i can see by what u wrote that you are a loving person but i can also see that you are confuse by the many theories and false believe that are base on tradittion rather than the bible. it hurt to know that many people find themself deniing god because the are smart enought to know that what the popular religion teaches does not make any sence. i can see that you are in a search for the truth and i am here to tell you that the only souce of truth is the bible and what the bible teaches about death is clear and makes alot of sence.(please ecuse my spelling error. english isnot my first lenguage) you may know that the popular religion teaches that when good people die they go to heaven and when bad people die they go to hell. you may be surprice to know that this is not what the bible teaches. the bible compare death with an sleep. it tell us that the dead know nothing all seas to exist once we die. it then teaches that at the second coming of jesus,(i know u say u dont believe in him but hear me out please) all the dead will wake up to face judment, for eternal death or eternal life, no where inthe bible does it say that you go to heaven or hell. the bible teaches that God is a loving God, no matter how much we love we can never love like he does, so keeping this in mind please allow me to run this cenario. imaging that one of your kids turn out to be really bad and the other one really good now the bad one is tgo the point where he can no be around anyone or he will hurt them. you know that you as the parent need to do something to stope him from hurting people or evryone else is going to get hurt. what will you as a mother do. will you send him to sleep forever where you know he has no feelings no remorese and no pain and at the same time everyone is safe from him or will you rather put him in a fire pit where he is going to burn forever and will suffer for an eternity you will hear him scream and alway remeber howmuch he is suffering.
no mater how bad a parent can be i think they would rather put him to sleep for ever. so how can we thinkthat a loving God will have his children suffer for ever and ever in hell. it does not make any sence it is not what the bible teaches and i believce that you dont think there is a god cuz you are to smart to be fool by this false claims about hell and other crazy theories out there. if you really want to know the truth u most fallow the bible. if you want to know more about what the bible teach go to helltruth (this is a website but i cant post it here just searh for it please ) or you can write me at martinezj171 this is in comcast
(please i will debate this point with anyone it isnot my intention to fight nor hurt any one feeling it is only to teach the truth . any one can contact me but lets be serious i am sorry to see so many jokes instead of real answers.) i wrote this last part that do believe in the bible but are also confuse by tradittions not to you cuz i know you dont believe in jesus YET
please do contact me this is the firt time i get into this site i was just looking around but God led me here for a reason. the best part about God is that everyone has an equal oportunity to know him and be safe no matter who they are nor what they do.