ImmortalFlame
Woke gremlin
I didn't say they are the same. I am specifically talking about your use of the word "ACTUAL".If you want to use actual as both adopted and birth children that is ok. It still does not change the fact that adopted and birth children to parents are not the same.
For example, if I were to say "children with learning disabilities are not the ACTUAL children of their parents", and you were to point out that what I said makes it sound like I was calling disabled children illegitimate or lesser, do you think a reasonable response from me would be to say "you can say they're actual if you like, but that still does not change the fact that non-disabled and disabled children are not the same".
Do you see the non-sequitur there?
I don't have a huge problem with that. My issue was with calling adopted children "not the ACTUAL children" of their adoptive parents, which sounds pretty obviously wrong on a few levels.Nope. I don't understand how this pertains to the discussion because I can call an adopted child the parents actual child but if the parents asked me if the child was their birth child then I would say no. Same as a transgender man, I will call them a man if they want but if they ask me if I believe they are a man I would say no.
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