URGENT: Family needs emergency rent help.

[frangipani]

Great idea! When I get on SSI, I can pay her back over time.

Hi, As Luis Dantos says Take this opportunity to try and establish yourselves again, I think that is a wonderful suggestion and definitely agree.
I don't make loans, if I give I give freely and as the Spirit moves me. You owe me nothing at all. Just make the most of the time it has bought you, if you do that, that is my reward and repayment.

 

[Saint Frankenstein]

Hi, As Luis Dantos says Take this opportunity to try and establish yourselves again, I think that is a wonderful suggestion and definitely agree.
I don't make loans, if I give I give freely and as the Spirit moves me. You owe me nothing at all. Just make the most of the time it has bought you, if you do that, that is my reward and repayment.

You have a beautiful heart and soul. We both thank you so much!

 

[Saint Frankenstein]

We have to move. The owners aren't changing their mind.

 

[LuisDantas]

Here is hoping you can find a good solution at least for the meantime, then. Best of luck.

 

[adi2d]

We have to move. The owners aren't changing their mind.

Does this mean you will be needing first last and deposit?

Another option would be to get your mom in an assisted living arrangement and you start your own life. Just a thought

 

[Saint Frankenstein]

Does this mean you will be needing first last and deposit?

The property manager's brother in law has a house for rent and we have enough money for first and last month's rent thanks to the kind people who have donated. We just need to figure out the moving process, I guess.

Another option would be to get your mom in an assisted living arrangement and you start your own life. Just a thought

Such thoughts aren't helpful and would best be kept to yourself.

 

[Shadow Wolf]

Does this mean you will be needing first last and deposit?

Another option would be to get your mom in an assisted living arrangement and you start your own life. Just a thought

Not even I hate my mom enough to stick her in a home, which costs money, and if you have no money for rent then such as arrangement, as immoral and unethical as it tends to be (condemning your parents (or anyone) to such degradation), is not an option.

 

[Saint Frankenstein]

Not even I hate my mom enough to stick her in a home, which costs money, and if you have no money for rent then such as arrangement, as immoral and unethical as it tends to be (condemning your parents (or anyone) to such degradation), is not an option.

Bingo. My mom is 63 and perfectly capable of living her own life, not 85 and senile. She doesn't need anyone to take care of her and would resent being thrown away like that. She probably has more energy than most of the people on this forum and I regard such notions as adi2d's as being highly offensive. It's actually me that needs the help. So if anyone is going to be stuck in a "home", it would be me, not her. Lol.

 

[LuisDantas]

Not even I hate my mom enough to stick her in a home, which costs money, and if you have no money for rent then such as arrangement, as immoral and unethical as it tends to be (condemning your parents (or anyone) to such degradation), is not an option.

Not to stray too far off-topic, but a living home is not always degradation. Some of them are very good places to live.

Of course, those tend to be expensive.

 

[adi2d]

The property manager's brother in law has a house for rent and we have enough money for first and last month's rent thanks to the kind people who have donated. We just need to figure out the moving process, I guess.

Such thoughts aren't helpful and would best be kept to yourself.

I don't even know your mother but I do know what my priority would be if I was in your position. She could get social security and a place to live.


Its sort of a give a fish learn how to fish thing.

I don't mean to be harsh but you got knocked down but it can't improve until you stand up

 

[Saint Frankenstein]

I don't even know your mother but I do know what my priority would be if I was in your position. She could get social security and a place to live.


Its sort of a give a fish learn how to fish thing.

I don't mean to be harsh but you got knocked down but it can't improve until you stand up

Did you even bother to read my post? We're not going to be homeless. We have a place to move into.

 

[Shadow Wolf]

Not to stray too far off-topic, but a living home is not always degradation. Some of them are very good places to live.

Of course, those tend to be expensive.

Probably. But my grandmother's second husband died in home of dehydration, I have seen the neglect and inhumane treatment in some, personally I have only ever seen (and heard from a few people I've known who have worked at them) what can be considered some of the worst of humanity, especially when sending your parents to a home is done for convenience.

 

[Buttercup]

St. Frank's mom is only 63...no where near the age of needing to be admitted to an assisted living place, especially given the fact that she works.

 

[adi2d]

Not even I hate my mom enough to stick her in a home, which costs money, and if you have no money for rent then such as arrangement, as immoral and unethical as it tends to be (condemning your parents (or anyone) to such degradation), is not an option.

I wasn't suggesting a nursing home. Different places call it different names. I think its called section 8 housing here. Usually appts that uncle sugar pays part of your rent depending on your income.

 

[adi2d]

St. Frank's mom is only 63...no where near the age of needing to be admitted to an assisted living place, especially given the fact that she works.

I've always called those places nursing homes. That's not what I meant. Sorry for the confusion

 

[Saint Frankenstein]

No one's going to a nursing home. My mom and I are not going our separate ways and no one is living in Section 8 housing.

End of discussion.

 

[adi2d]

No one's going to a nursing home. My mom and I are not going our separate ways and no one is living in Section 8 housing.

End of discussion.

From what you've said. Your mom makes $300 and you 0
Its beneath you to take money from US but ok to beg on internet?
Best you suck it up take your meds and get a job

 

[Saint Frankenstein]

From what you've said. Your mom makes $300 and you 0
Its beneath you to take money from US but ok to beg on internet?
Best you suck it up take your meds and get a job

Please exist this thread. You have been rude throughout it. I don't need your judgments and lectures. I'm not a child and I'm well-aware of my situation. Go away or I'll start reporting you.

 

[adi2d]

Please exist this thread. You have been rude throughout it. I don't need your judgments and lectures. I'm not a child and I'm well-aware of my situation. Go away or I'll start reporting you.

I don't believe I'm breaking any of the rules by having a different opinion than you.
That is the second time you've told me to leave a thread. I don't think you have that authority

 

[Saint Frankenstein]

I don't believe I'm breaking any of the rules by having a different opinion than you.
That is the second time you've told me to leave a thread. I don't think you have that authority

This isn't exactly a regular thread and I had to get staff approval to make it. You are just being rude and insulting. Why keep posting in a thread when you're not adding anything helpful to it and it's obviously upsetting to people, if you're not trolling?

I've heard your opinion and I told you it's not helpful to me more than once, but you persist. I'm asking you to stop.