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Why are Christians so judgmental?

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Malus 12:9

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Melody said:
You are in error. I don't know you well enough to form an opinion either way. :)
Let me rephrase that. I am going by my posts...don't be afraid dear, you aren't the only one...
 
FeathersinHair said:
+++MOD POST+++

Attacking other member's faith or other members is not appropriate for a public forum.

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is there a specific post that youre referring to? or might you provide a specific example of this?
 

Melody

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Immortal Awakened said:
no? may i preserve this quote in gold alloy?
If it amuses you. :D

Immortal Awakened said:
am i allowed to share a non-theist view with theists too? if they share theist views with a non-theist such as myself?
Well, yes, that's what this forum is for.

Immortal Awakened said:
dont christians have free reign throughout the forums?

will i be segregated?
Not hardly and no you will not be segregated. I think we get along pretty well in RF. In fact, I'd go so far as to say we get along splendidly despite our belief systems. I can't have discussions with my extended family as I do here because it would escalate into a shouting match.

Immortal Awakened said:
its the bible which christians have often used to judge me; which shows me that these are specifically christian judgments with a christian hellfire and brimstone flavor; nonchristian judgments dont condemn my soul to the eternal hellfire
I try to avoid these "christians". I leave the judging up to God and I have no clue what he's going to do. Yes, I know what the bible says but I also know it was written hy humans with their own agenda. I'd rather promote the message of His love through my own behavior and attitude.
 
Shaggy Flasko said:
The Bible specifically condemns judging one's neighbor,
then why all of the biblically based mass genocide throughout scripture?

as if he should take the place of God.
so God is the only one who should be judgmental?

If someone is a good Christian, they should be able to disagree without condemning people like some intellectual suicide bomber.
i fully agree; but christians have a history of slaughtering people

I think we're forgetting the entire basis of Christianity: love.
i think that many christians forget love

If a "Christian" has not love, then guess what... Just because someone calls himself a Christian, doesn't make it so.
so unloving people arent true christians? sounds judgmental

After all, what are the greatest commandments? It's pretty simple.
how did we go from love to law here? the government which authored the ten commandments also slaughtered six nationalities in the context of mass genocide

Love the Lord thy God with all your heart, soul, strength and mind.
Love your neighbor as yourself.
and what if someone breaks this law? (as we all do); do they get judged?

Voila, we see that it's not Christianity that is judgmental,
have you ever read the old testament?

but the people that don't understand Christianity
what is your understanding of christianity?

and cling to their own hatred of their fellow man.
as is exhibited in biblical mass genocide

God bless.
-Bill
 

Melody

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Malus,
If you have a specific complaint, please report it privately to a mod or admin. Otherwise, let's get back to the topic at hand. Thanks.
 

Malus 12:9

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Melody said:
Malus,
If you have a specific complaint, please report it privately to a mod or admin. Otherwise, let's get back to the topic at hand. Thanks.
Weren't the rules aposed to be if you have an issue with a specific person, to try and resolve it with them first? Very well, I shall PM you now.
 
Shaggy Flasko said:
Perhaps if one feels that he's being abused my members of a particular faith, the best solution is to challenge those people on the grounds of their own faith.
sounds great; but wont that be percieved as judgmental?

I would bring up Matthew 7, for example.
in what context? is there a particular verse that youre referring to?

It's sad that we, as humans, divide ourselves so readily.
into classes of christians and nonchristians? theists and nontheists?

I've met some fantastic people that I would've never known if I'd been more closed minded, including among my atheist friends.
thats nice

God bless.
-Bill
 

Melody

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Immortal Awakened said:
then why all of the biblically based mass genocide throughout scripture?
Tally 'em up. Then consider we're talking about what....5,000...6,000...more ?....years?
No tally up the genocide that has occurred by nonchristians in just the last 100 years.



Immortal Awakened said:
so God is the only one who should be judgmental?
Yes.


Immortal Awakened said:
i fully agree; but christians have a history of slaughtering people
See previous post. No more so than anyone else.

Immortal Awakened said:
i think that many christians forget love
I think they do too....they're human also.

Immortal Awakened said:
so unloving people arent true christians? sounds judgmental
It would be judging to say they are not true christians. It is not judging to take them to task for their behavior.

Immortal Awakened said:
and what if someone breaks this law? (as we all do); do they get judged?
By God
 
FeathersinHair said:
No. Which is why neither is allowed.
okay, cool

If you see either happening, please PM me or another Mod or Admin, or press the 'report feature."
that i will; thanks

Let's look at the other 10, shall we?
sure

2=Pagan
3=Muslim
2-Jewish
1=Discordian
1=Atheist
1= Rastafarian

So, in the given example, if 3 out of the 20 are judgemental, simple odds are that they'll be Christian.
so christians are just as judgmental as anyone else? its all equal? the funny thing is that ive been told by many christians that they actually judge people less than others, because their religion tells them to love others instead

Throw into that mix the infinite variety of people that consider themselves to be Christians, and chances are even more likely.
and what specifically constitutes a true christian?; dont you believe that a christian profession is enough?

As for why 'the most judgemental' people you meet are of that faith, if you live in an area where certain types of Christianity are prevalant, it's only natural that this happens.
ive been around lots of christians

Editted to add: I hope you don't get a bad impression of RF from this thread.
i try to look at individual behaviors first, unless i see an established group pattern otherwise

As with so many things, people are greatly affected by how a question is asked.
and how a question is answered; very true
 
Malus01 said:
I think religion in general, alongside religious knowledge, makes religious people think they are better than others. Not just Christianity, but many others.
so religious knowledge makes people more judgmental?

Just take a look at any of my religious debates in this forum...
what did you debate about?
 

Melody

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Immortal Awakened said:
and what specifically constitutes a true christian?; dont you believe that a christian profession is enough?
Depends on how you define christian. I'm beginning to think the term is meaningless but then I think I already said that in another thread.
 

Malus 12:9

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so religious knowledge makes people more judgmental?
Yes, but a mod post earlier has spoken.

what did you debate about?
See for yourself :)

Actually it isn't so much I feel Chistians here are as judgmental as the Islam members. And that was not meant as an insult.
 
Melody said:
Theist/atheist conflict? Not at all.
okay, good

You are the one trying to make the case that christians are more judgmental than other theists or non-theists.
and where specifically have i made this claim? please quote me

I believe you are in error.
i believe that you are misrepresenting me

Judgmental people abound in both the theist and atheist camp and neither has the exclusive claim.
and where specifically have i referenced otherwise? please quote me

Please list the history of genocide that you attribute to christians.
moses and joshua exterminated six nationalities in the context of the bible, as directly ordered by the christian god in the old testament

In WWII, the Nazis killed 6 million Jews and Hitler was not a Christian, nor did this genocide have anything to do with religion. The Jews were merely Hitlers scapegoat in his rise for power. He didn't restrict himself to Jews. He also murdered about 4 million others for various reasons.
actually, ive heard that hitler was a catholic, although ive not ventured to specifically verify this; however, hitlers mass exterminations of the jews were not quite as thorough as the mass exterminations of moses and his immediate successor joshua, in the context of the bible; hitler left some survivors, whereas moses and joshua recieved direct orders from the god of the bible to leave no survivors; in fact, when King Saul specifically disobeyed the god of the bible, by not exterminating an entire race of amalekites, he was removed from kingship and replaced by king david; contextually, king saul had failed to enact mass genocide, and was therefore rejected as king

In 1915, the ruling Ottoman turks murdered 1.5 million Armenians. The turks were not Christian.
and? how specifically does this relate to the discussion? please quote me

was not religion involved here, as pertaining to some form of judgmental god concept?

Currently in Darfur, the Janjaweed (arab militia) has murdered over 400,000 sudanese, the majority of whom are non-arab. This was not a religious war started by christians to exterminate non-christians.
and? how specifically does this relate to the discussion? please quote me

was not religion involved here, as pertaining to some form of judgmental god concept?

In the 1990's in Rwanda, the Hutu's deliberately exterminated almost a million Tutsis. This was not a religious war started by christians to exterminate non-christians.
and? how specifically does this relate to the discussion? please quote me

was not religion involved here, as pertaining to some form of judgmental god concept?

Other cases of genocide which have nothing to do with christians:
Rape of Nanking - Japanese murdered 300,000 chinese
Mongolian genocide - Chinese murdered approximately 300,000 (unable to officially verify because there are few records beyond the fact that people are missing family members) mongols.
Tibetan genocide - it is estimated that over 1 million Tibetans have been killed
Kurdish genocide - it is estimated that over 17,000 people died when Saddam used chemical weapons on the Kurdish town of Halabja.
and? how specifically does this relate to the discussion? please quote me

was not religion involved here, as pertaining to some form of judgmental god concept?

Christians are no more, nor less, guilty of genocide than any other people/religions.
and? how specifically does this relate to the discussion? please quote me

was not religion involved here, as pertaining to some form of judgmental god concept?
 

jonny

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Immortal Awakened said:
Why are Christians so judgmental? In my personal experiences, Christians are very judgmental. Just curious on your thoughts. Have you ever seen this before?
Quit judging me! :149:
 
Melody said:
Perhaps because you're being biased?
is this a character judgment? actually, the bias which you intimate from the question actually originated from Feathers original statement; i just repeated Feathers' statement back in question form; please reread

Perhaps because you hang around the wrong people?
are christians the wrong people?; sounds biased; dont you hang around christians yourself?

Perhaps the area you live in is dominated by more aggressive religions?
the area that i live in is dominated by christianity; which is a more aggressive religion; correct

Who knows...but it doesn't mean that christians are more judgmental.
actually it does in the context of my personal experience; youre therefore incorrect, perhaps due to the broadness of your statement; christians render moral character judgments, consigning me to the eternal hellfire, more frequently than do nonchristians; the reason that christians consign me to the eternal hellfire more frequently than nonchristians is strictly inspired by the christian belief system
 
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