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The Bible and Homosexuality

Me Myself

Back to my username
Here are a few ref's

OT:
Gen. 19:5 bring them out unto us, that we may know them
Lev. 18:22 (20:13) Thou shalt not lie with mankind ... it is abomination
Deut. 23:17 there shall be no ... sodomite of the sons of Israel
Isa. 3:9 declare their sin as Sodom

NT:
Rom. 1:27 men ... burned in their lust one toward another
1 Cor. 6:9 nor abusers of themselves with mankind
1 Tim. 1:10 them that defile themselves with mankind
Jude 1:7 as Sodom and Gomorrha ... going after strange flesh

See also Gen. 13:13; 18:20; Isa. 3:9; Ezek. 16:50; 2 Tim. 3:3; 2 Pet. 2:10;

Excellent Post - Get ready for the onslaught

So you are totally pro slavery then? just like OT and NT?
 

Harmonious

Well-Known Member
Poly-Cotton is the modern equivalent
No, it's not. There is only ONE combination of forbidden textiles. No other combination is forbidden but wool and linen. Poly-Cotton is perfectly permissible.

and I was not mocking.
You have an interesting way of showing that.

Further, I find it interesting that when the Torah hints at something broader, people who mock the commandments focus on the smaller issues which may be damning of the Torah belief system, like slavery, even though I've discussed it quite thoroughly. But for something that is very specific in its application, the people who mock the commandments decide that it must mean a much broader application.

If you choose to continue to mock Christians for hypocrisy for focusing on the sinfulness of homosexuality but for ignoring blended textiles, make sure you specify linen-wool combinations, or you will come out as ignorant as you are trying to prove the person you are mocking to be.

I have repeatedly asked allright a question that he refuses to answer. Says a lot IMHO.
That much, I'll agree with.
 
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Meow Mix

Chatte Féministe
My quote wasn't as much to show a lack of inquisitiveness on the part of the believer, as much as a firmness of belief, such that doubts are not present.

For people who are looking for honest answers, even if they don't believe, they will be satisfied with an answer, even if they don't agree.

For people who are trying to catch a believer out, there is no amount of answers that would be sufficient for the purpose of answering their questions; the questions aren't looking for info, but they are built to cause doubt.

That is what I mean.

I will respond to the main body of your post after my lunch (I typically post on down time at work); but I just wanted to comment quickly that it's impossible to know so far from our brief interactions: I'm the first kind (though I may ask follow-up questions and give reasons for continuing skepticism).

This matter of intention is a salient meta-point about the ethics of discussion, so I just want you to know that my intentions aren't to mock theism, to ask "gotcha" questions to theists, etc. but rather just to inspect worldviews,their foundations, and compare them to my own -- and perhaps offer reasons for my skepticism if I have any. (Also, to learn, and to be convinced myself if I find my opponent's argument compelling!)
 
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Harmonious

Well-Known Member
I will respond to the main body of your post after my lunch (I typically post on down time at work); but I just wanted to comment quickly that it's impossible to know so far from our brief interactions: I'm the first kind (though I may ask follow-up questions and give reasons for continuing skepticism).

This matter of intention is a salient meta-point about the ethics of discussion, so I just want you to know that my intentions aren't to mock theism, to ask "gotcha" questions to theists, etc. but rather just to inspect worldviews,their foundations, and compare them to my own -- and perhaps offer reasons for my skepticism if I have any. (Also, to learn, and to be convinced myself if I find my opponent's argument compelling!)
Good to know. Now I'll know how to focus when answering further questions.
 

Curious George

Veteran Member
Just for everyone's ref, homosexuality isn't just condemned in the OT...

Here are a few ref's

OT:
Gen. 19:5 bring them out unto us, that we may know them
Lev. 18:22 (20:13) Thou shalt not lie with mankind ... it is abomination
Deut. 23:17 there shall be no ... sodomite of the sons of Israel
Isa. 3:9 declare their sin as Sodom

NT:
Rom. 1:27 men ... burned in their lust one toward another
1 Cor. 6:9 nor abusers of themselves with mankind
1 Tim. 1:10 them that defile themselves with mankind
Jude 1:7 as Sodom and Gomorrha ... going after strange flesh

See also Gen. 13:13; 18:20; Isa. 3:9; Ezek. 16:50; 2 Tim. 3:3; 2 Pet. 2:10; 2


Well, I do have to go to the bank, but are you sure you wouldn't rather say "I believe that the bible condemns homosexuality in both the old testament and the new testament?"

Because I assure you the way your statement is phrased is invalid.


If you insist on saying that the bible does "condemn homosexuality" I suppose I can go through the whole song and dance again to illustrate how your statement is invalid. You might just want to scroll through and read my posts on the topic; go read arguments for and against homosexuality in the bible and then rephrase.

If you realize that your beliefs are based on interpretations and translations of the bible, it would give much more truth to your claims.

I can accept faith based arguments as long as those arguments acknowledge that they are faith-based.
 

Trey of Diamonds

Well-Known Member
No, it's not. There is only ONE combination of forbidden textiles. No other combination is forbidden but wool and linen. Poly-Cotton is perfectly permissible.

Really? My bible is the New Jerusalem Bible and Leviticus 19:19 says "you will not wear a garment made from two kinds of fabric". I understand that you may feel that your bible is better than mine and maybe it is. But I have quoted my bible, not yours and I have not made the error you say I have.

I believe with all my heart that if the writers of the OT had seen Polyester, they would have considered it an abomination.
 

Harmonious

Well-Known Member
Really? My bible is the New Jerusalem Bible and Leviticus 19:19 says "you will not wear a garment made from two kinds of fabric". I understand that you may feel that your bible is better than mine and maybe it is. But I have quoted my bible, not yours and I have not made the error you say I have.
It is essentially correct, except for one very important thing.

The specific word used for "mixture," שַׁעַטְנֵז , only appears twice in all of Tanach, and both of them are in the Pentateuch. Now, you could be forgiven for being confused if the only reference you had was the verse in Leviticus. But the word שַׁעַטְנֵז - Sha'atnez - which does mean mixture is brought to light, and so defined in Deuteronomy 22:11

"You shall not wear a mixture of wool and linen together." שַׁעַטְנֵז צֶמֶר וּפִשְׁתִּים

The word שַׁעַטְנֵז only occurs twice in all Tanach, in Leviticus 19:19 and Deuteronomy 22:11, and in Deuteronomy, the word שַׁעַטְנֵז - mixture - appears in conjunction with the words for wool and linen, it is logical that the שַׁעַטְנֵז in Leviticus is the same as the שַׁעַטְנֵז in Deuteronomy.

And if you make mention of any other combination of textiles, it will show off your ignorance. You may choose to display willful ignorance, but be aware that it is ONLY ignorance that would make you say anything other than the commandment as it is or ever was observed, both in ancient times and now.

I believe with all my heart that if the writers of the OT had seen Polyester, they would have considered it an abomination.
Eh. God is a lot more forgiving than that.
 
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Trey of Diamonds

Well-Known Member
It is essentially correct, except for one very important thing.

The specific word used for "mixture," שַׁעַטְנֵז , only appears twice in all of Tanach, and both of them are in the Pentateuch. Now, you could be forgiven for being confused if the only reference you had was the verse in Leviticus. But the word שַׁעַטְנֵז - Sha'atnez - which does mean mixture is brought to light, and so defined in Deuteronomy 22:11

"You shall not wear a mixture of wool and linen together." שַׁעַטְנֵז צֶמֶר וּפִשְׁתִּים

The word שַׁעַטְנֵז only occurs twice in all Tanach, in Leviticus 19:19 and Deuteronomy 22:11, and in Deuteronomy, the word שַׁעַטְנֵז - mixture - appears in conjunction with the words for wool and linen, it is logical that the שַׁעַטְנֵז in Leviticus is the same as the שַׁעַטְנֵז in Deuteronomy.

And if you make mention of any other combination of textiles, it will show off your ignorance. You may choose to display willful ignorance, but be aware that it is ONLY ignorance that would make you say anything other than the commandment as it is or ever was observed, both in ancient times and now.

Maybe you are correct. But you are talking about Hebrew and Deuteronomy when we are talking about Leviticus only. I can't get this guy to answer questions concerning one book in the bible so I'm not really interested in quibbling over cross referencing Hebrew text from multiple books. I understand that you find my use of Poly-Cotton blend to be inaccurate. Since polyester didn't exist thousands of years ago I pretty much thought that was a given but since its so very important to you let me set the record straight.

I fully admit that the bible has never said anything negative about polyester and my use of the Poly-Cotton blend in place of the linen-wool blend was insulting, offensive and down right rude. I apologize to Poly and Ester, no hard feelings I hope.

Eh. God is a lot more forgiving than that.

Everyone in the High School band prays you're right.
 

Harmonious

Well-Known Member
Maybe you are correct. But you are talking about Hebrew and Deuteronomy when we are talking about Leviticus only. I can't get this guy to answer questions concerning one book in the bible so I'm not really interested in quibbling over cross referencing Hebrew text from multiple books. I understand that you find my use of Poly-Cotton blend to be inaccurate. Since polyester didn't exist thousands of years ago I pretty much thought that was a given but since its so very important to you let me set the record straight.

I fully admit that the bible has never said anything negative about polyester and my use of the Poly-Cotton blend in place of the linen-wool blend was insulting, offensive and down right rude. I apologize to Poly and Ester, no hard feelings I hope.
:sarcastic

Alrighty then. Just so. :)

Everyone in the High School band prays you're right.
Indeed.
 

allright

Active Member
And reality.

Again, is it worst to sell your daugther as a slave or to eat shrimp? (consult the bible for yur answer)

A better translation would be to sell as a bond servant. There were strick rules on she was to be treated. Certainly it should not have come to this.
This law would be similiar to husbands being able to give thier wives a bill of divorce. Jesus said "Moses gave you this law because of your hardness of heart, but from the beginning it was not so""
These people were hard hearted and constantly rebelling against God for 40 years.
Remeber when Israel asked for a king which God never intended. God told Samuel to let them do it even though it was not his perfect will
Jesus under the new covenant declared all foods clean and Peter was told the same thing in his vision
Jews who are still living under the covenant of Moses would still be bound to keep all the laws including the dietary ones as I would.
The main purpose of the dietary laws wasnt diet, it was to teach the people to discern between the clean and the unclean
 
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sojourner

Annoyingly Progressive Since 2006
What, in the name of all that's pink and fuzzy, would THAT consist of?

I already told you that I'm for gay rights. I already told you that I don't DO anything to show my objection.

What do you want from me? A blood-sworn oath that... I don't even know.

At this point, I'm rather worried about what you have in mind for ME for adhering to my beliefs, and I'm rather glad you are far enough away that you aren't much more than a personality and a name on the screen.
Hey, I'm agreeing with you.
 

sojourner

Annoyingly Progressive Since 2006
Even I am confused as to why Harmonious is being ill-treated in this thread. I understood many pages back that she was not using her beliefs in any way to infringe upon the right of legal marriage that homosexual couples deserve. She is free to believe as she does, but she is no way, directly or indirectly, causing harm to the homosexual equal rights movement.
This is not aimed at Harmonious in particular. I generally like her posts and her position. But I think that a belief labeling homosexuality as "wrong" for everyone constitutes a harmful attitude toward those who are perceived as different. A person may safely believe that homosexuality is wrong for her or himself. But to assert that it is wrong for someone else is treading on thin ice. That Harmonious chooses not to act out on that belief is admirable -- and I applaud that choice.

Anytime we make that kind of moral judgment for others we begin down a slippery slope, whose descent we may not be able to control. I used to be where Harmonious is. I used to think that homosexuality was wrong for everyone, but I chose not to act on that belief. I found that carrying that judgment affected my relationships and my stances on social justice issues that ranged beyond homosexuality and into other areas of difference. Once it becomes OK to judge one group, it can easily become OK to judge any group. And the justifications for doing so can become increasingly suspect.
 

Harmonious

Well-Known Member
A better translation would be to sell as a bond servant. There were strick rules on she was to be treated. Certainly it should not have come to this.
This law would be similiar to husbands being able to give thier wives a bill of divorce. Jesus said "Moses gave you this law because of your hardness of heart, but from the beginning it was not so""
I would say that Jesus was a liar. MOSES didn't give the Jews ANY law. God did. Moses merely taught what God dictated.

Further, if you have ever heard, witnessed, or experienced a toxic marriage, disallowing divorce from such a thing is TRUE cruelty. If anyone is creating hardness of heart through suggestion, I would say it was Jesus. Not God, and certainly not Moses.

These people were hard hearted and constantly rebelling against God for 40 years.
If the only complaints the Jews had in 40 years were those listed, they were far more complacent with their lot than people are today.

Otherwise, the Jews were doing exactly what God wanted them to be doing.

Remeber when Israel asked for a king which God never intended. God told Samuel to let them do it even though it was not his perfect will
Except that God commanded the Jews to establish a king upon entering the land. It's in Deuteronomy.

Jesus under the new covenant declared all foods clean and Peter was told the same thing in his vision
Jews who are still living under the covenant of Moses would still be bound to keep all the laws including the dietary ones as I would.
The main purpose of the dietary laws wasnt diet, it was to teach the people to discern between the clean and the unclean
No. The main purpose of the dietary laws is to show obedience to God.

Unless you truly believe that God is so cruel as to set rules of cleanliness so that only the Jews can live healthily and condemn the rest of the world to sickness and death.

If you believe that, then you have OTHER problems.
 
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sojourner

Annoyingly Progressive Since 2006
Even though someone quoted this post and proceeded to ignore its contents, I figured it was better to simply repost what I said.

Maybe the people who are SO WORRIED about me INFRINGING on anyone else's rights will actually pay attention this time.
I'm not worried about you infringing on the rights of others. What I take issue with is the apparently fuzzy thinking I'm perceiving, which seems incongruent with your usual posts. I don't understand how something can be wrong for everyone, but yet saying that "they can do what they want" somehow seems to absolve you of any judgment based upon belief. Isn't the judgment of wrongdoing still present -- even as background static? And doesn't that static color how you view other human beings? Are homosexuals OK or aren't they? I think that, when it comes right down to it, the most honest thing that can be said is, "It's not right for me," or even "It's not right for good Jews."

To state unequivocally that it's wrong for everyone is to make homosexual orientation merely an act that one either does or does not do, rather than the way a person is -- and is made -- by God, if you're a religious person. When we begin to deny what a person is, we begin to deny their personhood. when we begin to deny their personhood, it's only a short hop to begin to deny basic rights. I think that's what's going on in the marriage debates. Those on the "con" side don't see homosexuals as full human beings -- whether they admit that, or not. Then it becomes a matter of infringing upon one's rights.
 

sojourner

Annoyingly Progressive Since 2006
A better translation would be to sell as a bond servant.
so...
It's OK to sell your daughter, as long as it's a certain kind of sale?
Child Protective Services might just disagree with you.
 

sojourner

Annoyingly Progressive Since 2006
I would say that Jesus was a liar. MOSES didn't give the Jews ANY law. God did. Moses merely taught what God dictated.

Further, if you have ever heard, witnessed, or experienced a toxic marriage, disallowing divorce from such a thing is TRUE cruelty. If anyone is creating hardness of heart through suggestion, I would say it was Jesus. Not God, and certainly not Moses.
Well said!
 

waitasec

Veteran Member
My belief system says that it is wrong. Full stop. Not just for me, but for anyone.

I also said that people who don't share my belief system will do what they want. I am allowed to believe they are wrong for acting against my belief system.

They have the right to do what they want. I have the right to believe that homosexual liaisons are sinful. I don't have to agree or even accept their decision.

I'm not allowed to stop them. As a decent human being, I wouldn't comment on it. My sister's sister-in-law is in a lesbian marriage, and they are happy. I don't say anything against them. I still think their union is sinful. I don't fuss about it, and I'm happy for their happiness and their child who is loved.

People have the right to believe my belief system is wrong. They have that right.

They don't have the right to assume that I'm violating anyone else's rights for simply holding my beliefs. I'm not controlling anyone. I'm not hurting anyone, and I'm not assuming anyone else has to adhere to my belief system.

i fully agree with you. of course you have the right to your beliefs

i guess what we are all trying to do here is to come to an agreement.
curious though...why do you suppose same sex couples have their rights violated? could it be that their mis treatment stems from beliefs that a) it's unnatural and unhealthy or b) it is a sin? when it comes to the moment when you are in the voting booth and you are in a position to affect someones life, because you believe it is a sin, would you vote to violate their right? that is where the issue lies, i believe.
 
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Harmonious

Well-Known Member
I'm not worried about you infringing on the rights of others. What I take issue with is the apparently fuzzy thinking I'm perceiving, which seems incongruent with your usual posts. I don't understand how something can be wrong for everyone, but yet saying that "they can do what they want" somehow seems to absolve you of any judgment based upon belief. Isn't the judgment of wrongdoing still present -- even as background static?
Yup. The acts of homosexual liaisons ARE wrong. But at the same time, I'm acknowledging that the only reason I believe this is so is my religious beliefs.

I believe that people who believe in Jesus as anything special and important are wrong, too. As a matter of fact, they are just as wrong as homosexual acts, one focusing on the sin of idolatry, one focusing on the sin of immoral sex.

But there's not a heck of a lot I could or should do, as we have freedom of religion, which is freedom FROM religion. And if people don't wish to believe as I do... So?

And doesn't that static color how you view other human beings?
No. People are good people until they prove to be bad. I believe this across the board.

Are homosexuals OK or aren't they?
They are okay. Absolutely. But what they desire is NOT okay, if they do something about it.

I understood the orator in the OP. I understand why homosexuals feel left out. But then again, I'm not the one who came up with the laws in Leviticus, or any of the Torah. And I don't think the law should change because people don't like what they say.

I think that, when it comes right down to it, the most honest thing that can be said is, "It's not right for me," or even "It's not right for good Jews."
No. I can say "It's not right."

But I always say that people have the right to be wrong.

To state unequivocally that it's wrong for everyone is to make homosexual orientation merely an act that one either does or does not do, rather than the way a person is -- and is made -- by God, if you're a religious person.
That is taking a wrong assumption and running with it. It isn't the orientation that is sinful (although it is, if you believe Jesus, who declared that thinking of sin is the same as sin. Luckily, I don't). People feel as they feel, and desire who and what they desire.

I don't believe that homosexual orientation makes a person bad, sinful, or less of a person.

Unfortunately, acting on those desires and creating the liaisons is the problem, and that is what is sinful, an abomination, and all the rest.

PLEASE take note. Every time I've mentioned homosexuality in the context of sinfulness and wrongness, I have not mentioned that the homosexuals themselves are wrong, but the LIAISONS. The sex, the unions, the marriage to someone of the same sex.

You want to say that saying that this activity is wrong will breed contempt. Perhaps it may in some people. I know for a fact that it has in other people. However, Torah law ALSO says to treat people with love, kindness, and to not hurt them with words.

On a day to day basis, homosexuality doesn't come up in my general conversations. Some of my best friends are gay, and sometimes we talk about the challenges they face, living as Orthodox Jews, especially since they are surrounded by people who - very well intentionally - try to set them up with girls. These friends of mine are more concerned with the people who don't pay attention to the Torah laws against gossip, and make them feel bad, and treat them as lesser people. Their concern is more against people in the community who used to be friends, and when said friends sussed out their "secret" decided they were no longer comfortable to have them around their children.

Stupid people are often hurtful, as sometimes they don't know better. Sometimes they do, and they are just jerks.

Be that as it may, I think that gay people who share my belief system are very strong people who deserve to be admired for their tenacity to do what they feel is right.

The fact that other people may say that they shouldn't have to worry and should be immediately indulged is not my concern.

People who don't share my belief system will do as they want. They have the right to be wrong. And I will fight for their right to be equal, even if they are wrong.

When we begin to deny what a person is, we begin to deny their personhood. when we begin to deny their personhood, it's only a short hop to begin to deny basic rights.
I've never denied what a person is. I have never denied anyone I've met belief in their personhood. (That includes my former husband.)

I believe that all people deserve to be loved and treated with respect. That not withstanding, as I said in an earlier post, there are some times of love and marriages that are sinful and wrong. I listed several, and I'll list them again. Marriage between a Jew and a non-Jew is wrong and sinful. Marriage between siblings is wrong and sinful. Marriage between parents and their children is wrong and sinful. Marriage between people of the same sex is wrong and sinful.

The incest between siblings and parents and children, besides the squick factor, has further basis in biology for why it shouldn't happen. Intermarriage between Jews and non-Jews and homosexual liaisons I object to for purely religious reasons.

Does participating in what my belief system declares as a forbidden union make them less as human beings? No. Does that take away the sin if they indulge? Also, no.

Other people don't agree with me. I know this. They are free to believe I am wrong.

I think that's what's going on in the marriage debates. Those on the "con" side don't see homosexuals as full human beings -- whether they admit that, or not. Then it becomes a matter of infringing upon one's rights.
There is a difference between saying that someone is wrong and saying that someone isn't a full human being.

You will never hear ME say, or even imply, that people who are wrong are lesser human beings.

You will also never hear ME say, or even imply, that people who have desires that are sinful are lesser human beings. I don't believe they are.
 
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