Nymphs
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Polyamory? Child-free? Vegetarian? Atheist?
What is so wrong with doing something that doesn't affect another person?
What other types of alternative living do you know of?
Tattoos/Piercings/Hair Colors?
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Polyamory? Child-free? Vegetarian? Atheist?
What is so wrong with doing something that doesn't affect another person?
Because it is new to me (polyamory) and I would like to discuss the subject with people in it's various facets. Polyamory, like other ways of living is not a single-faceted thing. I want to understand, learn from and see what people have to say on the whole subject.
If you don't like it, you don't have to read those threads, but I wasn't aware that making threads on subjects that interest you was against any rules here. :no:
I'm quite secure, and it isn't a belief yet a way of living. I wasn't aware that curiosity about what people think about something was a crime. I could care less what y'all thought of me, I'm curious what you think about the idea -- no matter how inane your opinion is.
Rest assured that I am not an opposition.
You asked people. And I offered my views. But you instantly see opposition and talk non-sense about rules etc. Why are you so much defensive?
Is having a different view point from yours against the rules then?
Nymphs, we do not hate you, we just disagree with you. Do you understand that?
I'm sorry, I've just had a rash of users say they don't like it and they are never going to talk about it and it really doesn't matter to them following me around and replying constantly. I apologize if I hurt your feelings.
You seem surprised about me making so many threads, I explained. Is that a crime?
Nymphs, we do not hate you, we just disagree with you. Do you understand that?
I don't know where you live, but Atheism and Vegetarianism is not in the slightest controversial in where I live.
I would suggest to nevermind it and seek like-minded people and associate with them.
Deciding to be child free can have no objection from others.
I lived in Idaho/Utah for a long time, and both of those are quite controversial then, but now I live in the Pacific Northwest, where it isn't as big of a deal.
Oh, I do. I'm just curious.
Long ago, I decided I was done with relationships, been hurt too many times.
Not a soul on this planet has ever belittled me over it.
Some have said to give it a chance and there is a female for me out there somewhere.
I don't view that as attacking me, nor do I see it as them saying I am wrong.
If one cant handle criticisms of others, something is wrong, insecurity comes to mind.
Critique is wonderful thing, yes, when it is done right. But critique is an art that not many, including myself, can master well. You can deliver even severely hard points with critique as long as they are constructed in a manner that your opponent can handle without feeling insulted. A well-done critique on the right topic can change someone's life and make a person see his/hers errors. Badly done critique, even if it has truth as basis but is poorly constructed, can fuel those errors and convince the other person that he/she is right.
So it doesn't always mean the other one is insecure, sometimes there is weakness in the critique.
Maybe they just didn't like you for you and not because you just ate vegetables.
Makes sense to me.
Your views do matter, and we all affirm your right to commit to the kind of relationship that works best for you and your partner/s.Why is it that some here demand everyone else take on their views but refuse to accept the views of everyone that has a different view?
I think people just like to argue.
In every one of these threads, some here continue to argue with me after I left, telling me they are trying to lure me back in.
In the last thread, I said I was done, but someone posted something new that I wished to address and then I left, there is a whole page of some behaving like children trying to lure me back in.
Too funny indeed.
Of course some here just like to argue.
Back to the topic....
It's sort of like George Carlin said:
"live and let live"...."if you disagree with that, we get to take you out back and kill you"
Just because I have a different perspective, means nothing, but some here try to twist it to make it like I want to stop other lifestyles that I disagree with.
What part of I do not have to accept everything in this world and those who claim I do, are the ones wrong, don't people understand?
About the law, if there is ever a law coming into existence to allow others to have multiple spouses, I will vote no.
Ten bucks says I will be shunned for that, as if my views do not matter.
It's my planet too and my views DO matter
Personal insult.
Red herring.
Nice try.
I have seen almost no problem at all with Child-free or Vegetarian stances.
But just as some think that being polyamorous is perfectly Ok, some others may think that it is not OK. Why discuss it in thread after thread?
To me and many other Hindus nothing is not OK. Yet, I think, those who think poly amorous relationships etc. are perfectly Ok, should delve deeper to see the exploitations and the compulsions; the deep pains and frustrations; and helplessness of those who have to abide.
If you'd rather not discuss it, why does this entire post discuss it?
I am a child free atheist vegetarian empirical naturalist psychonaut feminist socialist libertarian in addition to being polyamorous.
I'm DEEPLY curious as to why all these unconventional lifestyle choices that affect nobody but me are often met with such hostility by conformists.
Yet in this post you gloss over every alternative lifestyle except polyamory, and then only to complain that you're sick of talking about polyamory.
OK, fine, let's talk about other alternative lifestyles. I've encountered the same kind of irrational hostility as a vegetarian as I have as a humanist, a socialist, a skeptic, a mystic, a psychonaut and a woman who doesn't want kids.
So, given that I feel no animosity at all toward those who choose to conform to various social norms, why do many of them seem to feel such animosity toward me?