Hmmm, Misconceptions...
Let's see-
About Buddhism
-That we don't eat meat or drink alcohol
I do, but that has to do with my "denomination".
-That we worship the Buddha, usually through the Budai (Laughing Buddha)
Never have, never will.
-That we're all atheists
Not quite. We believe in a life after death at least.
-That we all follow the Dalai Lama
He's not really my cup of tea
-That all Caucasoid Buddhists coverted in college/university
My Dad was half buddhist, and I picked up buddhism from my primary school teacher.
-That we're all hippies
Ok, I am admittedly, as my parents. But I'm the only hippie buddhist I know
-That we have to become monks to gain Nirvana
Definitely not true.
From more well-read people
-That we do not allow homosexuals to become Buddhists
This is purely a cultural thing. Buddhists in Thailand, Sri Lanka, India, Tibet, Cambodia, and China will more likely than not have distain towards homosexuals. Buddhists in Japan, western countries, Russia, and other European places will, and always have, accepted homosexuals. More likely than not, a Buddhist will accept homosexuals.
About (Independent) Nichiren Buddhism
-That we worship Nichiren Daishonin
Nope, not true
-That we're just a Hollywood self-help craze
The religion is thousands of years old
-That priests are viewed similarly to the catholic priest
Priests in Nichiren Shoshu, Nichiren Shu, etc are more like community leaders, wbk control the distribution of Gohonzon (holy Mandalas) and other administrations. They have no real holy office, as they teach what Nichiren taught
-That Soka Gakkai is a cult
I have the utmost respect for Soka Gakkai, even though I am independent, and I do not believe them to be a cult. Some people within Soka Gakkai are cult-like, but that is the fault of the individual
-That the independent Movement is a small, inactive internet occurrence
Around 15% of all Nichiren Buddhists are Independent, and will usually go to the worship centres of other Nichiren Buddhist Groups, or start a cross-traditional group on their own. I personally go to a non-denominational Mahayana Buddhist temple
woww, thats a lot I've encountered lol