I tell people I've lead a bisexual life. Now that I'm out in the open, most women don't want anything to do with me, and I refuse to marry a man. I am 40 years old and am condemned to be alone because of an unwritten taboo most women have. So yes, I am living proof that gay sex ruined my romantic life. Gay sex is harmful, I'm talking from experience, not from the Bible. I can't find a woman, and I don't want a man. No woman wants or respects a man who has had sex with a man.
That doesn't make the Gay sex harmful.
You are having a societal problem because of their perceptions of Gay/Bi men.
The perception (sometimes earned) is that Bi men are good-time-Charlie's. Just out to have lots of sex with anything breathing. Obviously that is not true of most, - but it is of some, - and they give the rest a bad name.
Women have to be extra careful of Bi men as mates. If the man is actually homosexual, when he understands that, - she and the children are left crying. If the Bi man falls into the party-sex category, - he may cheat - or move on. And of course with anyone having multiple sex partners - there is always the possibility of HIV/AIDS. So the female caution is logical.
Have you tried going onto a BI dating site, and perhaps looking for a BI female that also wants to settle down in a heterosexual relationship?
Or any other dating site, - being truthful up front, - so you don't have to weed so many out?
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