Unveiled Artist
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I think you misread some things. No biggie.
Christian gay people may not have sex before marriage because of their Christian belief no different than straight people.
I and many women know we can't have children when we get our routine exam to check our ovaries and other female organs, especially if we have symptoms related to the body that helps a child to be born and grow.
I use straight because straight and gay are no different. I don't see why we should single gay people out. Making a point by using straight people since gay people aren't aliens (my words).
We are talking about desires of people in general. Yours, mine, Joe Smoe, Jane Doe. It doesn't matter. All humans have desires. Our desires do not define who we are as straight, gay, bi, transgender, people. Our orientations are apart of us. Many gay people gone there whole life without being sexually active with another person.
In this case, gay people aren't singled out. They deserve the same equal view of marriage, desires, love, and faith as straight people.
In other words, there are other bigger reasons I left the Church. I understand their view about homosexuality. I don't want to marry, so it doesn't affect me. I just disagree with it.
We are not special because we are gay. That is the point of all of our fight for equality. We are not special.
We deserve marriage just like Christian Joe. Gay Christian Joe may understand he cannot marry in a Church; however, he understands the difference between lust and love. He believes god chooses love. How he expresses that love depends on how god not the Church shows him how to express it. It is god who is the interpreter and gives him the blessings that his friend and he to become married. In a Church, you do not need a marriage contract to be married. To be legally married (Church or not), you do.
I hope gay Catholics understand and accept what their Church teaches if they wish to stay in the Catholic Church. I find it very wrong (but not the to where I'd leave the Church for it) to dictate a person's life (tell him to be celibate and do not marry and cant be a priest, etc) all because he identifies as gay. To be priest, you cant even identify as gay. That isn't a crime nor an action.
The whole Christian position about homosexuality is not based on what homosexuals are saying themselves. (edit) Their position is based on people's behavior. Unfortunately, they forgot gay people are not isolated in this. They aren't the targets of lustful behavior. All people are. Address the behaviors not the people who just say they are gay. That is wrong.
We are not talking about straight people. We are talking about gay people. In marriage we are not to have sex before marriage so how is one to know if another can not have babies before marriage.
Christian gay people may not have sex before marriage because of their Christian belief no different than straight people.
I and many women know we can't have children when we get our routine exam to check our ovaries and other female organs, especially if we have symptoms related to the body that helps a child to be born and grow.
I use straight because straight and gay are no different. I don't see why we should single gay people out. Making a point by using straight people since gay people aren't aliens (my words).
Yes we all have desires but we are talking about your desires not mine.
We are talking about desires of people in general. Yours, mine, Joe Smoe, Jane Doe. It doesn't matter. All humans have desires. Our desires do not define who we are as straight, gay, bi, transgender, people. Our orientations are apart of us. Many gay people gone there whole life without being sexually active with another person.
In this case, gay people aren't singled out. They deserve the same equal view of marriage, desires, love, and faith as straight people.
own desires and that is a way of rebellion from you.
I left the Church for more important reasons (please reread my post). The gay part was just an cherry on the cake.
In other words, there are other bigger reasons I left the Church. I understand their view about homosexuality. I don't want to marry, so it doesn't affect me. I just disagree with it.
Why do you think they make the devil with legs of an animal cause desires are animal instinct I talk this way to everyone believe me your not special cause your gay.
We are not special because we are gay. That is the point of all of our fight for equality. We are not special.
We deserve marriage just like Christian Joe. Gay Christian Joe may understand he cannot marry in a Church; however, he understands the difference between lust and love. He believes god chooses love. How he expresses that love depends on how god not the Church shows him how to express it. It is god who is the interpreter and gives him the blessings that his friend and he to become married. In a Church, you do not need a marriage contract to be married. To be legally married (Church or not), you do.
I hope gay Catholics understand and accept what their Church teaches if they wish to stay in the Catholic Church. I find it very wrong (but not the to where I'd leave the Church for it) to dictate a person's life (tell him to be celibate and do not marry and cant be a priest, etc) all because he identifies as gay. To be priest, you cant even identify as gay. That isn't a crime nor an action.
The whole Christian position about homosexuality is not based on what homosexuals are saying themselves. (edit) Their position is based on people's behavior. Unfortunately, they forgot gay people are not isolated in this. They aren't the targets of lustful behavior. All people are. Address the behaviors not the people who just say they are gay. That is wrong.
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