"I want to do something and I'm stating it as a tentative suggestion so you can agree with me".
When I was direct she perceived it as a non-negotiable demand. We worked it out so that I don't "push her buttons" by saying "would you like to do x".
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At times we've wondered what our dog was up to when it was too quiet. I understand the value of sound.
Time for sleeping, cheerio, goodnight and all the rest of it.
Ares wants to watch a music video that almost always triggers misbehaviors(big ones, too).
I said no. He was insisting it was because of the profanity, and gave me examples of profanity in other songs we listen to.
I let him know it wasn't due to the ****ing profanity, and packed as many other bad words into the sentence as I could.
It actually made his jaw drop...
I said no. He was insisting it was because of the profanity, and gave me examples of profanity in other songs we listen to.
I let him know it wasn't due to the ****ing profanity, and packed as many other bad words into the sentence as I could.
It actually made his jaw drop...
He tried to "push your buttons" and you were not pushed. Good.
Unfortunately, he temporarily backed off... and then came on with full gusto.
The last three hours were most unhappy.
Wasn't a mania, but it appeared to start as a discipline issue and then turn into an obsession issue(you can tell when it was n obsessive thing because he frantically picks his toenails after it passes).
I repeat, MOST unhappy.
Stress aside, behavior fits that last that long are just plain boring. Can't do anything other than deal with the same old "yes-no-yes-no-yes-no"...
Ugh.
That seems a little dramatic on their end...
Sigh. I'm sorry to hear that.
Sunday morning win.
Off around the spring fete win.
Off around the spring fete win.
That cats face tells it all.
Try france for confusion, 7/24 does not mean open 7 days, 24 hours a day but open for 7 hours a day.
