I stepped away from this discussion for a few hours due to the cruel and hateful posts I had read because they upset me. I was reacting negatively to all of the judgmental posts, so I decided I needed a break from the thread. Now that I'm back, I'd like to state unequivocally that the posts you are referring to reaffirm my belief that no one should ever base their moral perspective on the Bible, as well as my belief that evangelical Christians are some of the most hateful and bigoted people I've ever met in my life. Furthermore, the personal conflict I had in this thread yesterday reaffirms my belief that they are often the most judgmental people I've ever met as well. I will say that reading their posts in this thread certainly hasn't inspired me to become a Christian again.
The vast majority of evangelicals I've met in person or online are cunning because they conceal their hatred and religious prejudice beneath the guise of "speaking God's truth" and "spreading the gospel." Some, on the other hand, don't even bother concealing their genuine prejudices while preaching about "God's love" and how they "hate the sin but love the sinner." Finally, I'd like to say that, after reading the posts you were referring to, I'm ashamed to admit that I was once an evangelical Christian myself. In fact, if it weren't for the decent and kindhearted Christians I know, I'm sure I'd loathe Christians by now.