worry and should be immediately indulged is not my concern.
People who don't share my belief system will do as they want. They have the right to be wrong. And I will fight for their right to be equal, even if they are wrong.
When we begin to deny what a person is, we begin to deny their personhood. when we begin to deny their personhood, it's only a short hop to begin to deny basic rights.
I've never denied what a person is. I have never denied anyone I've met belief in their personhood. (That includes my former husband.)
I believe that all people deserve to be loved and treated with respect. That not withstanding, as I said in an earlier post, there are some times of love and marriages that are sinful and wrong. I listed several, and I'll list them again. Marriage between a Jew and a non-Jew is wrong and sinful. Marriage between siblings is wrong and sinful. Marriage between parents and their children is wrong and sinful. Marriage between people of the same sex is wrong and sinful.
The incest between siblings and parents and children, besides the squick factor, has further basis in biology for why it shouldn't happen. Intermarriage between Jews and non-Jews and homosexual liaisons I object to for purely religious reasons.
Does participating in what my belief system declares as a forbidden union make them less as human beings? No. Does that take away the sin if they indulge? Also, no.
Other people don't agree with me. I know this. They are free to believe I am wrong.
I think that's what's going on in the marriage debates. Those on the "con" side don't see homosexuals as full human beings -- whether they admit that, or not. Then it becomes a matter of infringing upon one's rights.
There is a difference between saying that someone is wrong and saying that someone isn't a full human being.
You will never hear ME say, or even imply, that people who are wrong are lesser human beings.
You will also never hear ME say, or even imply, that people who have desires that are sinful are lesser human beings. I don't believe they are.