McBell
Admiral Obvious
Fair enough.Maybe you guys translate the word "wife" differently than I do.
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Fair enough.Maybe you guys translate the word "wife" differently than I do.
There was nothing, God created the institution of marriage with Adam & Eve
This is a big turn-off (excuse the pun) to Christianity for me which is a shame as some of the philosophy is good.
Surely men and women were made with biological instincts so what's the problem with the Christians and what are they scared of?
Clearly early humans were able to procreate, otherwise none of us would be here. I wonder if there's evidence that Homo Erectus, Neanderthal man, modern Homo Sapien, etc, had traditions similar to marriage? Otherwise, seems like biological reproduction would be the main reason God gifted us with the act.
I see it as one reason among many. I don't think any of the reason are in a competition with each other or anything Sex has many benefits to an individual and couple aside from procreation. If the main reason (or only reason as some believe) were only for procreation why is the desire there at other times of the month than fertile days for men and women. IMO it fulfills a deeper, stronger need than just procreation.
[FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]1 Corinthians 7:2-5. [/FONT]To me this says there's more to sex than just procreation. Again, I don't think there is a "main reason" for it. Of course procreation is an important reason - as you said, we wouldn't be here without it however, I can only speak for myself and us as a couple, there are benefits to sex that greatly outweigh the procreation aspect for us as individuals and as a couple. Our marriage certainly would not be where it is today without the bond of sexual interaction.[FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]"But since there is so much immorality, each man should have his own wife, and each woman her own husband. The husband should fulfill his marital duty to his wife, and likewise the wife to her husband. The wife's body does not belong to her alone but also to her husband. In the same way, the husband's body does not belong to him alone but also to his wife. Do not deprive each other except by mutual consent and for a time, so that you may devote yourselves to prayer. Then come together again so that Satan will not tempt you because of your lack of self-control."
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I think it about time that a Christian should give us a psychological reason as to why abstinence helps the mind. Biblical quotes do not do that.
seeming that Christianity developed from Paganism why are most Christians so hung up on the sex issue? Correct me if I"m wrong but I'm sure this isn't the case with Paganism.
For instance, pre-marital sex is NOT banned in Paganism, right?
I know you can interpret the Bible in many ways but the general consensus among most Christians is that Pre-marital and homosexuality is a big no no (even though Jesus certainly never directly mentions pre-marital).
This is a big turn-off (excuse the pun) to Christianity for me which is a shame as some of the philosophy is good.
Surely men and women were made with biological instincts so what's the problem with the Christians and what are they scared of?
Here are some psychological reasons:
No concern about unwanted or unplanned pregnancies
Peace of mind about STDs
Less complicated dating and casual relationships (don't even try to tell me that adding sex to casual, or non committed relationships doesn't add complications)
Life plans which are not sidetracked by sexual mistakes.
[B said:Kathryn[/B]]Here are some psychological reasons:
No concern about unwanted or unplanned pregnancies
Peace of mind about STDs
Less complicated dating and casual relationships (don't even try to tell me that adding sex to casual, or non committed relationships doesn't add complications)
Life plans which are not sidetracked by sexual mistakes.
ever heard of condoms?
so with the peace of mind of using contraception can you give us a real psychological benefit?
Providing a statistic of contraception not working hardly counts by the way.
thanks
I'm not sure what the purpose of a casual relationship would be, if you take out the sex
I'm curious to know what exactly a sexually insecure person is given the context it's being used in this case. I've only heard similar terminology used for people who felt insecure about themselves and their body in the bedroom.
There's no reason to distinguish it by the label 'casual' then, since we have such 'relationships' with various people already, without that moniker. For example, your boss, your mailman.Platonic.
It removes sexual tension better than sex because it actualizes a moral ideal.
So the relationship is truly casual, free from all distress.