lol, so in other words you are saying that just like that mean doctor, god is not a good being.
and if there is nothing you can do to convince him to help your relative, what do you do? take the blame off of god, say that it is his will, and that he wanted your relative to "come home" LOL and then you continue worshiping god like a little sheep. how funny and sad is this?
another good example is this:
imagine you are having breakfast at a downtown street corner cafe, while all of the sudden you see an abandoned toddler crawling its way into a busy intersection. there is plenty people around, but they wont save the toddler because they are evil. but you on the other hand are good natured and sinless. but rather than save that child, you too sit there and choose to keep eating your breakfast while concerning yourself with the ammount of sugar to put in your coffe, since you are on a diet and all...
now, in this example, you are god, the people are humans and the toddler is either an innocent child in africa starving to death, or a child with cancer suffering to death.
would you consider god in this example to be good natured, sinless and without any guilt? or would you be a realist and say that god is also to blame for the child's death, because though he has the power to save it, he chose not to