I find that incredibly romantic...I don't know if you have ever seen Zeffirelli's version. The party scene, where they meet for the first time listening to the song "What is a youth?", make people cry out of joy. That's the most romantic moment in movies history, and one of the things that make life worth-living.
Yes I've seen that one. It proves my point: Romeo was prone to completely forget about Juliet for some other girl down the line, betraying her. Not so romantic now, is it?
They also knew nothing about each other, didn't know if they shared the same interests, and certainly didn't know about the others' ability to fully commit to a long-term relationship. That's not love, that's obsession; or rather, lust, which I believe is one of the Seven Deadly Sins?
I'm not saying true love
cannot be at (relative) first sight; I know of a couple that met, got married a week later, and then a few years ago, both of them died weeks apart from each other after many, many decades of a happy marriage. But it requires a degree of sacrifice from both. And here's the thing about sacrifice: it involves giving something up that
you don't want to give up for the sake of the relationship. (Life doesn't count, because upon one or both being dead, the relationship is naturally over).
These two kids were going through the initial Passion Fire of a new relationship. The Test of True Love happens
after that Fire has died, and the problems and conflicts rear their ugly heads.
Besides, seriously? THAT'S counted among the "most romantic" moments?
Dude, I've even seen Casablanca, and IMO even THAT'S got
nothing on the
subplot of Conner McLeod's relationship with his wife Heather from Highlander.