I'm a little puzzled that you are questioning me about my right to run other people's lives when I was just giving my opinion about where rights come from
Perhaps my phrasing wasn't clear enough. I wasn't questioning your right to run other people's lives (frankly, you have no such right!). Rather, I was trying to get you to think like I do, and like I wish others would. I am not all-knowing. I can't know what drives a woman to wish to abort a pregnancy. I frankly don't favour abortion. BUT. I do not allow myself the luxury of telling others what they should do concerning matters that concern them most, and me not at all. I feel the same about pretty much everything else -- religion, sex, matters of dress, you name it, so long as they are doing no harm to anyone, and do everything involving others consensually. I accept 100% that my likes and dislikes apply to nobody but me.
This is the whole reason for constitutions and rights charters, by the way -- to prevent the "tyranny of the majority." How would I feel if a majority in my Canadian Parliament could pass a law anytime they felt like it, when they have a Conservative majority, to take away my right to live with and love my same-sex partner? Well, they can't -- our Charter of Rights and Freedoms, and our Supreme Court, won't allow them to. (Well, technically they could using the "Notwithstanding" clause, for a period of 5 years, renewable, but the enusing battle would ensure that was the last Conservative government for decades.)
So I guess we might say that in the case of Canada, our Charter of Rights is above the capacity of law-makers to violate. And it is that way because we, as a people (as represented in consitutional conferences) chose it to be that way. In other words, we opted to make a law we couldn't easily repeal, for the general protection and good of all. The US Constitution is much the same, with the same purpose in mind, and developed by the Constitutional Congress in Philadelphia May 26 to Sept 17, 1786, with delegates from every (then) state (New Hampshire, always stubborn, started late).