I was on BART (Bay Area Rapid Transit) yesterday. There are seats reserved for the infirm and elderly. I did not sit in them because I don't think of myself as elderly in spite of being 79 (a very weird number. 80 will be way weirder next year9. I recommend thinking of yourself as not old but as someone who happens to have various things that are not the same as when you were 20.I’ve been being to easy on myself thinking I’m old