I also meant to say inappropriate-ness is basically that which is not suitable for public discourse. If a woman walked around with 38dd and a big butt in front of me I am going to look and I may at some point have sexual thoughts. I believe at least in our era sexual objects and organs are best saved in private
So are you suggesting that the woman should be held even partly responsible for preventing you from having sexual thoughts?
Are you also saying that you find having sexual thoughts to be something that causes you injury or harm? If so, what is the harm or injury?
Even regardless of how you answer those two questions, isn't this getting kind of silly? I mean, if I see my neighbor's sexy butt, it might prompt me to think of having sex. But if I follow my impulse and have sex with someone, do I have a right as an adult to blame my neighbor for my having sex?
Again, if I see my neighbor's new car, it might prompt me to think of buying a new car, too. But if I follow my impulse and buy a new car, do I have a right as an adult to blame my neighbor for causing me to buy a new car?
If the answer to those questions is "yes", then where does it end for you? Where do you finally begin taking some responsibility for your thoughts, feelings, and actions? And when do you stop blaming anything you don't like about them on your neighbor?