My family(immediate and external) is all driving me nuts.
No, I don't want to send Ares into a tissy and get beat up so I can stand over a dead body. Really. Please stop calling/texting/poking me about it.
I would rather sit here and look at this beautiful teddy bear Grandma made, or ponder pleasant memories of her than stare at her in a state at her worst.
I respect and honor their right to do these customary rituals. I don't know why it is so hard for them to understand completing these rituals don't have any meaning to me, and the risk of several days worth of tantrums isn't worth it to me.
Grandma would understand. "Oh, no. Let's not get Ares all upset, bless his heart. He's just not able to understand, the poor dear" is what she'd say.
No, I don't want to send Ares into a tissy and get beat up so I can stand over a dead body. Really. Please stop calling/texting/poking me about it.
I would rather sit here and look at this beautiful teddy bear Grandma made, or ponder pleasant memories of her than stare at her in a state at her worst.
I respect and honor their right to do these customary rituals. I don't know why it is so hard for them to understand completing these rituals don't have any meaning to me, and the risk of several days worth of tantrums isn't worth it to me.
Grandma would understand. "Oh, no. Let's not get Ares all upset, bless his heart. He's just not able to understand, the poor dear" is what she'd say.