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"Congratulations on being blessed with more responsibility, but sometimes the best lessons come from experience, not knowledge. "
I agree that works sometimes but not always. Sure a person shouldn't be a "helicopter parent", but they shouldn't let their child run into a busy street either.
Eventhough you used the word "sometimes",that doesn't over-rule the condescending tone from the first part "Congratulations on being blessed".
It's a simple fact that even the most devoted free-spirit will need their freedom to be protected and enforced otherwise some tyrannt will come along and subjegate them. Lacking the laws, rules, boundries, and territories which prevent a tyrannt coming to stomp on others, then the lesson that "comes from experience" is war, conflict, death, bondage, servitude, etc of the innocent free-spirit.
Perhaps the free-spirit takes up arms and defends itself, and now it is a militant free-spirit exherting its "blessed responsibility" tyrannt.
And from this zooming out, the tyrannt and the freedom-fighter are mirror images of each other. They are both exerting their "blessed will" on the other through force.
And that is how and why law, order, rules, boundries, and territories are established. It's ultimately to protect freedom not to take it away. It IS proactive, but, it's based on the lessons learned from negative experiences.
When it comes to Judaism and Islam, the over-arching lesson is, when people believe they are gods, bad things happen. In my judgement, this is always true even in the most peaceful construct. I don't expect all or many to agree. I am comfortable and at peace with being in the extreme minority. But almost everyone agrees that rules, laws, territories and boundries are a good thing to prevent problems.