1robin said:
What do you want from me? I do not agree that any were good.
That would be best settled by discussing what I said in my two most recent replies to you in that thread. Anyone who is interested can read my posts #1707, and #1708 at
http://www.religiousforums.com/foru...-why-cant-we-have-relationship-other-171.html and see for themselves that my secular arguments are much better than yours are.
Agnostic75 said:
From a secular perspective, why is homosexuality wrong for all homosexuals, and what solution do you recommend?
1robin said:
I have posted at least 2 thousands words on the former and have no burden concerning the latter.
Regarding the former, that is confirmation bias since you have misjudged all homosexuals based upon the poor physical health of an unknown percentage of homosexuals. From a medical perspective, there are not any doubts whatsoever that millions of homosexuals in the world enjoy physical, and emotional health that is comparable to the majority of heterosexuals, and that millions of homosexuals would be much better off having sex than practicing long term abstinence. It is well-known that having sex provides significant health benefits, and that long term abstinence has significant risks. I have posted proof many times, but you just ignore it. It is also well-known that many homosexuals who tried long term abstinence ended up much worse off than they were before. Logically, it is reasonable for those homosexuals to go back to having sex again, at least those who practiced safe sex.
Regarding the latter, you have recommended abstinence as a solution many times. I have told you numerous times that from a secular moral perspective, no practice is wrong unless there are better options. For many homosexuals, especially those who are monogamous, there are not any better options. As far as I recall, you claimed that the average homosexual monogamous relationship is somewhere around three years, but you do not have and valid statistics that say that. Anyway, there are certainly many homosexuals who are strongly committed to monogamy, and have been monogamous for at least ten years.
As I showed in the thread on homosexuality, you unfairly do not recommend that some other high risk groups practice abstinence. I also showed that homosexuality is far less harmful than heart disease, cancer, and obesity, which are often preventable, especially heart disease, and obesity, and that heterosexuals' greatest health threat by far is themselves, not homosexuals, as proven by epidemic levels of heart disease, cancer, and obesity.
Homosexuality is a problem, but not nearly as much of a problem as some other things are. In 2010, about 15,000 Americans died from AIDS. In the same year, about 600,000 Americans died from heart disease. That means that about 40 times more, or about 4,000% more Americans died from heart disease than died from AIDS. You have said that two wrongs do not make a right. That is true, but it is also wrong for you to fail to puts risks from all major causes in their proper perspective.
You have said that very few homosexuals love each other, but what about those who do? What is wrong with them?
You said that the majority of people have historically opposed homosexuality, but that is only because they did not properly understand it, and today, the majority of Americans accept homosexuality, and so do the majority of people in most advanced predominantly Christian countries.
Why do you suppose that some homosexuals are strongly committed to long term monogamy? How did they get that way? How did many of them achieve excellent physical, and mental health? Shouldn't you commend those homosexuals for beating the odds? Would you prefer that all homosexuals have poor physical, and emotional health?
Homosexuality is not a problem for all homosexuals since there is proof that many homosexuals are better off having sex than they would be if they practiced long term abstinence. Homosexuals did not ask for their sexual identity since sexual identity is not a choice. All that individual homosexuals can do is make the best choice for themselves, and for many of them, having sex in a monogamous relationship is the best choice.
1robin said:
What? There is an undeniable correlation between how many believe X and the likelihood X is true.
Not at all, if there was, then if any religion became larger than Christianity is, that religion would be the one true religion. I doubt that very many Christian Bible scholars would agree with that.
"Argumentum ad populum" is a well-known fallacy.
The majority of Christians used to accept slavery, colonization, and the subjugation of women, and they were wrong. As recently as 100 years ago, the vast majority of Christians believed that it was immoral for women to wear bikinis at beaches, and they were wrong.
Islam has grown by about the same amount per year as Christianity has, and will probably eventually become larger than Christianity is.
Even the Bible says that only a few people will get saved. Consider the following Scriptures:
Matthew 7:13-14
"Enter ye in at the strait
gate: for wide is the
gate, and broad is the way, that leadeth to destruction, and many there be which go in thereat: Because strait is the
gate, and narrow is the way, which leadeth unto life, and few there be that find it."
Paul says that in the last days, many will turn away from the faith.