22 jul 2018 stvdv 019 33 info
I try to explain why "My religion is better than Atheism" equals to "belittling" Atheism [Of course I know the Atheist won't feel belittled, being smart. But still it is "belittling"]
When you tell someone: "My religion is better than your religion" you imply to him "Your religion is less good than my religion", this is called "belittling".
When you tell someone: "My preference is Christian religion" then you imply NOTHING about HIS religion. Just your preference. No comparison. Hence no "belittling"
That was my guess also. That is why I kept it to 3 lines in my previous reply.
Good example. Because it will show exactly the same, but maybe you see it when using "sex" as example.
No that is so totally NOT my logic. Here you misunderstand me completely, meaning 180 degrees wrong.
You are hetero (as am I). So our preference is towards women. No problem so far. Now using your analogy:
So we have A: Preference "man/woman" +Preference "Jesus"
So we have B: Preference "man/man" +Preference "Jesus"
So we have C: Preference "man/woman" +Preference "Buddha"
So we have D: Preference "man/man" +Preference "Buddha"
How I would argue:
I choose option "C" today. So I say "I prefer as a man to have sex with a woman" + "I prefer as a man to pray to Buddha"
I do not think any further than this [no better than in my mind]:
In my mind does not exist the phrase "straight sex is better than gay sex" ==>
do you think "straight sex is better than gay sex"
In my mind does not exist the phrase "gay sex is better than straight sex"
In my mind does not exist the phrase "Buddha is better than Jesus"
In my mind does not exist the phrase "Jesus is better than Buddha" ==>
do you think "Jesus is better than Buddha"
Hence:
In my mind does not exist the phrase "My religion is better than Your religion" ==>
do you think "Your religion is better than My religion"
Those Ideas [better than] did exist only in your mind, not in my mind:
Hence your remark "I suppose we disagree on a fundamental level"
On my simple statement
"My religion is
better than your religion" then as per English language you "
belittle" the other religion
You are not the first Christian who really could not see this.
I think I know how this happened
When from young age you were always told "Jesus is the only way", "My religion, Christianity, is better than other religions"
Then after a few years for you it has become a fact "My religion is better than your religion"
And you don't even see it as "belittling" anymore, because it is a fact for you
Fact meaning "That what is true for you MUST be true for all humans"
But I can assure you that on RF if we are going to do a poll, that I am not the only one in this
At least
@PopeADope will support me on this [to be sure of this, I did not use Muhammad in my example
]
And if I extend it to "My religion is better than Atheism" then as per English language you "belittle" Atheism
At least
@ChristineM will support me on this [Of course she will not
feel belittled, that is a totally different issue. But as per definition it
is "belittling"]