A person has to be born again or they aren’t a believer John 3
Sounds like you have been indoctrinated into a "born again" cult. You have it backwards, when someone believes all the mythology in the gospels then that is "born again". They buy into needing a savior demigod (in this case Jesus), buy into the "you are a sinner" baloney, and all the other myths associated with the Jewish version of the Greek salvation demigod.
There is no place where it says one has to say the words "born again", that is an assumption of the born again cults.
It mentions spirit and water. We have covered what "spirit entails" and water is baptism. Another Greek invention that the earlier salvation religions also used.
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"Baptism has been widely compared with initiation into the Mystery cults. In many of the Mysteries purification through ritual bathing was required as a prerequisite for initiation.
It is interesting to note that the early Christian writer Tertullian (c. 160-225CE) would not have agreed with this appraisal. Not only did he believe that certain of the Mysteries practiced baptism, but also that they did so in hope of attaining forgiveness of sins and a new birth. This was so striking a similarity that it clearly demanded some form of explanation. Not surprisingly, demonic imitation was the culprit.
The Nations, who are strangers to all understandings of spiritual powers, ascribe to their idols the imbuing of waters with the self-same efficacy. But they cheat themselves with waters that are widowed. For washing is the channel through which they are initiated into some sacred rites...of some notorious Isis or Mithras...at the Appolianrian or Eleusinian games they are baptised and they presume that the effect of their doing is their regeneration and the remission of the penalties due to their perjuries.
Another area where some have seen a link between Christian baptism and the Mystery religions concerns the Taurobolium associated with the cult of Cybele and Attis. "
. If a person is saying now there is no God and say they were a Christian once then they had to know God existed and had a relationship with Him. The 2 don’t mix, can’t have it both ways.
NO they absolutely do mix, I have demonstrated how this is possible. You are either not actually listening to the discussion because you are just here to read a script or you haven't comprehended a very simple argument.
Islamic fundamentalists claim they have a very real, personal and intense relationship with Allah. I have even provided examples. Hindu often have the same personal relationship with Krishna. I have provided examples.
Yet these are not real deities. So it is therefore clearly possible to have a relationship with a fictional deity. It takes place in your mind. Which is also where relationships mostly take place with real people as well. If you think a deity is real your mind will generate expected emotions and all sorts of emotional reactions will happen. As we see with Islam and Hinduism. Or do you need more examples?
An atheist who said they were a Christian weren’t really ever born again or they would be an apostate, still know there is a God, but would have rejected Jesus as their King.
So is a person born again by doing some works or is that a gift from God through Jesus Christ?
Just like a Muslim or Hindu can realize their deity isn't real so can a Christian. We have already gone over all this, with many examples.
Let's refresh your memory.
"What is your personal relationship to Sri Krishna?"
-For me he is my brother who had always been with me in every situation let it be those nights when I had to finish my school projects staying up late at night or those when I was too afraid to have a debate (I had stage fear). He had been encouraging me every now and then and I can both feel and enjoy his presence which feels great to me . He had been trying hard to make me happy which I like actually
. But for me he is the only one to stay with me and keep on encouraging me to take up new things
-My personal relationship with Sri Krishna is one of unflinching faith and absolute surrender. I see him as a Guru in the Bhagvad Gita, sharing the wisdom that is needed to lead our lives. I see him as a parent who has set an ideal example for us to follow and who is ever forgiving towards our sins. Krishna is the saviour I call upon when in distress and the friend I share my joy with. He is the hope in my prayer, the courage in my actions and the triumph in my success.
-The thought of Krishna being fake never came to my mind because I always knew that he is real and i still know that he’s not just a myth, He is completely real. So i wasn’t really a devotee after all. I used to behave like a prostitute trying to seduce guys in my school always. I used to have relations with multiple boys at once. I just feel like crying to death when I think about the old me. However, this lockdown changed me completely, I’m no longer like that anymore. Wanna know how? Well, during the lockdown, I started watching the repeat telecast of a pretty old serial produced by Ramanand Sagar ji. It was ‘Ramayan’. After I finished watching that, I started watching Shri Krishna and my and kanha’s love story starts here. I became his devotee and i just couldn’t stop thinking about him all day long this happened more than an year ago. I started reading Srila Prabhupada ji’s books and my love for Krishna started getting even more intense after that. I am a completely different person now I am not the old me anymore and I am very happy about this, My elder sister calls me an old lady because I am a devotee of krishna and she believes that devotion is meant for aged people only. For me krishna is my Sakha, My lover, My life, My soul, The only one I am alive for. I love you Krishna. Hare krishna!!
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Hare Krishna
My relationship with Krishna
You know , even sometimes I sit and think
What he is to me ?
Is he a brother who is always ready to help me in any situation ?
Is he a father who always supports me ?
Is he a friend who understands me more than anyone ?
And the answer I got was
- I tied rakhi to him . That day he promised me to be ready to help me in any situation as a brother .
- I promised him to live only with him for my whole life . That day he promised me to be a lover and love me till eternity .
- I lost my father in December 2020 and I missed the support of my father . That day he promised me to always support me as a father .
- The day I found myself to be all alone and not found anyone to share my feelings . That day he promised me to be my Best friend .
He is my everything . And above all I am HIS .
I am his servant who wants to serve Radhakrishna's lotus feet .
So I have Sakhya and Dasya ( which is very important ) for him .
Mostly I love him as My love / Friend .
Radhe Radhe
Your devotee friend ,
_Krishnee
Clearly these people take this very seriously and are 100% convinced Krishna is in their life.
I was certain as well. But I realized what I thought was certainty was a psychological trick. The host of Atheist Experience was studying to be a Baptist Minister when he decided to learn more about the historical aspects so he could defend the religion better. Like Bart Ehrman he realized it's just a story and not supported by evidence.