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We can't choose to believe?

Riverwolf

Amateur Rambler / Proud Ergi
Premium Member
I don't remember saying that. The choice you mentioned was about the choice of changing beliefs, not "making choices" in general, everyone are doing that all the time. Choice over what belief you want is a simple matter of knowing how, that I can assure you.

I doubt it's so universal as that, though.

Whenever my beliefs have changed, it's never been conscious. It's always been gradual and mostly automatic based on the sorts of things I'm exposed to.
 

Kueid

Avant-garde
I doubt it's so universal as that, though.

Whenever my beliefs have changed, it's never been conscious. It's always been gradual and mostly automatic based on the sorts of things I'm exposed to.
There's nothing wrong about that, unless you wanted to hand pick yours beliefs for whatever reason, then I think you should learn how to do it. Needless to say that we are all in the same boat, regardless of beliefs or choices over beliefs. I believe in that.
 

Draka

Wonder Woman
I don't remember saying that. The choice you mentioned was about the choice of changing beliefs, not "making choices" in general, everyone are doing that all the time. Choice over what belief you want is a simple matter of knowing how, that I can assure you.
Cool. Could you please tell me how to believe something I know to not be true as everything I know goes counter to it? I'd really like to learn how to believe the Earth is a flat disc which sets upon a giant egg roll floating in space. How do I simply make myself truly believe that so that I am afraid of falling off the edge? Please tell me.
 

Kueid

Avant-garde
Cool. Could you please tell me how to believe something I know to not be true as everything I know goes counter to it? I'd really like to learn how to believe the Earth is a flat disc which sets upon a giant egg roll floating in space. How do I simply make myself truly believe that so that I am afraid of falling off the edge? Please tell me.
First, let me say to you that there is levels of difficulty depending how deep rooted the belief is. Second, I can't possibly know right now how to teach this ability to you cause I didn't learn it from a teacher, I developed it on my own and it is a process that runs in the background of my mind. Third, if you really want to know how to do it there is some NLP techniques that can help you out with specific contexts, just find then for your self, don't be lazy.
 

YmirGF

Bodhisattva in Recovery
If you maintain you can choose to believe anything at all, regardless of evidence, experience, fact and reason...well, I'll leave it to you to try to figure out what that just may say about your thinking and reasoning ability.

Out of curiosity, what would you think of a person who was told to believe they could sprout wings and fly off a skyscraper and they just accepted that as true, and believed it enough to actually jump off said skyscraper? Would you say their mind was working as it should?
Playing the devil's advocate a sec, using a ludicrous example is hardly sound reasoning in all cases. In regards to choosing beliefs, I will agree that it is not the norm, but there are histories of people who accepted Islam AFTER they were captured and had little other choices. Such conversions, especially among Muhammad's captured wives, were obviously not heartfelt choices to believe the Islamic credo, however after many years, they adopted the ideas - therefore they did consciously choose what to believe - albeit in the absence of other meaningful choices and to ensure their survival.
 

Willamena

Just me
Premium Member
Belief is not by choice, because beliefs are those propositions with the appearance of truth, and we do not give it to ourselves to determine what gets to be the genuine truth. At least, our language doesn't.
 

Quintessence

Consults with Trees
Staff member
Premium Member
If you maintain you can choose to believe anything at all, regardless of evidence, experience, fact and reason...

I don't recall saying such a thing. Not sure where you got this from. Paradigm shifting and seeing multiple truths instead of a single truth still uses those things, and I'm kind of confused as to how you got the impression otherwise. When was the last time you used your imagination? Have you ever been an actor? Role-played? Did you have to throw out evidence, experience, facts, and reason when doing those things? Paradigm shifting isn't much different from that - it's going "yeah, I usually use this map of the territory, but for a while I'm going to use this map." Each map has its pattern to it - it's a matter of learning how to read it. You're saying you can't do that, and the people who can have defective thinking or reasoning abilities?


Out of curiosity, what would you think of a person who was told to believe they could sprout wings and fly off a skyscraper and they just accepted that as true, and believed it enough to actually jump off said skyscraper? Would you say their mind was working as it should?

Is there any particular reason why you're picking a ridiculously extreme example? Did you read the earlier post I linked to at all? I'm going to guess not, because I don't think you would have asked this question if you'd read it.
 

YmirGF

Bodhisattva in Recovery
Belief is not by choice, because beliefs are those propositions with the appearance of truth, and we do not give it to ourselves to determine what gets to be the genuine truth. At least, our language doesn't.
Could you dumb this down for us knuckledraggers?
 

Draka

Wonder Woman
I don't recall saying such a thing. Not sure where you got this from. Paradigm shifting and seeing multiple truths instead of a single truth still uses those things, and I'm kind of confused as to how you got the impression otherwise. When was the last time you used your imagination? Have you ever been an actor? Role-played? Did you have to throw out evidence, experience, facts, and reason when doing those things? Paradigm shifting isn't much different from that - it's going "yeah, I usually use this map of the territory, but for a while I'm going to use this map." Each map has its pattern to it - it's a matter of learning how to read it. You're saying you can't do that, and the people who can have defective thinking or reasoning abilities?
Pretending and imagining is not the same as honestly believing something. I can pretend with my children that we are knights fighting this huge dragon that has invaded our home, but I certainly don't believe it to be a reality. Entertaining a silly idea and playing "what ifs" in one's head are not the same as believing. Saying you believe in something is not the same as actually believing. You can give lip service to anything, it doesn't mean you actually believe what you are giving service to. Belief is different. And it is not a conscious choice.

Is there any particular reason why you're picking a ridiculously extreme example? Did you read the earlier post I linked to at all? I'm going to guess not, because I don't think you would have asked this question if you'd read it.
It's not a ridiculously extreme example. It is an honest one to show you the simple fact that one cannot choose to just believe something merely because they are told to or want to. To do so, to go against your own brain's reasoning ability is to show an imbalance in one's thinking and reasoning abilities.

And yes, I did read that post. My question is still valid. In your post you said that you found the challenges in the first paragraph of the quote in the OP "easy". If they are easy, if changing your complete understanding of all math concepts, honestly changing the way you understand math is "easy" then there is something wrong with reasoning ability. This is why I said I don't believe you that you could do that. I'd like to think you are a reasonable and rational intelligent person. Therefore, I simply do not believe you that you could honestly believe those things.
 

Willamena

Just me
Premium Member
We can't choose to believe?

Why? Please
We do so many things on our own on daily basis so why one should not be free to believe if convinced. We are social that entails that whatever is truth for us should be told to our brethren in humanity and the vice a versa. Nobody has monopoly on truth. Truth must be shared with others.
Regards
"If convinced" means that information or an argument changed you.
 

psychoslice

Veteran Member
Every choice we make is made through our conditioning and programming, so we don't really make any choices, and because of our conditioning and programming we have no choice.
 

Quintessence

Consults with Trees
Staff member
Premium Member
@Draka Pardon, I don't see much purpose to continuing this conversation with you, since it seems you just want to argue, insinuate not very nice thing about people for being different than you, use unreasonably extreme examples to "prove" (hardly) a point, and invalidate others experiences instead of taking them at their word.
 

Draka

Wonder Woman
@Draka Pardon, I don't see much purpose to continuing this conversation with you, since it seems you just want to argue, insinuate not very nice thing about people for being different than you, use unreasonably extreme examples to "prove" (hardly) a point, and invalidate others experiences instead of taking them at their word.
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Okie dokie. If it makes you feel better to ignore that I made valid points and chalk them up as unreasonable, have at it. It's not like I'm the only one here making these arguments or that no one is agreeing with me.

By the way, how much is 4+9 in your world now?
 

Quintessence

Consults with Trees
Staff member
Premium Member
Every choice we make is made through our conditioning and programming, so we don't really make any choices, and because of our conditioning and programming we have no choice.

So for the people who choose to believe this...

... what do you think about personal accomplishments, then? Would that phrase be an oxymoron, since no accomplishments (or deeds of infamy) could be personal? Everything you are is a mere result of system inputs, right? Hmm. Then one also has to wonder... if this is the case... how does one justify locking people up in jails? Why do we have a legal system that is predicated on the assumption of free will, and that there is a choice? Why do we have a culture that celebrates individual accomplishments, under the assumption of individual choices leading to success or failure? Hmm.
 
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