Here's the catch then.
You claim the violence in the OT was not carried out by Jesus. But it was ordered and endorsed, and many times carried out, by God.
Therefore Jesus, who is God, was deeply involved in the violence advocated in the OT.
I am not attempting to denigrate your beliefs. I am simply pointing out the hypocrisy shown in this thread.
According to Mathew, Jesus himself said; "For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you. Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother's eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own eye? How can you say to your brother, 'Let me take the speck out of your eye,' when all the time there is a plank in your own eye? You hypocrite, first take the plank out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to remove the speck from your brother's eye."