On a non-commercial sized vehicle? Just make it very tight. You don't need any special sauce if the lug nut is not rusty. Tighten by hand while the wheel is suspended. Lower the vehicle. Then tighten it with all of your might. I stand upon the end of the wrench, and there is a slight creaking noise that proceeds from the lugs. They are tight.Re-thinking use of anti-seize compound
on lug nuts....reduce torque, or torque
them on dry?