Just passing through and thought I'd have a win
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"Gaslighting"....you're enamored of that term lately.
Years are a myth.
Myths are a myth.
I believe you.Myths are a myth.
All may pass. Only I may win.Just passing through and thought I'd have a win
All may pass. Only I may win.
All may pass. Only I may win.
A problem is that it's so widely misusedThat's because there's so much of it around. I win by keeping my eyes open.
I find I'm miles ahead if I just apply the old duck test. If I hear quacking I assume it's a duck.A problem is that it's so widely misused
that it's tough to infer the intended meaning.
There is more than one kind of duck. To some, people there's aI find I'm miles ahead if I just apply the old duck test. If I hear quacking I assume it's a duck.
There is more than one kind of duck. To some, people there's a
new meaning of merely being wrong or dishonest. The mis-usage
I particularly dislike is applying the Jack Manningham variety (from
the play, Gas Light), ie, that they're intentionally being driven insane
by being presented with a false reality.
Some people just gotta learn there is diversity of opinion, & to disagree
without feeling victimized....& to not attack others with such accusations.
Sounds like a list of terms that are better than "gaslighting".Here you go getting serious again. It's a losing thing to do.
As far as species of duck go, there's enough ancillary evidence that Trump & co are gaslighting or insane.
As far as identifying the duck: When it comes to January 6th, for example, trivializing, denial and diverting are in evidence.
What is gaslighting? Examples and how to respond
- Countering: This describes a person questioning someone’s memories. They may say things such as, “you never remember things accurately,” or “are you sure? You have a bad memory.”
- Withholding: When someone withholds, they refuse to engage in a conversation. A person using this technique may pretend not to understand someone so that they do not have to respond to them. For example, they might say, “I do not know what you are talking about,” or “you are just trying to confuse me.”
- Trivializing: This occurs when a person belittles or disregards the other person’s feelings. They may accuse them of being too sensitive or of overreacting when they have valid concerns and feelings.
- Denial: Denial involves a person pretending to forget events or how they occurred. They may deny having said or done something or accuse someone of making things up.
- Diverting: With this technique, a person changes the focus of a discussion and questions the other person’s credibility instead. For example, they might say, “that is just another crazy idea you got from your friends.”
- Stereotyping: An article in the American Sociological Review states that a person using gaslighting techniques may intentionally use negative stereotypes of a person’s gender, race, ethnicity, sexuality, nationality, or age to manipulate them. For example, they may tell a female that people will think she is irrational or crazy if she seeks help for abuse.