You seem to have missed my point. So, I'll make it as simple as possible.
1. There are a lot of orphaned children living in foster homes.
2. There are not enough heterosexual couples to adopt and raise them.
3. Homosexual couples are ready and willing to take on this responsibility.
4. Couples who are not legally married are not able to adopt children in the United States. (China isn't at issue in this discussion, as we are talking about gay-marriage only in the US).
5. Thus, although homosexual couples are ready and willing to help, they will not be able to unless they are given marriage rights.
Simple as that. I never said that you didn't like adoption ... that is ludicrous. I said that it is cruel to fight against marriage equality when these orphaned children will literally have the hope of having parents taken away from them.
Christians do Not fight against 'Caesar's laws '. If ' Caesar ' wants to re-define marriage that is his right to do so.
Yes, those 2 single women were able to adopt. That was still in the 90's, maybe earlier, so perhaps that is No longer an option.
Remember: Scripture says Many would come ' In Jesus' Name ' but prove false according to Matthew chapter 7.
So, if someone claiming to be Christian is fighting against what laws ' Caesar ' makes, then he is a fake (weed/tares ) Christian.
P.S. I know a couple who wanted to adopt and then the birth mother changed her mind and took the child. The couple had ' their son ' for a few years before everything fell apart. They cried a lot, and even concerned because the birth mother had been a drug user. They are now too afraid to try adoption again.
I know of another case where the mother left, and her step-daughter, who was in her late teens, raised the step-mother's son for 9 years before the birth mother surprisingly showed up and took him away. After raising the boy for 9 years the heart-broken step-daughter felt as if she was the boy's mother.