All those various ideations that we call "God" are God.
What we need to recognize and understand is that 'God' is the term that we use to refer to a profound mystery. That is the mystery source, sustenance, and purpose of all that exists to us. None of us knows how to resolve this mystery, but all of us have developed various ideas about it (including atheists). And many of us have adopted those ideas as if they were reality itself.
But there is no way that any mere human can know this to be so. And our believing it's so does not stand as the proof that what we believe to be so, is so. So we need to understand this, and to respect our own limitations.
I see little value in arguing about who's ideas of God are more or less true than anyone else's, since none of us can possibly know that. We can share our ideas with each other, certainly, and adopt whatever ideas seem to work best for ourselves as we live our lives. But beyond this, there is really nowhere else to go with it. Arguing about it is just endless and pointless self-justification.