Melchizedek99
Member
I truly am sorry you feel that way.
And as i said God is the only being, that ever truly deeply showed Love to Me, how can He show Love to me if he supposedly doesnt exist like you say?
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Why do some Atheists say Christianity is harmful?
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And as i said God is the only being, that ever truly deeply showed Love to Me, how can He show Love to me if he supposedly doesnt exist like you say?
Subduction Zone
Veteran Member
Let me answer that with a question:
Do straight people have the right to marry the person that they fall in love with? Do they need a partner?
McBell
Unbound
Faith is deciding to allow yourself to believe something your intellect would otherwise cause you to reject -- otherwise there's no need for faith.
Melchizedek99
Member
Yes, we need more offspring, otherwise i would agree such relationships are generally useless. there would be no such thing in heaven.
You're not "getting over it". You're ignoring your true self, which is dangerous and unhealthy.
I can see it by how many times you've stated being sad, sorry, or genuinely down on yourself.
I hope if anything you can at least find happiness. Deity notwithstanding
Is 8 billion people not enough offspring?
Subduction Zone
Veteran Member
Oops, sorry, I must have had a brain fart. Let me repost that:
Interesting. So you do not believe that God is omniscient and omnipotent.
Melchizedek99
Member
Well i still meet him sometimes, and thats the problem. I shouldnt, but i cant get over him.
Melchizedek99
Member
Im a bad christian, no a horrible christian even. Other christians are better at this christian-thing. Atleast outwardly they seem almost perfect.
Why can't you show that same amazing love and devotion to another man if that is your attraction and hearts true desire?
Nope, just human. No one is perfect.
Subduction Zone
Veteran Member
No, we really do not. The Earth already groans under the weight of humanity. And you keep making heaven look worse and worse.
Melchizedek99
Member
First of all im not sure if he truly loves me, and if its not just one sided.
Second because same sex romantic relationships are forbidden, so at most it could be a platonic relationship, but thats risky too in that case.
Trailblazer
Veteran Member
Different strokes for different folks. Most people want sex when they are young or even middle-aged, but the desire drops when people get older, especially for women. I might want a partner for companionship but all men can think about is sex, no matter how old they get, so I am resigned to being alone, unless I get married again, because I would never have sex out of wedlock.
Subduction Zone
Veteran Member
You could aways try to be a decent member of a more forgiving religion. There is no need to hate yourself. There is especially no need to hate yourself for being born the way that you were born.
Is it illegal where you live? If not there is no harm in pursuing and asking worse that happens is it doesn't work out. Best case scenario, is you're happy.
Melchizedek99
Member
Nope, its just feels morally wrong for me. Yet its hard to overcome it completely, why is that?
List of Christian denominations affirming LGBT people - Wikipedia
Probably because "love" and "attraction" isn't wrong. Sex isn't wrong. None of those things are sins.
You feel bad because you were taught these things were wrong. And that eternal punishment awaits those that behave that way. When that doesn't go against any of the ten commandments or anything Jesus said.
Subduction Zone
Veteran Member
If it feels morally wrong for you then you do not have to enter into that sort of activity. Just remember, wrong for you does not mean wrong for others.
Melchizedek99
Member
List of Christian denominations affirming LGBT people - Wikipedia
en.m.wikipedia.org
Probably because "love" and "attraction" isn't wrong. Sex isn't wrong. None of those things are sins.
You feel bad because you were taught these things were wrong. And that eternal punishment awaits those that behave that way. When that doesn't go against any of the ten commandments or anything Jesus said.
Yeah i love that guy, it is love, not just lust. Thats the problem, if i would only be sexually attracted to him i would be easily able to overcome it.