Why is it Important to Love Who You Sleep With?

[DallasApple]

Smart woman.

And Im supposed to be the male basher? The one that people feel sorry for that men have sex on the brain?

I think it was YOU..who said you felt sorry for me if "my experience" led me to believe men would prefer the woman to greet him at the door NAKED but for an apron with some chicken wings and some beer ..and that he coudl have sex before during or after.

Now..she is a "smart woman" if it comes from a man but the same sentiment?

Whatever..YOU perpetuate that men want sex and sex first..YOu can do it becuase you are a man I suppose..If I say it you feel "sorry for me" that has been my experience.

Love

Dallas

 

[Autodidact]

the woman to greet him at the door NAKED but for an apron with some chicken wings and some beer ..and that he coudl have sex before during or after.

Dallas

Now there's an idea. *makes note*

 

[Kilgore Trout]

And Im supposed to be the male basher? The one that people feel sorry for that men have sex on the brain?

I think it was YOU..who said you felt sorry for me if "my experience" led me to believe men would prefer the woman to greet him at the door NAKED but for an apron with some chicken wings and some beer ..and that he coudl have sex before during or after.

Now..she is a "smart woman" if it comes from a man but the same sentiment?

Whatever..YOU perpetuate that men want sex and sex first..YOu can do it becuase you are a man I suppose..If I say it you feel "sorry for me" that has been my experience.

Love

Dallas

You're so sexy when you castigate me.

 

[DallasApple]

That`s why it doesn`t count.

See that is BIZZARRE to me..It counts OUT of bed but not in.So love is ONLY real or important or a factor when you ARENT havign sex?Sex is just a bodily function then?

It "doesnt count' when you are in the most intimate of interactions with a person?

That is sad.

Love

Dallas

 

[linwood]

See that is BIZZARRE to me..It counts OUT of bed but not in.So love is ONLY real or important or a factor when you ARENT havign sex?Sex is just a bodily function then?

It "doesnt count' when you are in the most intimate of interactions with a person?

It`s just a joke Dallas, it counts everywhere.

I was just responding to strangers witticism and he responded to my response.
I thought the thread could use just a bit of lightening up.

See where that got me?


:sorry1:

 

[DallasApple]

It`s just a joke Dallas, it counts everywhere.

I was just responding to strangers witticism and he responded to my response.
I thought the thread could use just a bit of lightening up.

See where that got me?


:sorry1:

:yes:

No problem///

Love

Dallas

 

[MSizer]

The grass is always greener, eh?


It's true what you say about so many loving open couples.

I'm kinda wishy washy with the whole committment thing myself.
(at this point in my life)
I want it... but I don't.

Ideally for me, I would like to be the third in a (triad) relationship
with a really loving (also established) and amazing couple who wanted to live with me and my kids,
as a family... but i would have my own room...
and join them ... together and alone.... some nights.
I would never want to marry again,
but would love a wonderful poly home life.

I know. It's my midlife cinderella story.
It's a pipe dream.
What couple would want me and three/four kids.
It's crazy.
(it's not like I have any "fortune" to share)
Just me. and my children.
But the idea of it really sparks me deep inside.

I guess would like a home life of love.
But not marriage. Never again.

Kudos to you on you're openness and honesty. Why is it that I think if I had said those things I would have become the poster child for the moral collapse of modern society?

However life plays itself out, I hope you're happy in it.

8^)

 

[T-Dawg]

I think you misspoke.I haven`t accused you of wanting to follow my beliefs.I haven`t tried to get anyone to follow my beliefs, I simply answered the OP then defended my position when it was attacked, quite personally as well.

I did not attack you personally. I don't know where you get stuff like that. I see you attacking me personally, although probably not intentionally.

I`ve also just noticed a nice edit to your response to Smoke that I wouldn`t have noticed if you haven`t forced me to go back to evidence your personal animosity.Here it is..it`s nice.

Fyi, only the first line is the edit. The second line was in there before, I just inserted the edit where it was relevant, before it. I still don't see why you're making fun of me for that quote, I see nothing wrong with it, and everyone refuses to tell me what's wrong with it.

You`ve just managed to supply perfect evidence of why the conflation of love with sex causes misunderstanding while agreeing you conflate love with sex EVEN THOUGH YOU SHOULDN`T in the midst of an apparently misunderstood paragraph.I`m gonna give you frubals for that, thank you.

I can't quite make out what you're saying, but the sarcastic "thank you" at the end tells me that it's a personal attack. Why the heck can't you talk clearly?

Dear god I hope it`s clearer than the understanding most followers have of their own religions.

Unfortunately, it's not.

(But no, really, where did I give a personal attack? And what's wrong with saying that homosexual sex doesn't cause pregnancies and that sexual attraction and sex go hand in hand?)

 

[Circle_One]

I did not attack you personally. I don't know where you get stuff like that. I see you attacking me personally, although probably not intentionally.Fyi, only the first line is the edit. The second line was in there before, I just inserted the edit where it was relevant, before it. I still don't see why you're making fun of me for that quote, I see nothing wrong with it, and everyone refuses to tell me what's wrong with it.I can't quite make out what you're saying, but the sarcastic "thank you" at the end tells me that it's a personal attack. Why the heck can't you talk clearly?Unfortunately, it's not.

(But no, really, where did I give a personal attack? And what's wrong with saying that homosexual sex doesn't cause pregnancies and that sexual attraction and sex go hand in hand?)

Ok, guys, let's give this a little break for a minute, shall we.

There have been NO personal attacks by either side yet, but I fear we may get to that point and I don't want that to happen, ok?

I still don't see why you're making fun of me for that quote, I see nothing wrong with it, and everyone refuses to tell me what's wrong with it

I got what you were saying in your edit, TAL, and knew right off the bat that you meant no harm with what you said, however, I can see where people might have mistaken is at an attack. It was the "Bleh, I don't know about you then..." it could have been misinterpreted as you dismissing him because he was gay.

 

[T-Dawg]

I got what you were saying in your edit, TAL, and knew right off the bat that you meant no harm with what you said, however, I can see where people might have mistaken is at an attack. It was the "Bleh, I don't know about you then..." it could have been misinterpreted as you dismissing him because he was gay.

I don't understand how that's derogatory =/. Is "bleh" actually a word now that has a negative connotation to it?

 

[Circle_One]

I don't understand how that's derogatory =/. Is "bleh" actually a word now that has a negative connotation to it?

It just sounds like it had a derogatory connotation to it. Much like "Blech, this food is gross!" And also, it sounds very dismissive. I think that was the main problem.

 

[Quagmire]

"Why is it Important to Love Who You Sleep With"?

Because It's much less likely that someone who loves you will point and laugh.

 

[T-Dawg]

It just sounds like it had a derogatory connotation to it. Much like "Blech, this food is gross!" And also, it sounds very dismissive. I think that was the main problem.

Ok, I guess. I think Linwood was complaining about a personal attack directed at him, though, unless I misunderstood. Got any idea what that might be about?

Also, is there a way to refuse frubals? Linwood gave me frubals in order to make fun of me for something I said (or at least I think that's what he was trying to do).

 

[Aquitaine]

I wouldn't say it's neccessary to love whom you sleep with, but I am going to presume that most people here would come to the conclusion that sleeping with someoen they love is "better" than someone they didn't, am I right guys?

 

[ChristineES]

Assuming it's important to love whoever you sleep with, why is it important to love whoever you sleep with? What makes it important? What are the consequences of having sex with someone you love compared to the consequences of having sex with someone you don't love?

Well, if there is even the slightest chance of getting pregnant, it would be important to at least like whoever you have a child with- since that means you will have to deal with the person for at least 18 years.

 

[Circle_One]

Well, if there is even the slightest chance of getting pregnant, it would be important to at least like whoever you have a child with- since that means you will have to deal with the person for at least 18 years.

Not if you're lucky like me and they don't want to have anything to do with the baby

My son and I lucked out.

Oh, and no, that's not sarcasm. I'm serious.

 

[LuisDantas]

Assuming it's important to love whoever you sleep with, why is it important to love whoever you sleep with? What makes it important? What are the consequences of having sex with someone you love compared to the consequences of having sex with someone you don't love?

Sleeping with someone that is not a loved one forfeits the opportunity to sleep with someone who is.

 

[Circle_One]

Sleeping with someone that is not a loved one forfeits the opportunity to sleep with someone who is.

Care to explain/elaborate?

 

[Falvlun]

Assuming it's important to love whoever you sleep with, why is it important to love whoever you sleep with? What makes it important? What are the consequences of having sex with someone you love compared to the consequences of having sex with someone you don't love?

I would think that, if the love were mutual, it would result in better sex for both parties, ie, if you love someone, you want to please them.

 

[DarkSun]

Assuming it's important to love whoever you sleep with, why is it important to love whoever you sleep with? What makes it important? What are the consequences of having sex with someone you love compared to the consequences of having sex with someone you don't love?

Oh. This thread is about sex. And here I thought you were literally referring to "sleep".