Most people would not consider me a Christian because I do not choose to be so contrained with this terribly outdated human theory of God. I do not attend church because it is a human creation that replaces God. I do not believe that Jesus was God because Jesus said that He was the Son, just as all men are the Son of God.
I cannot tell you how, each person will be shown in a way that is specific to them, but I absolutely know that God has created this universe out of love for us. So logically speaking, anything that conflicts with that idea is wrong.
I tell you the only thing God truly performed was the creation of the universe. God did not cause a flood, the earth changed and the angels had Noah build an ark to SAVE as much life as possible. God did not send fire and brimstone to destroy Soddom and Gomorrah, it was simply struck by a meteor. God did not punish women for Eve's actions, Eve commited adultery so she lost her immortality by judgement of her own kind. God is not so spiteful and petty, those are human faults.
What if Lucifer is truly the Creator of the universe? It's all just names. Some being created all of this and there are many, many names for Him: God, Brahma, Vishnu, Allah, Jehovah, Yahweh... But you choose a name that immediately sets people back on their heels, one that history says is a rebel against the Creator. So you too rebel and want everyone to know that you are not going to be pushed around anymore. Well I'm pushing...
We've all been hurt in our past by things, believe me I know that not all parents are good. I could tell you some stories... how I was tortured with religion by a Jehovah's Witness cult. Their idea of God was shoved down my throat and even though I couldn't breathe my spiritually ignorant parents kept forcing it down farther and farther.
But they did those things, they're responsible because they were the adults, not me, I was a child, what could I do? What was I responsible for? They are responsible because they are the ones who should have known better. I did not become responsible until I became an adult, and now it's all on me regardless of what my ****ty parents did.
It is not an acceptable excuse for a man who was abused by his parents to then abuse his own children. Religion is an excuse that some ignorant people wield like a weapon. The things we do to our children...
People blame God for those things because they figure that He should have stepped in and done something or at least not created a Christian religion that abuses it's weakest members. We blame God for hurricanes and flat tires, accidents, and but there really are no bad experiences. They are simply experiences.
If you really want to know what a bad experience is then I will tell you that it is a person who does not learn from their own mistakes or those of others.
You are supposed to have a full life experience. There is so much here to learn, good and bad, and God does not want to taint any of it.
He could point out this and that and do things for you like a parent does for their child but at some point doesn't the child wish to climb into the car seat and connect the seatbelt for themself? You chose to climb into the seat when you were born so you are strong enough to recognize and correct the painful mistakes that other adults made in your life.