The Jehovah's Witnesses pattern themselves after the early Christian congregation. To the congregations Paul wrote "This will be my third visit to you. "Every matter must be established by the testimony of two or three witnesses.". And of course he was Jewish and he knew this; Deuteronomy 19:15 One witness is not enough to convict anyone accused of any crime or offense they may have committed. A matter must be established by the testimony of two or three witnesses.
They use what the Bible says about two witnesses to set free members who are accused of child sexual abuse.
But there is a second witness. Every matter in the Christian congregation should be settle with prayer. "Where two or more are gathered in my name" says Jesus "I am there". Do the Jehovah's Witnesses think that Jesus does not know whenever a child is abused?
Matthew 10:29 Two sparrows sell for a coin of small value, do they not? Yet not one of them will fall to the ground without your Fathers knowledge.
However, when they do not have two witnesses they do yet mark the individual as one to be closely watched, although yet to be regarded as a brother or sister until it can be made sure of that the accusations against that brother or sister are not credulously made.
But then there is where it gets sensitive, for the attitude of society in general is toward prematurely villainizing a person whenever a child makes such an accusation and that has proved to ruin the lives of many a man.
I knew of one case where the man was accused by his daughter of sexual misconduct and then the moment she found out that it did not mean she would be removed and placed in the detention home where her friend had been sent to live, she up and told the truth that she made the entire story up. But that town still crucified her father to the point he lost all employability and and fell hopelessly in debt. And this girl even eventually took a lie detector test which supported that she was telling the truth about having made it all up so that she could get put in the detention home to be with her friend.
What I feel about it won't change the evil thing people are doing because of the evil they rightly hate. But I am a Jehovah's Witness and I know how these things really work. And i know that it is evil to exaggerate things out of proportion that one was not close enough to in order to really know about.
Am I saying it never has happened among the witnesses? No. But I am saying that they do everything that is humanly possible to stand against it happening or continuing to happen as soon as the first hint of it arises, admirably seeking to not falsely punish anyone.
And they do at times bring the authorities in, actually encouraging the offended party to obey the law and make the complaint with the authorities.
I mean, would you rather that your church elders were like the crackpot neighbor who accuses you of abusing your children to the children services before he or she talks to you? That goes against nature. Nature made you the parent and it is to you they should speak before flying off the handle.
I guarantee no body of elders would seek to cover such a thing up and I can tell you exactly why. The counsel Paul gave in 1 Corinthians chapter 5 clearly tells them to turn such a man over to the world to be judged and Paul further supports that at Romans chapter 13.
But haters of Jehovah' Witnesses will not be satisfied lest they can manufacture an appearance of serious error against elders who are willing to shoulder what are often very unclear and complicated matters in a manner that honors God and men.