Trailblazer
Veteran Member
I am not saying that I haven't encountered any rude Christians on this forum, only not many lately. There was one but that person seems to have left.Not in my experience on this forum. In general, atheists and pagans are more rational and respectful than most Christians I've interacted with on RF. I've been on this forum for two and a half years, and I've rarely had an atheist or pagan resort to calling me disparaging names or posting false accusations against me. My experiences on RF mirror my experiences with atheists, pagans, and Christians in real life as well. Based on my experiences on RF and in real life, I believe that both atheists and pagans I either know or have encountered online are far more Christian than the vast majority of the Christians I either know or have encountered online. I would say that in general, it's the atheists and pagans who are the ones who genuinely embody the primary moral teachings and virtues of Christianity, such as love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control (Galatians 5:22–23), whereas the vast majority of Christians I've met are the polar opposite (Galatians 5:19–21). I've said it before, and I'll say it again: some of the most obnoxious and prejudicial people I've ever met are Christians, and the majority of them are either evangelical conservatives or Jehovah's Witnesses.
And, to be quite honest with you, the more I interact with these Christians, the more determined I am to stay away from Christianity. In my opinion, they are very good at convincing people to totally reject Christianity. Since I became a Wiccan a couple of years ago, no Wiccans or other pagans I've met have ever treated me unfairly. I've rarely had a problem with atheists, either. I can't say the same about the majority of Christians I've met, especially here on RF.
Finally, I'd like to say that if I meet a kind and friendly Christian, then I consider them to be the exception, not the rule.
I've addressed this issue before in other threads:
Here is the first post: Probably leaving
And the second one: New Rating Poll: "Prayer" or "Prayer/Best Wishes"?
Although this is not true for all Christians, the rudeness usually starts as soon as they find out that I am a Baha'i, not a Christian, especially if I tell them I believe that Baha'u'llah was the return of Christ, or if I say that the same Jesus is never coming back to earth, or if I say that I don't believe that Jesus is the only way to God. As long as I steer clear of these subjects I am usually okay, since Baha'i beliefs do have a lot in common with some Christian belief, just not the Christian doctrines.
If you are getting on the bad side of Christians it might be because you criticize Christianity since some people can't tolerate criticism of their religious beliefs. I don't enjoy criticism of my beliefs, but since I am certain of my beliefs it is like water off a duck's back when Christians say that Baha'u'llah a false prophet or a fraud.
If I am insulted by an atheist it is usually when they call me homophobic because of the Baha'i Law that states that marriage is only allowed between a man and a woman. I am not homophobic just because that law exists, I like homosexuals as well as anyone else, but there is no way I can convince these atheists of that since they don't understand the definition of homophobia.
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