ok. i have a child. and i can only speak from my experience as a parent
my son doesn't have to ask for compassion, he gets it automatically.
my love for my child doesn't depend on his love being reciprocated back to me. if my child disobeys me, because i know he understands where the lines are drawn, yes there is a punishment, however if i see that if he is truly repentant i see no need to further his self inflicted punishment. he now has regret, what else can i do? if he is not repentant then he doesn't understand the consequences of his actions. it is MY responsibility as a loving parent to show him what the consequences are, not to shun him or throw him out of the house. because if i do that, then my love for my son is all about how he respects me..which is not love but wanting the power of authority over him.
is it just to punish my son by throwing him in the fireplace because he hates me or second guesses me or mistrusts me?
if my son either hates, second guesses or mistrusts me it's because i haven't done my job...and his reaction to me is a reflection of what i've done to him.
we are mortal beings. if your god understands that we come with a ticking time bomb, why would he threaten us with ultimatums? personally i think the idea of god is that he is a really bad impatient parent, who is more concerned about being feared then teaching his creation anything knowing the short amount of time we are in the here and now but use that short amount of time to manipulate us. funny enough, this idea of god as being man made is supported by that very idea of an ultimatum due to our ticking time bomb. if there is a god, or whatever it is...i hardly think i am that important to be concerned about...some have accepted the indifference (the ticking time bomb) some are trying to make sense out of it, which is fine...however if these people that are trying to make sense out of it are also appointing their selves as the morally superior, then that is when i have a really big problem especially if their religious beliefs infringe on my personal rights because now the focus is off of them and placed on the wanting of control over others.
the comparison is not right at all
that's the mistake alawys people make
to compare to wrong things
first,god treat childs too,does he treat them like how he treats us?
no
they are not burden,they are not mindful,that's why you feel like that towards them
even if not my child i will feel the same towards him,he is poor at the end
but that doesn't make sense with a mindful arrogant man,right?
second,god is not father,i assure you
the relation between god and human is unique
it's very simple question
you know that (something) created you,how come you refuse to obey this (something)
you can't count god on his deeds,he is free to do what he want with his creature
that's not bad things about god unless you leave him
here is the point,we were supposed to obey god (all of us) since first day on this earth,and god would treat us with compassion,but challenging him instead makes you his enemy (in quran some people named as enimies to god),it's not about that you don't believe in god,it's about you don't intend to believe even if you found evidences
he didn't leave us lost,but he sent messengers,he sent evidences,i don't know why god should be merciful to his enemies??!!!,this is very unjust,and unlogic,i think some people made this lie just to make it like (god will forgive everything,then no need to believe in him or obey him),that's not in islam in fact...
you said:even there is a god,i don't give care
but notice,if there is a god,he will do his warning,right?
i don't know how to blame god after he warned us