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What is Happening in Our Schools?

Aquitaine

Well-Known Member
The Bible is definitely not a part of my life and I'm doing just fine without it.
Same here. Though I do need the bible to believe that executing 3000 people for dancing naked around a golden idol is perfectly ethical.
I do need the bible to believe executing homosexuals is justified.
I do need the bible to believe that rapists marrying thier victims is justified etc.
 

Shadow Wolf

Certified People sTabber & Business Owner
Same here. Though I do need the bible to believe that executing 3000 people for dancing naked around a golden idol is perfectly ethical.
I do need the bible to believe executing homosexuals is justified.
I do need the bible to believe that rapists marrying thier victims is justified etc.
It will be such a wonderful day when we realize we are socially so far removed from what's actually going in the Bible that we'll shed the dogmatic baggage and replace it with something less personal.
 

SomeRandom

Still learning to be wise
Staff member
Premium Member
If it were found that scientific evidence did not actually show genetics or biology to be the ultimate determining factor in same sex attraction, what would be the basis of the assertion that homosexuals should not be discriminated against or treated unkindly?

That we live in a free society that only really punishes choice when it's demonstrably harmful?
That homosexual people are actual human beings?
Basic common decency?
Basic Civility/civil conduct?
What kind of question is that? Aren't you supposed to treat people how you would want to be treated??
Do you want to be discriminated against for an innocuous choice you made too?
The hell mate? Your parents not teach you basic manners?
 

Etritonakin

Well-Known Member
That we live in a free society that only really punishes choice when it's demonstrably harmful?
That homosexual people are actual human beings?
Basic common decency?
Basic Civility/civil conduct?
What kind of question is that? Aren't you supposed to treat people how you would want to be treated??
Do you want to be discriminated against for an innocuous choice you made too?
The hell mate? Your parents not teach you basic manners?

I didn't say that there would be no basis otherwise -but wanted to point out that the basis should actually lie elsewhere -as in common decency, etc...

My parents taught me manners quite well, but I must say I have since become rather uncouth.
I don't have the energy to be socially acceptable right now.
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lewisnotmiller

Grand Hat
Staff member
Premium Member
Is that a "wow" because it is sadly true or for another reason?

I'm personally not a fan of dressing up personal opinion as fact, is all. When taken to extremes, it seems so disingenuous I always figure the person doing it HAS to know, and is probably more interested in reinforcing the narrative in their own head than in adding value to the world around them.

Schools in Australia are breeding grounds for all manner of unsavory conduct. The fact that most people don't consider then "unsavory" any more is beside the point.

Unlike...err...churches?

Teens are freely having sex...a lot of it under the influence of drugs and alcohol, so it is largely unprotected. That means that STD's are on the rise as well.

I like the concept of personal responsibility and natural consequences. This being the case, I see education part of the mitigation, not part of the problem.

Parents are almost forced to allow their teens to sleep with whoever they like under their own roof.

News to me.

Many older people today have become as desensitized as the youth. They will accept things today that would have shocked the socks off them decades ago. Is this a good thing? Are people happier with all this freedom?

We've done this dance before, though. I'm not the one arguing that the world is either steadily improving or steadily declining. Today people will more readily accept gay couples, with me most definitely being one of those people. On the other hand, they will less readily accept racial discrimination. I'm kinda okay with that. There are other things which are less of an 'improvement' to my mind.

Or is it causing more problems than the old ways ever did? Have we just swapped slavery to one set of rules for an equal form of slavery, causing an equal amount of heartache?

Which old ways, though? Actual slavery? Or Human Zoos in Belgium? Or the way mentally ill people were treated? Segregation? Or are we not talking about anything specific, and it's more just 'Hey things were better'? Because I don't like that game much. It's negative and one hell of a self-fulfilling way of considering the world.

How many of today's children even know what a father is in a family setting? How many know what being faithful to a mate means? Is the world a better place because we have thrown all the Bible's rules out of the window?

One of these things is not like the others...*sighs*
You're putting two different dichotomous view points together and drawing a single inference from it. It's too simplistic for me.

1) Bible versus non-Bible. Whilst I am aware you won't agree, the Bible is open to interpretation. People who honestly hold to it, and try their best to follow it's tenets don't all have a single view on how they should act, or how they should treat others. Not to mention that there are other philosophical and scriptural views which would lead to someone acting in what you are assuming is a 'good' way. Heck, things which probably strike you as outlandish can even lead to this (consider the straight edge punk movement). I get that you think the Bible is more than merely a guide for moral behaviour, but in terms of this particular discussion I would find an assertion that only the Bible leads to moral behaviour (even allowing for morality being defined as you wish) isn't accurate.

2) 'Good' versus 'Bad'. Much of what was 'good' behaviour was about clear guidelines and clear heirarchies of power and control. In the past this has certainly led to the veneer of 'moral' behaviour being more widespread. I'm less convinced that it actually led to moral behavior being more widespread, though. Even allowing that 'good' and 'bad' are in any way objective.

People act with personal responsibility, and with recognition and consideration of consequence to themselves and others. Some other people do not. But posts like the one I responded to are in no way helpful in promoting the one and reducing the other. People setting good examples, and investing effort in others is much better. And that is not so binary as to divide the world up into 'Bible followers' and not. Or 'good' and 'bad'. Or 'old' and 'young'. Anytime that sort of approach is taken, it's insulting to people within the group being considered unworthy.

So...in that light, consider 'wow' my restrained retort. As you know, I'm an ex-teacher, and a father, and an atheist. That puts me in quite a few of the buckets being decried here as either ineffectual or actively harmful in terms of impact on the world around me. I thoroughly reject that.

:)
 

Deeje

Avid Bible Student
Premium Member
I'm personally not a fan of dressing up personal opinion as fact, is all. When taken to extremes, it seems so disingenuous I always figure the person doing it HAS to know, and is probably more interested in reinforcing the narrative in their own head than in adding value to the world around them.



Unlike...err...churches?



I like the concept of personal responsibility and natural consequences. This being the case, I see education part of the mitigation, not part of the problem.



News to me.



We've done this dance before, though. I'm not the one arguing that the world is either steadily improving or steadily declining. Today people will more readily accept gay couples, with me most definitely being one of those people. On the other hand, they will less readily accept racial discrimination. I'm kinda okay with that. There are other things which are less of an 'improvement' to my mind.



Which old ways, though? Actual slavery? Or Human Zoos in Belgium? Or the way mentally ill people were treated? Segregation? Or are we not talking about anything specific, and it's more just 'Hey things were better'? Because I don't like that game much. It's negative and one hell of a self-fulfilling way of considering the world.



One of these things is not like the others...*sighs*
You're putting two different dichotomous view points together and drawing a single inference from it. It's too simplistic for me.

1) Bible versus non-Bible. Whilst I am aware you won't agree, the Bible is open to interpretation. People who honestly hold to it, and try their best to follow it's tenets don't all have a single view on how they should act, or how they should treat others. Not to mention that there are other philosophical and scriptural views which would lead to someone acting in what you are assuming is a 'good' way. Heck, things which probably strike you as outlandish can even lead to this (consider the straight edge punk movement). I get that you think the Bible is more than merely a guide for moral behaviour, but in terms of this particular discussion I would find an assertion that only the Bible leads to moral behaviour (even allowing for morality being defined as you wish) isn't accurate.

2) 'Good' versus 'Bad'. Much of what was 'good' behaviour was about clear guidelines and clear heirarchies of power and control. In the past this has certainly led to the veneer of 'moral' behaviour being more widespread. I'm less convinced that it actually led to moral behavior being more widespread, though. Even allowing that 'good' and 'bad' are in any way objective.

People act with personal responsibility, and with recognition and consideration of consequence to themselves and others. Some other people do not. But posts like the one I responded to are in no way helpful in promoting the one and reducing the other. People setting good examples, and investing effort in others is much better. And that is not so binary as to divide the world up into 'Bible followers' and not. Or 'good' and 'bad'. Or 'old' and 'young'. Anytime that sort of approach is taken, it's insulting to people within the group being considered unworthy.

So...in that light, consider 'wow' my restrained retort. As you know, I'm an ex-teacher, and a father, and an atheist. That puts me in quite a few of the buckets being decried here as either ineffectual or actively harmful in terms of impact on the world around me. I thoroughly reject that.

:)

2016??? Karamba! This thread is so old,
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I don't even remember writing that! The smilies are long gone now too. o_O Site closed down.

Not sure I want to resurrect this thread.....

How are you going with the fires LNM? Are you in an affected area?
 

lewisnotmiller

Grand Hat
Staff member
Premium Member
2016??? Karamba! This thread is so old,
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I don't even remember writing that! The smilies are long gone now too. o_O Site closed down.

Not sure I want to resurrect this thread.....

How are you going with the fires LNM? Are you in an affected area?

Oops...nah, definitely don't necro it. I got a like yesterday, which led to me jumping in. Didn't even notice the date!!

I'm fine with the fires. I live on the fringe of Melbourne, so there is definitely a chance we get affected, but so far so good.
The CFA did a talk earlier this week letting everyone know about evacuation procedures, etc. Whilst I live in a very green areas (lots to burn!) there are suburbs all around us, so there's some degree of complacency. Basically 'it won't happen to us' since the fire would need to burn through thousands of houses to get to us.

However (as you are probably well aware) fire doesn't really work that way, and spot fires have been occurring 30 kilometres away from the main front.

Travelled out to Gippsland last week for work. I wasn't too close to the fire front, but I did see some of the preparations they were doing in case of refugees, etc.
And smoke, of course...so much smoke!
 

Deeje

Avid Bible Student
Premium Member
I'm fine with the fires. I live on the fringe of Melbourne, so there is definitely a chance we get affected, but so far so good.
The CFA did a talk earlier this week letting everyone know about evacuation procedures, etc. Whilst I live in a very green areas (lots to burn!) there are suburbs all around us, so there's some degree of complacency. Basically 'it won't happen to us' since the fire would need to burn through thousands of houses to get to us.

However (as you are probably well aware) fire doesn't really work that way, and spot fires have been occurring 30 kilometres away from the main front.

Travelled out to Gippsland last week for work. I wasn't too close to the fire front, but I did see some of the preparations they were doing in case of refugees, etc.
And smoke, of course...so much smoke!

Its been a rough start to the year as we were completely surrounded by fires on the South Coast of NSW...the fires joined up and cut off our escape. We couldn't go north, south or west.....east was the ocean where many took refuge. Some places burned right to the water.

I started a thread about it....
Australia is on Fire!!

Everywhere we looked, Australia was on fire! We were evacuated twice but the second time we waited for the road to open and headed north to Sydney to take refuge at my nephew's place. Fires were still burning on both sides of the hwy.

Then we heard about Mallacoota.....:(

I have a 95 yr old mother that I care for and she was extremely traumatized by the whole thing. Summer isn't over yet and we are getting a little rain, but there is not much left to burn....it is extremely heartbreaking for all those who lost everything...and for all the creatures who perished.
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Glad you were not in harm's way.
 

sojourner

Annoyingly Progressive Since 2006
It will NEVER be "socially acceptable" to God.

The Gay and Lesbian Mardi Gras held in Sydney has become a "family" event. I am sorry, but there is no way I would expose my young children to this...or to teach them that this is "normal" or "acceptable" human behavior
This right here is the problem. It IS socially acceptable to God for people to love who they love and for people to have a particular orientation and act on it responsibly. Gay IS normal and acceptable. You’ll expose your kids to groundless religious bigotry and call it “normal,” but you won’t expose them to normal human sexuality. What a great choice!

I have no problem with anyone being 'gay'...it is a genetic hiccup, but to promote the gay lifestyle as morally acceptable is something a Christian cannot condone
Apparently you do have a problem with it, or you wouldn’t call it a “genetic hiccup.”
The Christian life begins with honesty with oneself. So a lifestyle where people demonstrate honest love responsibly is now “morally unacceptable?” I’d say that more than just the toilets drain backward in Australia, if your post is any indication.
 

Deeje

Avid Bible Student
Premium Member
This right here is the problem. It IS socially acceptable to God for people to love who they love and for people to have a particular orientation and act on it responsibly. Gay IS normal and acceptable. You’ll expose your kids to groundless religious bigotry and call it “normal,” but you won’t expose them to normal human sexuality. What a great choice!

This sounds personal.....

Apparently you do have a problem with it, or you wouldn’t call it a “genetic hiccup.”
The Christian life begins with honesty with oneself. So a lifestyle where people demonstrate honest love responsibly is now “morally unacceptable?” I’d say that more than just the toilets drain backward in Australia, if your post is any indication.

Very personal....

I guess it all depends on which brand of "Christianity" suits what you want to believe.....and I guess you can chuck out the Bible then...? God created man and woman for the purpose of procreation.....abnormal sexual orientation is a genetic hiccup for many people, trapped in a body with a gender that does not match their genitalia. But I guess there are a lot of other genetic hiccups that mean people can't have "normal" lives and relationships...did you know that God will fix all that with the coming of his Kingdom? He will right everything that is wrong...or don't you believe him? (Revelation 21:2-4)

If one is going to identify as "Christian" then one is going to have to follow the laws that Jesus promoted. What part of Leviticus 18:22 do you not understand? As a devout Jew, this was his scripture....it was the only scripture in existence at the time.
"‘You must not lie down with a male in the same way that you lie down with a woman. It is a detestable act."

Look up "detestable".

Do God's laws have a "use by" or "best before" date? Has he changed his mind now that gay people want to have free sex and get married and be socially acceptable? I don't see anyone with a big stick stopping them...do you? That doesn't mean that I have to approve of it or teach my kids that its "normal" when it never will be with the God who made those laws. They will get no harassment from me. What they do in private is their business, but I will not be bullied into accepting something that my God finds detestable.

If it was OK with him, why would those laws even exist in the first place? He doesn't change because humans want to have unnatural sex....sorry.

Everyone is free to make their own choices.....If your God says its OK...then what are you worried about? We clearly have different Gods. You go worship yours and I will worship mine....we will all find out one day whose God was right....won't we?
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oldbadger

Skanky Old Mongrel!
Recently attention has been drawn to an "anti-bullying program" introduced into Australian schools supposedly in an effort to help children who are "different" to stand up to bullies. But this has gone too far in the opinion of many, where children are asked to role play gay or transsexual teens. Children are also being urged to question their sexuality when they are not really old enough to understand sexual identity at such a young age.

Can we separate 'bullying' from 'sexuality', please?

Bullying is simply disgusting, and it is embedded in to humanity at every level. For instance a National review of our UK Fire Service has reported that bullying in the Fire Service is a regular event, and that even Fire Fighters who do not involve themselves in bullying treat it as a source of amusement.

Bullying in schools is commonplace and the teaching profession (on average) has been quite careless about it. Any initiatives that can reduce, deter and confront bullying should be tried, and by this I mean from cradle to grave, not just in schools.
 

SomeRandom

Still learning to be wise
Staff member
Premium Member
Its been a rough start to the year as we were completely surrounded by fires on the South Coast of NSW...the fires joined up and cut off our escape. We couldn't go north, south or west.....east was the ocean where many took refuge. Some places burned right to the water.

I started a thread about it....
Australia is on Fire!!

Everywhere we looked, Australia was on fire! We were evacuated twice but the second time we waited for the road to open and headed north to Sydney to take refuge at my nephew's place. Fires were still burning on both sides of the hwy.

Then we heard about Mallacoota.....:(

I have a 95 yr old mother that I care for and she was extremely traumatized by the whole thing. Summer isn't over yet and we are getting a little rain, but there is not much left to burn....it is extremely heartbreaking for all those who lost everything...and for all the creatures who perished.
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Glad you were not in harm's way.
Oof Deej, how’s the air down your way? I heard on the radio that the air around the affected areas was as toxic as smoking 37 ciggies a day. :eek:
Stay safe, mate
 

sojourner

Annoyingly Progressive Since 2006
This sounds personal.....

Very personal....
I don’t know what you’re trying to intimate here, unless you’re suggesting that I’m gay and in the closet. it won’t work; I’m not gay. But yes, this is personal because these people whom you are calling “wrong” and “detestable” and a “genetic hiccup” are my sisters and brothers.

and I guess you can chuck out the Bible then
No need to chuck out the Bible. But there is a great need to understand what the Bible is saying. Which you’re clearly neither doing nor are interested in.

abnormal sexual orientation
There you go again. It’s not “abnormal.” Check out the DSM IV. Homosexuality is considered by the medical community to be normal and healthy.

If one is going to identify as "Christian" then one is going to have to follow the laws that Jesus promoted
And Jesus promoted that we should love. And that all the rest were corollary to love. Love comes first and foremost. your bigotry is not loving.

What part of Leviticus 18:22 do you not understand?
What part of Leviticus 18:22 do YOU not understand?

"‘You must not lie down with a male in the same way that you lie down with a woman. It is a detestable act."

Look up "detestable
Look up the cultural norms for that time and place. Do you know why the law says that it’s “detestable?” Do you? I bet you don’t. You’re going to throw back “because God said.” Which is a cop out. In that culture, honor and shame were embedded in sexuality. Men embodied honor; women embodied shame. For a man to “bend over and take it like a woman” wasn’t an act of immorality, it was an act of cultural — cultural — shame. and for an honorable man to treat a social equal — another man — with shame was likewise an act of cultural shame. it had nothing whatsoever to do with sexual immorality.

Do God's laws have a "use by" or "best before" date
Culturally they do. That law simply does not apply to our culture.

Has he changed his mind now that gay people want to have free sex and get married and be socially acceptable
God didn’t make the law; God can change God’s mind all God wants to.

I don't see anyone with a big stick stopping them...do you
Yup. You with your bigotry. Public shaming is an awfully big stick.

That doesn't mean that I have to approve of it or teach my kids that its "normal" when it never will be with the God who made those laws
It does, actually, because the truth is, it’s is normal, and you ought to teach your children the truth. God didn’t make that law.

They will get no harassment from me
But you are harassing them, dear.

but I will not be bullied into accepting something that my God finds detestable
God doesn’t find it detestable.

If it was OK with him, why would those laws even exist in the first place
Because human beings wrote that law out of their own cultural understanding.

If your God says its OK...then what are you worried about
Because you’re discriminating against them using God as the excuse.
 

GoodbyeDave

Well-Known Member
It is disturbing to me that the gay agenda has been carried too far and is now infiltrating to the point of making something that is still morally objectionable to many people, into something socially acceptable. It will NEVER be "socially acceptable" to God.
Christianity is morally objectionable to me, but I don't run round winging about the Christian agenda.

Are children in other countries exposed to this too?
If you mean do we teach children to be understanding and sympathetic in the UK, the answer is yes.
 

Deeje

Avid Bible Student
Premium Member
Because you’re discriminating against them using God as the excuse.

You can claim whatever you like...and justify whatever you like. I will not be bullied into accepting as “normal” something that clearly isn’t, IMO. As a Christian, I follow God’s word unashamedly. God does not express his objection to any person’s physical or mental condition.....it’s what people DO that becomes “sin”. Everything we do is a choice. Having a desire to do something illegal does not justify carrying it out.
I believe that the scriptures make it clear that any illicit sex, regardless of gender, is unacceptable to the one who created us.

Scripturally speaking, sexuality is primarily for reproduction, as is seen in God’s command to Adam and his wife to “fill the earth”....it’s what we see in nature. It’s the reason why we have gender. Is that lost on you? The drive to perpetuate the species is very strong, for a very good reason.

To deposit the seed of life in orifices that were never designed to receive it is what is disgusting to me. It is very disrespectful to the one who created sex for the perpetuation of our species. We alone have rules regarding morality....animals do not. We are not animals. There is a reason for God’s moral laws that have nothing to do with justification you offered.

If people are born with confused sexuality, then they have my sympathy, in much the same way as if they had any other condition that affects their quality of life. But those with medical conditions that may lead to extreme physical suffering or death have more of my sympathy than gay people do. They don’t need my permission to do whatever they wish....and they will never have it. What does it matter? Who or what is preventing them from doing anything?.....not me. It’s none of my business, but if you want me to approve of it and accept it as “normal” then, I’m sorry, that is never going to happen. They do not have to answer to me.

Since God does not change, then his laws regarding the use of the reproductive organs still stand as far as I am concerned. He will not apologise for stating his laws so succinctly, and I will not apologise for rejecting homosexual acts as an abuse of something that was designed by God to create life in love, within the scriptural definition of marriage....creating a new family.

That’s it.
 

Deeje

Avid Bible Student
Premium Member
Oof Deej, how’s the air down your way? I heard on the radio that the air around the affected areas was as toxic as smoking 37 ciggies a day. :eek:
Stay safe, mate

We have had a little rain and the smoke this morning is lifting, thankfully. Hopefully the rain will continue and douse the fires and give all of Australia a break. (Some are getting floods now!) That’s Oz.
The air quality has been so bad.....with long term consequences by the sounds. It was reported that water quality is being affected too with ash being washed into the waterways and killing the fish!
What next?!
Who knew such a thing was possible? No one expected a national holocaust! The big boys have been warned for decades about this possibility evidently, but failed to address it in any real way. Complacency is a killer. :(
 

sojourner

Annoyingly Progressive Since 2006
I believe that the scriptures make it clear that any illicit sex, regardless of gender, is unacceptable to the one who created us
1) You “believe.” This is nothing more than your opinion, so you don’t get to speak for God in that regard.
2) Gay sex isn’t illicit. It’s completely legal. Marriage for them is completely legal. Nothing “illicit” about it.
Scripturally speaking, sexuality is primarily for reproduction, as is seen in God’s command to Adam and his wife to “fill the earth”....it’s what we see in nature. It’s the reason why we have gender. Is that lost on you? The drive to perpetuate the species is very strong, for a very good reason
Ever read Song of Solomon? Sex isn’t just for making babies.
To deposit the seed of life in orifices that were never designed to receive it is what is disgusting to me
That’s not a universal criterion of gay sex, though. Your argument fails here.

There is a reason for God’s moral laws that have nothing to do with justification you offered
They’re not “God’s laws.” And the justification I offered is well-researched by sociological standards.

They don’t need my permission to do whatever they wish....and they will never have it. What does it matter
It matters because you are a human being in the majority, so your voice is automatically louder than theirs. It matters because it’s up to the majority to accept the minority. It matters because your contempt is one voice in a very loud chorus that keeps these people beat down. It matters because “your permission” gives them, in part, their full humanity.
It’s none of my business
You just made it your business, dear.

He will not apologise for stating his laws so succinctly, and I will not apologise for rejecting homosexual acts as an abuse of something that was designed by God to create life in love, within the scriptural definition of marriage....creating a new family
So now you’re calling them “abusive.” That’s nice. Unfounded bigotry is abusive, and that, my dear, is why, as you asked above, it matters. Because it’s abusive not to make allowances for those differences. If you can’t understand that, perhaps you should consider going back to “What Do I Gotta Do To Be A Good Christian? School.”
 

SomeRandom

Still learning to be wise
Staff member
Premium Member
We have had a little rain and the smoke this morning is lifting, thankfully. Hopefully the rain will continue and douse the fires and give all of Australia a break. (Some are getting floods now!) That’s Oz.
The air quality has been so bad.....with long term consequences by the sounds. It was reported that water quality is being affected too with ash being washed into the waterways and killing the fish!
What next?!
Who knew such a thing was possible? No one expected a national holocaust! The big boys have been warned for decades about this possibility evidently, but failed to address it in any real way. Complacency is a killer. :(
Dang!
I agree, the boffins have warned the big wigs since before I was born. Hell greenhouse gas study goes back to the 1800s!!
Avarice is the root cause of our inaction, imo. One thing I can agree with on JW doctrine is respect for the earth, because the earth can clearly kick our *** otherwise.
We’re digging deep and giving to relief funds right now. We’ll pull ourselves through and together. That’s the Aussie way. :)
 

Deeje

Avid Bible Student
Premium Member
1) You “believe.” This is nothing more than your opinion, so you don’t get to speak for God in that regard.

He speaks quite loudly for himself in the Bible. You can read his words for yourself and attribute some other meaning to them....if you give someone enough rope......

And yes, what I express here is my opinion which none in the gay community give too hoots about, so why are you getting your panties in a twist?

You are trying to bully me into submission....not working.

2) Gay sex isn’t illicit. It’s completely legal. Marriage for them is completely legal. Nothing “illicit” about it.

“Illicit” means anything that is “against laws, rules or customs” so sex outside of scriptural marriage is against God’s laws, it is not gender specific. Jesus reiterated God’s standards for marriage. People are free to ignore them at their own risk.

Ever read Song of Solomon? Sex isn’t just for making babies.

I never said it was just for making babies....it is a legitimate expression of love between a husband and wife, which may or may not result in a pregnancy. If the couple are in a committed scripturally sanctioned Christian marriage, then a new member of the family will be welcomed as the gift children were meant to be.

They’re not “God’s laws.” And the justification I offered is well-researched by sociological standards.

You think God cares about what human sociological standards are? What you offered was an excuse not to uphold God’s law. You aren’t the first or the last to look for loopholes that don’t exist. Try your excuses on God and see how far you get....

It matters because you are a human being in the majority, so your voice is automatically louder than theirs. It matters because it’s up to the majority to accept the minority. It matters because your contempt is one voice in a very loud chorus that keeps these people beat down. It matters because “your permission” gives them, in part, their full humanity.

Oh, so more people think like me, and that makes it all unfair? :eek:

You can’t force people to accept standards that they find morally repugnant. The gay Mardi Gras held in Sydney each year is the most morally repugnant event on the calendar IMO.....so I dislike intensely that these people parade in the streets gyrating in a very sexually explicit way in front of young children who, for some reason, have parents who expose them to that. I choose not to. That is my choice. What other people do is up to them.

You just made it your business, dear.

My opinion is just my opinion....dear.
Your opinion is yours....and never the twain shall meet. I think you need to get down off your soap box now...

So now you’re calling them “abusive.” That’s nice. Unfounded bigotry is abusive, and that, my dear, is why, as you asked above, it matters. Because it’s abusive not to make allowances for those differences. If you can’t understand that, perhaps you should consider going back to “What Do I Gotta Do To Be A Good Christian? School.”

A “good Christian” does not flout God’s law in order to sway other people to break it. Like Jesus told the Pharisees of his day.....

13 “Woe to you, scribes and Pharisees, hypocrites! because you shut up the Kingdom of the heavens before men; for you yourselves do not go in, neither do you permit those on their way in to go in.
15 “Woe to you, scribes and Pharisees, hypocrites! because you travel over sea and dry land to make one proselyte, and when he becomes one, you make him a subject for Ge·henʹna twice as much so as yourselves.”


It’s a big responsibility to offer people the hard truth...not a watered down version that makes something unacceptable appear to be innocuous.
 
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